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Ttc after miscarriage thread #8

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Miami81 · 05/02/2017 20:07

Hey. Just starting new thread. Hope the rest of you find it.

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AnneLovesGilbert · 24/02/2017 11:05

Deep breath and try and relax. AF still isn't due till the weekend and all the tests have different levels they pick up.

Today, despite the stupid IC, you are pregnant. This is a good thing! Your First Response was clear as day.

Crazyvaperlady · 24/02/2017 09:53

Anne I just had a weird feeling! The spotting instead of AF, heartburn, dizziness etc. However now the initial excitement has passed I am incredibly paranoid. I have done an ic test this morning which is negative and I'm so so so worried that I could be having a chemical pregnancy. I suppose if I am there's nothing I can do so may as well stop worrying.

AnneLovesGilbert · 24/02/2017 09:45

Aaaaggghhhh crazy what brilliant news! What made you test again? Incredibly happy and excited for you. Sending you a gentle reassuring hug! x

emily could well be implantation, what DPO are you now? (I should make a spreadsheet of who's where!)

How's everyone today?

Claire, sorry you're joining us her. Second what crazy says, quite a few people conceive straight away without af ever arriving, it happened to me in September. The main thing is to wait till you're completely comfy, bleeding's stopped, and you and your DP/DH are ready then crack on.

clairelday · 24/02/2017 09:35

Congratulations that's great news for you!!

Think we might try-guess you never know what might happen! Fingers crossed!

Crazyvaperlady · 24/02/2017 09:23

claire I didn't wait for my period, my first one should have been tomorrow but I have a positive test instead, do what helps you!

clairelday · 24/02/2017 09:18

We would like to start trying again. We've had four days of tears but yesterday was the first day I was starting to feel like myself again.

I don't know if we need to wait for my period or can try before then.

harrietm87 · 24/02/2017 09:16

Aw crazy that's so great. My mc was 13 Feb so hoping I'll be just behind you. CD12 today (normally ovulate cd19) so not in FW yet.

Sorry about your mc user - do you want to start trying again straight away?

user1487926944 · 24/02/2017 09:10

Hello everyone.

Hope you don't mind me joining this post. I'm Claire and sadly had a miscarriage on Monday 20th. Two trips to EPU and pretty devastated. First pregnancy-was about 6 weeks. But now the bleeding is definitely slowing down which is a relief. More brown than the bright red blood I had earlier in the week. I understand you can't try again till the bleeding stops but do you have to wait for a period?

Crazyvaperlady · 24/02/2017 08:41

Thanks :) harriet no I had the miscarriage on 26th January, stopped bleeding on 31st, ovulated on the 5th Feb!

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Miami81 · 24/02/2017 08:15

Crazy
Great news. Delighted for you.

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harrietm87 · 24/02/2017 08:07

Congrats crazy! Sorry I should know this but this was your first cycle after mc? Did you have a period in between?

WLMcI · 24/02/2017 07:36

crazy congratulations! I'm never able to see dubious lines and even I can see that one before I've put on my specs Grin

Crazyvaperlady · 24/02/2017 00:32

Thanks swimchick I can't believe how lucky I've been to catch straight away!

swimchick1980 · 24/02/2017 00:26

Yay crazy. Congratulations! Grin

Crazyvaperlady · 23/02/2017 23:25

Thankyou all! Trying so hard to stay calm and collected when inside I'm flapping Grin

fluffiny31 · 23/02/2017 22:39

Crazy I can definitely see two lines on the second test. Congratulations I've been waiting on your post. Smile
Well i feel like my af is on its way. A bit early though as thought i only ov at weekend but I've got stomach cramps tonight Sad

88claire · 23/02/2017 22:36

I can see it *crazy

congratulations!!*

Waterfeature · 23/02/2017 22:23

Oh crazy, congratulations! Fab news!

Crazyvaperlady · 23/02/2017 22:11

Thank you emily ooh I so hope I am! Will update Saturday for definite :)

emily86 · 23/02/2017 22:06

Well, I can definitely see a line on that one! Even with my wine goggles on! Tentative congratulations and much finger crossing.

Crazyvaperlady · 23/02/2017 22:02

:)

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Crazyvaperlady · 23/02/2017 22:01

Yes I am... here's the other test

emily86 · 23/02/2017 21:51

Oooh! I think I see it crazy. Are you going to test with FMU tomorrow?

I asked DH to give me a pessimistic pep-talk earlier to try and get me out of this mind set that this month we'll be successful. Had some brown CM this morning and then nothing since. Implantation bleeding???

Anyway, in the spirit of not being pregnant (yet, hopefully) and being on holiday I have just had rare steak with blue cheese sauce all washed down with red wine. Wine

Crazyvaperlady · 23/02/2017 21:28

Eeek

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Crazyvaperlady · 23/02/2017 21:23

ladies I think I have my BFP Grin

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