Ttc after miscarriage thread #8

Well I got a big fat negative today af due today got cramps and sore boobs and I think I'm done can't carry on trying it's hurting so bad when it doesn't work out my littlest was always meant to be my last I've had a year of my head in the clouds thinking of a baby I'm starting to think is just not meant to be I was so complete before I got pregnant again i hoped trying again would help me feel complete again but maybe I just need to grieve accept my baby isn't going to be in my arms and move on I feel a bit like all this trying has brought me some closure just not how I thought. Wishing you all bfps and happy healthy babbas xxxx

Exactly what miami said swim kick up a fuss they need to sort it.

They phoned back. I've to phone GP and get a referral to gynecology. Said this unit is only for pregnancy and I'm not pregnant. No really! I felt like screaming I KNOW I'M NOT ING PREGNANT, THAT'S THE WHOLE ING PROBLEM!! Think it would have been different if I'd fine there in the first place. Now waiting for GP call......

Shit swim, no wonder you're feeling so awful. I'm sorry they're being crap and unsupportive. Where are you today?

Sending love and hugs x

Aww swim hugs to you. It's a really shitty situation but things will only get bethere

Spoke to someone at EPU, basically let the phone ring for about 15 minutes straight til someone eventually picked up. They've taken my number - they thought it might not be for them but someone in gynecology instead. Going to call back, do fingers crossed it's soon. I can't stop crying - haven't felt this emotional since the MC. Really hope they call soon.

Good luck lentil, sounds like we're having the same crappy experience. Hope you get some answers

Congratulations claire and user hope all goes ok swimchick and teamlentil

swim, I'm going back to the EPU today and it's been 8 weeks since my MC

Congratulations claire and user, I definitely se a line, fx.

Ffs, bleeding has just got a lot heavier tonight and back to clotting again. Really wish I'd gone sooner and not listened to the GP. Been 7 weeks since MC, so not great if some RP still there. Just want to get back to normal so can start TTC again. It's so exhausting. Night night everyone

I see a line user fx!

user we're all rooting for you! And Claire that's a great update, so nice to get some positive...er, positives!

I never could tell when I was ovulating in terms of feeling it, and this month is no different. But for the first time I have noticed the CM (probably because I was paying more attention) increased drastically over 2 days and then went away. Just so happens we had DTD in the (ahem) approved manner a few days before and the day of said CM appearing, so we shall see... As it's such an unpredictable month after the MC, I'm going to wait until AF is truly late (about 3 days) before testing though, so march on the 15th! Fx for anyone testing soon.

We'll see user. It's okay if this isn't the month but either way I'm getting pretty bored of not knowing and if af is coming I'd like her to show! Building cramps and back ache are usual af signs but it's gone again.

Get a digi with the weeks and give that a go when you've had another double-liner in a few days. Cautious cause for celebration for you but it's normal to feel a bit wonky as well so go gently on yourself x

Anne Those sounds like promising symptoms! Fingers crossed for you.

I'm not getting too excited just yet. Will test in a few days to see if the line gets any darker. Haven't told a soul other than you lovely ladies. X

I was sure I was out, lower back ache and low down tummy cramping last night and this morning. So so bloody tired as well.

But had a manic day and realised an hour ago it had been gone most of the day.

So who knows. Other weird thing is I'm well but almost completely lost my appetite the last two days.

What amazing news user! So happy for you, gentle hugs of reassurance and hope for you x x x

I left it until I was 4 weeks. Then went to the walk in one near me who are monitoring me every two weeks which is amazing as I'm not even having my antenatal care there!

Fingers crossed for you!

Ah that's ladies Claire how soon did they see you? I really don't want to get my hopes up x

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I'm still lurking 😜

I got my bfp immediately after my miscarriage with no AF inbetween. I was worried it was leftover HCG but the EPU saw me early due to the circumstances and confirmed it was indeed a new pregnancy :)

Great news!!

Oh I can see a wee faint line user!!!! Fingers crossed it's a BFP for u!!!!

I'm cycle day 26. My mums anniversary on 11th march AF due 13th feel like it could be a rotten month for me 😭

I see it!

Ladies I couldn't wait until Wednesday the curiosity got the better of me and I tested just now...I'm sure I can see a 2nd pink line if I squint?!

Is this too early? I don't know what to think if its a chemical or retained from MMC....seems too good to be true if it's a BFP

I knew i was pregnant about 2 weeks before af my symptoms were really strong but test was always - ended up going to a and e with pains because i thought i was having an ectopic hcg on bloods were 34 but no test until it was over 200 but she was a sticky baby unlike this time bfp straight away hardly any symptoms and ended in mmc. I'm having the same symptoms i had with my mmc but got a lot of cramping good luck. X