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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Hippychic79 · 03/03/2017 15:44

Okay ladies so we're getting pretty close to maxing out thread #2.... so here it is lucky thread #3

Big congrats to our double whammy bfp today ... dolly & moo ....

Now we bring on the Spring BFP's

Xxx

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Moo31 · 11/03/2017 08:06

*bumper bum!

Moo31 · 11/03/2017 08:05

Haha Bella your posts make me laugh! Enjoy your sushi and fizz (both of the alcoholic variety and the front bumper variety!!)

@hippy - glad you have something to look forward to this evening - hopefully your cousins don't know you're ttc and none on of them are upduffed so there will be no pg/ttc chat! Xo

Moo31 · 11/03/2017 08:05

Haha Bella your posts make me laugh! Enjoy your sushi and fizz (both of the alcoholic variety and the front bumper variety!!)

@hippy - glad you have something to look forward to this evening - hopefully your cousins don't know you're ttc and none on of them are upduffed so there will be no pg/ttc chat! Xo

BellaMoon · 11/03/2017 07:58

i'm totally taking a leaf out of your book @Hippychic79 in terms of keeping DH out of the background work that goes on with TTC, ie OPKs, teas, SMEP etc. he actually wants a baby a little more than me (i do, i really do, but it's new to me and he's always wanted a child) BUT since i got to reading up, OPKs etc he has become disengaged... prioritising the gym on SMEP days therefore energy is out the window! (i'm thankful for his tree trunk thighs don't get me wrong 😉)

he's always been "ready at the click of my fingers" before but since the click of my
fingers became a little more structured and precise, he's either feeling the pressure or, in his words "never felt less like sexy time".

So, next cycle, i'm POAS in secret... i'm not telling him a bloody thing, i won't be clicking my fingers, ok i admit i might shake my
toosh in his general direction but ill leave the instigating of pumpage to him!

hope y'all have a beaut day... canny wait for the rugby at 4pm as it's CHAMPAGNE AND SUSHI SATURDAY for me... whoop whoop (in true bella style, pictures to follow)

oh and the hope for a little fizzy front bum haha

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:49

Thank you moo no need to be sorry .... it's no ones fault ... just not my time yet. Thank you for saying I'm inspiring- I appreciate that. In terms of plans - I'm out this evening with my girl cousins for a meal so that should be nice .... I'm not sure my mind will ever be off tTC until I'm upduffed of course ... but I know what you're saying xxx

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Moo31 · 11/03/2017 07:44

Hippy I'm not sure I have any words for you except that I'm sorry Flowers af is going to have such a horrible stay she won't come back! You are so amazing in terms of staying positive - such an inspiration. You're right that screaming and kicking doesn't get you anywhere but if you feel the need we'll be the last people to judge you. Have you got any nice plans for today to take you mind off it?

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:20

As much as I want to #throatpunch ladies that tell me to relax about this ... maybe they're right .... xxx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:18

Thanks patient -you ladies are amazing - you really are :))) under the circumstances I know I am doing everything I can but i love reading and I'm a big fan of Emma cannons books so I've ordered a couple more and another book about mindfulness and keeping calm when tTC ... I stressed loads before and around ovulation this month which clearly didn't help .... I need to relax more around fertile wk ... its just tricky cuz dp doesn't know how hard I'm tTC and therefore doesn't realise how important certain days are for dtd ... bullying him into sex is clearly not the way forward 😂 Xxx

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notparticularlypatient · 11/03/2017 07:11

So sorry Hippy, it's so hard when you have done everything you can and still nothing. You are amazing and it will happen for you! And I don't think it sounds like you are not doing enough, so please don't feel like you have to find a fix - unless you feel it helps you. I have no idea what we did differently the month we conceived DD. I think it just took nature five months to get everything to work.

Sorry for those who have had af visiting. I am alone with DD this weekend and she is not particularly interested in me reading and typing on my phone, so don't have time to read back, but we will all get there! And hurrah for @Ohb0llocks and bfp!

BellaMoon · 11/03/2017 07:10

@Hippychic79 love love loves that... uninvited guest... haha AF, you're in for a tough stay at Hippy's house 🏡❌

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:02

Good to have you back salem xxx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:01

Oh thank you for the voucher frer !!! Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:00

Come on af .... get your fucking butt round here .... I'm gonna make your stay with me so god damn shit that you'll regret you came !!!!! Your sleeping on the floor... you won't be having any alcohol you won't be having any caffeine and you can fack off if you think I'll be getting the chocolates out for you ... you're a bitch and I'm gonna be telling you in no uncertain terms to fuck off, not come round again and to leave my mates on here alone too!!!!!!!!
Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 06:57

bella thank you Hun. I totally applaud your positivity too ... your posts are always funny even when you're pissed off your sense of humour shines through.
I've been through cycles where I've cried my eyes out and I didn't like feeling like that so I am taking a stand and refusing to let this get the better of me ... I know I will be pregnant soon, I just know...
I appreciate you saying that I'm not out till the witch shows ... I say this too .... but in my experience, these pg tests are usually pretty accurate .... she's on her way :)))
So I've ordered 3 more books .... obviously I'm not doing enough .... so bring on more green food..., more mantras and more yoga .... 😂😘
Xxxx

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BellaMoon · 11/03/2017 06:47

aw @Hippychic79 in true #PMA style, you're not out til AF shows (you taught me so wel), if IF she shows, then and only then, can you be out this cycle. i totally agree we should all "trust the timing of our lives" and i applaud you're continued trust and belief in this mantra xxx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 06:33

Thanks cakes xxx
Don't get me wrong - I am gutted and I feel the same pain that everyone tTC feels when I see that horrible single line / snowy backdrop or whatever .... but what's the point in getting down? It just makes for a shitty day and doesn't change the result.
Xxx

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CakesALot · 11/03/2017 06:29

So sorry @Hippychic79. You've been so patient. Well done for staying so positive, you're an inspiration to us! Xx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 05:51

Good morning ladies ....
well after holding out to test ... I finally caved and got a bfn....
I am gutted but in terms of practising what I preach ....
I am grateful for ....
My health
My dp whom I love very much
My family and friends ... including you lovely ladies
The fact I've got a job
And for the fact that I've still got faith and hope
I am also grateful for the fact that I am not crying and screaming about this result ....
of course i want to but I've done that before and it just drains me and makes me feel worse so as much as it pains me to say this ... it's not quite my time yet
#onemonthclosertomybfp
Xxx

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Moo31 · 10/03/2017 21:52

Oh Amanda that's terribly young, I can't even imagine. Absolutely heartbreaking. I'm so sorry. I have everything crossed that this is your month Flowers

AmandaP86x · 10/03/2017 21:30

Aww Bella 💐💐💐💐 thank u for kind words. My mum was only 43 so always seems so so cruel. Taken too soon defo.

So I thought if I had BFP it would help me this month. ON CD31 and apprenely according to Ovia it will be a 33 day cycle.

BellaMoon · 10/03/2017 21:17

@CakesALot it's all about the banter #topbanter #topbantz #bringonthefizz

Moo31 · 10/03/2017 21:05

Enjoy @cakes! GrinWine

CakesALot · 10/03/2017 21:04

I hear you @hellybellyjellybean. I intended for there to be a bonus bonk tonight for this cycle but I'm barely awake on a Friday evening! Feet up and a bevvy instead 😊

CakesALot · 10/03/2017 21:02

Fizzy front bum!! That's ace!! I'm stealing that!

Moo31 · 10/03/2017 20:54

Thanks Bella! I wish I had the crying laughing emoji! I think I need to give in and get the app ... loving the jinx glad someone else has heard of it!

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