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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Hippychic79 · 03/03/2017 15:44

Okay ladies so we're getting pretty close to maxing out thread #2.... so here it is lucky thread #3

Big congrats to our double whammy bfp today ... dolly & moo ....

Now we bring on the Spring BFP's

Xxx

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SalemTheTeenageWitch · 04/03/2017 08:46

Sorry to hear about cycle 20 lala. You are such a strong person to be keeping your PMA!

Bella ooo I am going to have a look at that! Do they have to have 'brewed' (sorry!!!) for a few days?

lalathebear · 04/03/2017 08:36

Bella I'm 35 but had serious eating disorders 6/7yrs ago and they said I would never have children. I had one without trying (first time my boyfriend and I slept together 😬) and so decided after he was born to start trying again just in case. 20mths on and we are still waiting.

lalathebear · 04/03/2017 08:33

Dolly we are on cycle 20 of trying so nearly two years with the bitch laughing at us. At first I put it down to ebf but now DS is over 2 and I've been told that it won't make a difference now. Yes he's still bf Confused

BellaMoon · 04/03/2017 08:33

@lala sorry about your BFN, cd30 of a normal 24/28 day cycle is strange so don't count yourself out til AF arrived. sorry to be rude if you'd rather not say but what age are you? i once heard a 26yo say "i'm hardly a spring chicken" #swiftthroatpunch xx

BellaMoon · 04/03/2017 08:31

@salem aww your DH must be feeling down about the TTC journey, it's so easy to just focus on ourselves isn't it. do you k ow Boots do a sperm fertility test thingy? my DH bought 1 when i got my OPKs but we'd just DTD and he decided to do his test right after, he's as impatient as me, and the test was a dud as his doreen's were too new! x

SalemTheTeenageWitch · 04/03/2017 08:30

Thank you for the kind words Dolly. How did you tell DH in the end? Sorry if I missed you talking about this, have had a mad week!!!

Dollydaydream2829 · 04/03/2017 08:26

Aw Salem, sorry about your BFN but you are only 9dpo and usually they say the faintest line is usually only visible from 10dpo? So I reckon you should try again tomorrow or Monday and watch for your BFP!
Funny you should say that about DH, when I told mine about the BFP, that was one of the first things he said after- 'I was beginning to think I had no swimmers and you'd be better off finding someone who did' ..... Bloody mental eh?!
Sorry about your BFN as well lala - how long have you been trying?

SalemTheTeenageWitch · 04/03/2017 08:18

Thanks Bella that made me feel better. I just feel frustrated as all of my irl friends/ relatives/ neighbours/ colleagues/ pets etc. are getting upduffed and I think, hmmm why me.

DH is going to the GP on Wednesday to enquiry about getting his Doreens (Wink) tested. He had an operation on his testes when he was 2 and there was a small chance he'd encounter problems when TTC.

We just chatted about it and he asked if I wanted to divorce him and marry someone fertile Confused!!! This journey is so bloody crazy.

BUT you are right, PMA. I'm not out until the bitch shows her face. Love this group, it's so helpful to talk through these things with people who are going through the same thing Flowers xxx

BellaMoon · 04/03/2017 08:06

yes yes YES @salem hold out hope as you're never out til AF shows!

i can't tell anyone what's too early to test, remember i was the crazy cat lady who POAS from 4dpo i knew it was pointless but i had fun doing it

and i'm also the weird symptom spotter, sore elbow? yip you're preggers!

please keep your #PMA going strong, we're all rooting for ya x

lalathebear · 04/03/2017 08:00

Hippy we have had loads of tests and seeing the infertility consultant on Monday as I'm getting on in age and we've been trying almost two years. They can't help us conceive but can tell us if there's anything wrong that might be stopping it. My gp referred us because I didn't realise at my age 70% of people suffer secondary infertility after their 1st baby.

SalemTheTeenageWitch · 04/03/2017 07:55

BF fucking N.

Hmmmm. 9DPO. Is that too early? AF due Monday. Should I still hold out hope? .

Have had sore boobs (never get that), constant left ovary pain, bled pinky spotting after DTD last night. Wtffffff Sad.

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Hippychic79 · 04/03/2017 07:14

lala your cycle lengths look normal to me. I've heard that it is possible that we can miss a period and I've definitely had a few that have been a good week or so late for whatever reason. But equally like you said on previous post - sometimes the pg hormone is not always high enough to detect in very early pg ... I would sit it out for a few more days. Are you seeing the doctor Monday or have you seen him already? Xxx

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lalathebear · 04/03/2017 06:35

These are my cycle lengths for the last year... I'm right to test now and a bfn must be more than accurate at cd30. I'm obsessing. Taking a week off after seeing the fertility dr on Monday. 😂

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Hippychic79 · 04/03/2017 06:20

Hi phase and archies
Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 04/03/2017 06:18

sarah your preseed take made me laugh and I'd definitely request a refund rose 😂

I'm thinking sales of preseed and conceive plus are gonna go up today ☺️

Good luck with poas salem - ive got everything crossed for you xxx

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Hippychic79 · 04/03/2017 06:14

Thank you dolly and moo for the information, I love reading how different couples got their bfp 😍
bella glad you arrived home safely Hun and thank you for entertaining us along the way 😂
Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 04/03/2017 06:11

Sorry for your bfn lala although your not technically out till af arrives so I'll hold off on the flowers for now xxx
Sorry I always post my positivity quotes and then go back and catch up on the thread xxx

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lalathebear · 04/03/2017 06:00

Morning hippy happy Saturday xx

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Hippychic79 · 04/03/2017 05:58

Happy Saturday ladies xxx

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lalathebear · 04/03/2017 05:20

Not my turn today 😐 the test was a no no at cd30 toady.

lalathebear · 03/03/2017 23:36

Thank you moo I really hope it doesn't matter but I'm not confident enough. Nerves are playing up 😬

Moo31 · 03/03/2017 23:32

Hi lala yes cd1 is the first day of af then start counting your cycle again from there

lalathebear · 03/03/2017 23:20

Regarding SMEP... and day counts...

I've never been late before really so does everything shift along from when af arrives? Tomorrow should be CD4 but will be either CD1 or CD30 so does that make ovulation later too like normal and do I reset the calendar?

I've not been late like this before so don't know how it works. Considering how long we've been ttc I'm rubbish 😂

BellaMoon · 03/03/2017 23:00

@moo thank you - love the details ladies. x

Itsjustaphase84 · 03/03/2017 22:32

Just marking my place.
Ttc2
Age 32
Cd15
Cycle 4
Cycle length between 28-32 days
Bfp due 17/03

Congratulations on those bfps. Lovely to see.

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