#comeondoreen #pma3allthewaytobfp

I've tested way too early and depressed myself! Bfp due 16th! Absolute max of 9dpo today

@anna same for me! But my BFN yesterday has threw me completely off 😒 So think it's all AF symptoms.

Morning ladies!

I've never heard of a soft cup either! Who is next to test anyone?

10DPO today..slightly swollen boobs but that is normal pre AF for me I think. Praying it could just be silent symptoms and BFP will be a nice surprise! AF due Saturday so I promised DH I would try hold out. So hard though!

GL to everyone in fertile week! Get DTad lots!

Hope it isn't AF for you Charley xx

Ahhhhh so it's just my mooncup. I use that monthly anyway alongside csp's because I disagree with the waste. We've never used disposable nappies either. My OH says I'm a massive hippy!

Moo fab baby grow! 😍😍 it was red blood but now gone brown!

cakes I don't think implantation maybe it's dislodged?! Boak! 😂🙈

rainbow it's used instead of tampons but I use it for after sexy time to maximise the Doreen's 😂 only started it this month!

Thanks ladies 😘

What's a soft cup? And where are they from?

Also

Happy international women's day you wonderful bunch of thoughtful, amazing and down right lovely ladies!! 😘

#whorunstheworld

mrsb you're on one hell of a rollercoaster. Really hope you get some answers soon

EMHW no chance it could be an implantation bleed?? Or maybe old blood dislodged by the dtd!!

@MrsB did you say you were seeing your Dr this week? Hope you get some answers soon!

@EMHW - was it red or brown? If brown could be old blood? Sounds strange though on cd17? Are you sure you definitely had af 2 weeks ago?

Morning ladies.... hugs for everyone who is not feeling on top form, it's allowed to feel like that sometimes don't beat yourself up over it 😘

Can I have some advice please?!

So arsenal lost and I got lucky last night... woop 🙌 so anyway did a bit of the old shagging and popped my soft cup in overnight anyway removed it this am and blood in it-like a good sized clot- way tmi but bare with me, anyway now just a little brown spotting. CD 17 here, first peak ovulation on CD 11 and then again yesterday on cheap opk sooooo what the hell is the blood?! Did another 2 opks in same urine now and 1 high 1 low! 🙈for fuck sake!!!

Having a look back on my app I put a positive OPK for cycle day 19 in January and Feb. So maybe that's the day I am ovulating then 😂 I'll defo test properly this month so I know. So that would make me 10 dpo x

Hi ladies sorry trying to keep up.

I am on CD29. Feel crampy but nothing to show yet. Another 5 days until AF according to app but after that BFN yesterday I had a meltdown. Spoke to DH and he's like just relax enjoy the life we have the now once we have a baby everything changes and that's fine but we r having a good life the now like try and enjoy it and if it happens it happens. Like a part of me was like 😡😠😡 but then I though yeh ur right it happened easily enough second time (albeit 6 months after I came off pill) but still never tried as such (so yes I was one of they annoying people ☹️🙈🙈🙈)

Girl in my work preg too! See babies everywhere now think your just heightenend to it though.

Hope you all have a lovely Wednesday.

Well after talking to my running buddies it would appear my af would only stop due to exercise if my body fat was below 10%, which it is not! They said my af could have stopped due to either stress or menopause. Either way it's not looking good for TTC. Cd85 today. FX for everyone else.

Archie's, you have all rights to be frustrated. It is so disheartening when it takes time. Hope it happens soon for you.

Moo, thanks for that! I will follow hippys advise and dtd a lot before and after dps trip.

And Hippy, I'm totally with you on the oops-babybombs. What's up with We weren't even trying? A couple of my normally very nice and thoughtful friends have made a point of that they conceived first time trying. As if it was a competition! Not helpful.

Cakes, a big YES to a ttc break and feeling like a normal person again.

Morning ladies. Hope you're all doing well. After an emotional night with DC I am trying to make today positive especially for him. He needs to know I love him 😆

You know I said yesterday about af being only two days? Well I was thinking it might come back as I had a teeny bit of spotting this morning but barely touched the CSP and was kore when I was checking my CP. usually I'm on for 8-10 days so I'm wondering what's different. Also do you think to can get back to DTD now? Now af has stopped I'm all ewcm and bbt is on the rise which sorta means ov right?

archies it's so heartbreaking each month isn't it. I'll say the usual and that you're not out yet but I know that doesn't quite console. Be kind to yourself though and try to take it easy. Stress never helps anything!

rainbow hope you're ok hun?? These toddlers are trying for sure!! I was stuck indoors with mine all day on monday. I love her dearly of course but she is my shadow at the moment. I just want to pee in peace!!!

My cheeky night away in Edinburgh has been lush. Got taken out for dinner and drinks last night. Was so nice to act like a normal human being and not a knocker watching, poas-ing, TTC obsessive!! I ate what I liked and had a few drinks guilt free. Lovely. I can highly recommend escaping TTC for an evening and just getting back to being you!

bella we're sinking!! I'm defo oving so I'm counting today as d day. Tomorrow 1dpo. Need to get back to DH tonight for that bonus bonk 😂😂 and maybe another on Friday for luck! He's been so good this month at just letting it happen and not complaining too bloody right he should be feeling fecking lucky

I'm feeling very zen today ladies, I hope I can spread some your way. Love to you all xxx

And I couldn't even get my hashtag right!

#screwyouAFyou'renotwelcomeroundhereyouvilecow

11dpo here and a BFN on a FRER this morning

Permission to throw in the towel please ladies? Ok there's a chance I'm being slightly overdramatic (especially after seeing your post above patient) but after 10 BLOODY MONTHS, I'm really struggling with the PMA.

(I'll be fine once AF has been and then buggered off again) but it's so emotionally draining getting your hopes up every month to then have them shattered again when AF rears her ugly head. I don't know how many more months I can do this for

#screwyouAFyou'renotwelcomroundhere

*bust busy!

@Charley - I have everything crossed for you that she doesn't show today!

@Hippy - well done proud of you for resisting! Hopefully your bust day will keep your mind occupied!

@patient - I share your frustration as I was away over my ov but we dtd when I came home on Sunday night and managed to catch it so don't loose hope :)

@bella - it's exactly what Charley says - we are used to getting what we want when we want it and something that is out of our control is so hard to accept!

Have a lovely day all :) xo