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PMA Express to BFP #4

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Hippychic79 · 14/03/2017 09:50

Moving onto thread #4
Our intention is clear – to show AF the door!
Leave us alone biatch for the next 9 months…
We want to be upduffed – can’t be any more blunt!

So hop on board the PMA Express
Where all the passengers are lovely
And we’re all trying our best!

So come on Peggy Eggy and Doreen too – time for you to fuse…
Cuz we want to graduate with our friends, Ohb, Dolly & Moo

xxx

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Hippychic79 · 30/03/2017 12:11

Amanda #itonlytakesonesperm

Ohb Sorry to hear you are not having a good time of it. I think many of us on here would happily swap with you :)

Rainbow xxx

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rainbowsockstoday · 30/03/2017 11:20

@0hb0llocks from the conception of my son till the day we started trying again I had not even an overly affectionate hug from my OH. The start of us trying was DTD once a month on day 14. Then I slowly had to move him round to more often so we would DTD 3 times in fertile window according to the app. Now he's upset it doesn't work so the last six months have been all or nothing. Now he settles for eod from day 6 till day 1 as long as I don't tell him it's pointless AFTER ov

Ohb0llocks · 30/03/2017 10:31

Sorry I've been a bit MIA guys, but I'm just so fucking exhausted.

6 weeks today, DP and I have not DTD since conception now.

I'm tired from the minute I wake up until the minute I fall asleep.

Sickness is starting to hit too, only actually vomited twice, but nausea and wretching pretty much all day. I had hyperemesis with DS so I'm a bit worried it will happen again.

Don't get me wrong I am more than thrilled to be in this situation but I forgot how rough early pregnancy can be!

How are the other grads doing? Same symptoms?

I've been trying to keep myself and DS busy throughout the day so the tiredness hits less

AmandaP86x · 30/03/2017 09:54

Feeling frustrated only DTD once since getting solid smiley due to nightshift etc feel like Iv blooming missed my chance 😭😭😭

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Hippychic79 · 30/03/2017 09:16

dolly so pleased to hear your feeling more positive today xxxx we are always here for you xxx

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Hippychic79 · 30/03/2017 09:14

Thought you ladies may find this extract from my new book useful xxx

PMA Express to BFP #4
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Dollydaydream2829 · 30/03/2017 09:10

Thank you everyone! You know, it's especially at times like these, scary, worrying or just downright frustrating/sas times when AF shows that this group really kicks up a gear and makes you feel so supported and less lonely. Obviously as we've told very few people about the pregnancy yet, yesterday was quite a lonely time until I came on here. You guys really are like an amazing friendship group and I'm honestly so thankful for all the kind words Smile
Today, still spotting, still old blood so not too concerned as it's got no worse and as patient said, it is common in early pregnancy. FX it stays light or bogs off completely! Feeling optimistic again today though! #yayforPMA

rainbow sounds like your OH could do with a little bit of PMA. If he thinks it's a waste of time, what is he doing to help your chances? At least you're actively looking for things to get your BFP! Take no notice and carry on.

Hi olicat - we've all been newbies once before so ask away if there's anything unsure of and as hippy said, between us there's bound to be someone who knows/has experienced something like it!

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Hippychic79 · 30/03/2017 08:51

rainbow I would ignore your oh and carry on regardless... your doing great under difficult circumstances by the sound of it ... #loveaffirmations

dolly hope your ok this morning

sarahb eeeeek not long to go ... will you be testing or waiting it out?

moo #pmaforever

patient how you getting on ? Your having a relaxed cycle too aren't you?

olicat we would all love to tell you what to expect but from what I've gathered from mn and through lots of reading - everyone's journey is very different but we will all get to destination bfp. On thread PMA you can expect warmth, laughter and support .... These ladies are just lovely and between us all we know quite a lot about tTC... so if you've got any questions just throw them out there and we will all do our best to answer if we can
Xxx

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rainbowsockstoday · 30/03/2017 08:37

Hope you're ok this morning @dolly xxx

I'm feeling proper crampy so my bfn was more an early warning sign this month. Started my positive affirmations again because I'm struggling mentally with a lot and it's slowly helping. I look a right prat talking to myself as I walk to school though 😆 my oh thinks it's a load of rubbish but I don't care. Don't get paid till the 25th April and need all the money really. However I've just found out I get an extra almost £4 a day I didn't realise and that £48 bonus is going to go to acupuncture and see if that helps ttc and my positivity. He also thinks that's a massive waste too!

Moo31 · 30/03/2017 08:35

@hippy Pma! Pma! Pma! :D

Moo31 · 30/03/2017 08:34

@dolly you poor thing that sounds very scary. Hopefully it's just a one off and nothing comes off it. Take it easy.

Sorry to those who got bfns in the past few days. Hopefully just tested too early.

Ps charley if you're still lurking please come back - I'd love to know how you are doing :)

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Hippychic79 · 30/03/2017 07:17

Xxx

PMA Express to BFP #4
PMA Express to BFP #4
PMA Express to BFP #4
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olicat · 29/03/2017 23:34

Thanks for the welcome - not too sure what to expect with ttc as have had a few issues with painful cysts on my ovaries (though never diagnosed with pcos) but otherwise pretty healthy. Going to try to enjoy it for the first bit!

dolly - hope everything is ok for you. X

notparticularlypatient · 29/03/2017 22:13

Just popping by to give dolly a virtual hug, and say that as cakes I had a similar experience at six and eight weeks. Proper bleeding but still a heartbeat and no explanation. Was terrified but DD actually stayed put until induced 10 days after due date... They probably told you at the epu, but bleeding is very common in early pregnancy and most of the time all is fine.

Sorry for the unwelcome bfns today as well, I hope they turn positive asap!

sarahboro1 · 29/03/2017 22:13

Hey all, just catching up. Glad so many of you are having such lovely relaxing cycles, after all we're supposed to enjoy making babies right??!!

Dolly so glad to hear you and bean are safe and well, like hippychic says you make sure your little bean knows how important they are and how many people are waiting for them!! 😊

Cd27 here today and not a single symptom either way. I still don't believe I've ovulated so I'm guessing I'll soon have a small break and then on to cycle 13 😏 Must keep reminding myself fate has control and everything happens for a reason. Xx

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Hippychic79 · 29/03/2017 20:16

Hi phase cakes and magpie xxx

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Hippychic79 · 29/03/2017 20:15

rose love the fact that your recruiting for thread PMA #themorethemerrier
Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 29/03/2017 20:14

soph I keep a daily gratitude diary which helps keep my PMA up .... would definitely recommend :))) it was bella who originally said it
Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 29/03/2017 20:13

archies thank you for sharing about your acupuncture- sounds a lot more in depth than mine and it sounds well worth the £60 - I've heard that Moxi thing is good for tTC. I'm a cold type too.

rainbow acupuncture is supposed to be very helpful for tTC and generally good for overall health so I would recommend if you can find one and afford it. Reference the walking round thing - I googled that the other day and it suggests lying with hips slightly raised for 10-20 mins.... of course I lay there for 2 hours to be on the safe side 😂

dolly woah woah woah .... glad to hear your ok... how worrying for you... you tell that bean of yours that it has lots of mn virtual aunties who are looking forward to seeing him/her ... #pmaforever

Xxx

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Sophsta · 29/03/2017 19:16

That sounds incredibly scary Dollydaydream2829. Glad to hear the EPU are on it. Positive thoughts coming your way.

Still no AF which is irritating. Ready to get started on cycle 2! Feeling positive and planning on writing down three positive things before bed to get cycle 2 off to a good start. Can't remember who suggested it but it has stuck with me!

Dollydaydream2829 · 29/03/2017 18:56

Thanks for all the well wishes everyone! That's so reassuring cakes - although I'm sure a worrying time for you at that point as well. It's madness what the human body puts you through at times!
Just when you think you can relax slightly in your symptom - filled first trimester, in it comes with a curveball..... #preperationformotherhood

Sounds positive phase and dolly get DTD tonight and make your Xmas babies!!

Dollydaydream2829 · 29/03/2017 18:55

Thanks for all the well wishes everyone! That's so reassuring cakes - although I'm sure a worrying time for you at that point as well. It's madness what the human body puts you through at times!
Just when you think you can relax slightly in your symptom - filled first trimester, in it comes with a curveball..... #preperationformotherhood

Sounds positive phase and dolly get DTD tonight and make your Xmas babies!!

Roseandbee · 29/03/2017 18:10

Love the PMA quote hippy

sorry about the bfns!
And Dolly sorry to hear you had such a scare, Im glad the first scans turned out well though. Well done for staying positive its the best thing for you and your little bean x

Im only just coming up to my tww as just got my positive opk today
Ive got slightly different opks this month, still one step cheapies but they are wider than the old ones. This morning at 9am I was just faint line so def negative and 11am it turned to def positive. I tested twice because i usually get my positive today.

Hi Loa! glad you found us:) and hi Olicat

Oh and we are also considering Italy this year. went to lake garda a couple of years ago and loved it.

MissMagpie · 29/03/2017 17:18

Oh Dolly how scary for you. Glad the little beam is hanging in there. Sending lots of positive thoughts your way. Xx

Sorry for the BFNs today. You're not out til AF shows though.

Itsjustaphase84 · 29/03/2017 17:01

@Dollydaydream2829 everything Will be OK. It's reassuring to hear stories like Cakes

@ArchiesMamaBird I'm taking relaxed approach too. I check in every few days to see if any bfp. Keep us posted with the scan.

Maybe tmi but I had a ridiculous amount of ewcm at work today. It was actually.. Errr... Hanging off my when I wiped Blush. I've never seen so much of it.im not opk'ing but I imagine ov is near.