Destination conception ... route PMA.

You are so right Anne - you can't beat a decent nights sleep and if you're managing to achieve this during the 2WW - you're doing well... I find myself waking up a lot during the 2WW especially when I feel like I'm in with a good chance. It's exciting but nerve wracking ... especially when TTC #1.....
Can't wait till we get our first BFP's
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I found these for us Irish xxx

Morning ladies ... Happy Monday :)))

Welcome Irish - hopefully you will bring yourself and us all the luck of the Irish. My Nan was Irish - beautiful country, love it :) You're welcome, I love prayers and affirmations... the religious side of me comes from my dear old Nan. I would definitely recommend OPK's - I find that they're a double edge sword though, they take the guess work out which is great (less stress) but then if you don't get chance to dtd within the 48-72 hour window, it does stress me out, but hey ho.... least it saves a pregnancy test lol xxx

Tonks - Hi and welcome to you too.

PMA is a learnt behaviour closely linked to optimism - so yeah it does feel forced at first, especially if your default setting is to see the bad in things... but with practice ... it will soon become a good habit and will help with every area of life not just TTC. It's good to get something definite as we travel towards our BFP's.
How long are your cycles? CD11 is quite early but not a bad thing - my last positive opk was CD13 on a 26 day cycle... my cycles range from 26-28 days usually.

Anne - welcome to you too. Sorry to hear about MC & MCC, completely see why you'd be nervous... so i think its even more amazing that you are staying positive, its ace.

Yeah the 2WW is a pain but fair play for keeping busy & focused on being healthy & relaxed.... it really is all any of us can do until mother nature gets an iphone and decides to text us when we're pregnant or even better, gives us the month that it will happen so we can all drink a little wine up to that month :))))
I'm using Ovia too :)))

Sweet - I'm totally with you on dtd ... if oh succeeds one night, I can guarantee it will be a minimum of 4 days if not 5 before he's up for it again, unless of course there's planned events which may mean if we don't dtd sooner he may have to wait more than a week. I'm lucky if i get laid once a week at the moment as he's so freaking tired ... and I'm even luckier if he completes the deed!

Salem - I wasn't getting any positive opk's at first so I started weekly acupuncture and now i am ovulating ... I know its expensive in most areas but there's only a few fertility points so if you enquire about it, just say you only want a couple of needles (not whole body healing) and that you want it weekly and he or she may do you a deal... worth an ask. I pay £7.50 an hour and was shocked how cheap it was!

Have a beautiful day ladies
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Sweet - thank you for saying your oh doesn't have the highest of sex drives either ... I sometimes feel so alone when lots of people on here are dtd every day in fw ... I'm like ... really?? I could only dream of having sex 7 days on the trot xxx

Welcome Salem :)) everybody needs PMA ... tTC or not ... feel free to share good and bad ... but preferable if good outweighs bad :)))
I get that it's shit when af rocks up but we need to see it as one cycle closer not one step back :))

Sweet - you are more than welcome to stay ... I just wanted to set up a positive vibe thread where we all step in and cheer each other up if need be ... I read so many threads where someone starts venting or whatever and before you know it everyone's pissed off and then I see a string of bfns ... so I thought I know pma all the way to bfp :)))
Everyone is welcome here - xxx

Welcome Drop :))) yeah try not to obsess about it too much ... easier said than done though ... we all totally get that :))).
My oh doesn't want to properly start trying for another 6 months or so ... that's why my journey is taking a while ... I'm having to time the tackle precisely ... and hope he's up for it at the right time... last month we were poorly so I didn't count that cycle ... the other two cycles were too early or too late of ovulation by 2-3 days ... so I'm using opks now ... the clear blue digital ones as they give you a definite and I can't be doing with the maybe a line maybe not shit :)))

Charley - I hear you on the not as healthy as you should have been in your younger days - oh and I have lived our lives to excess too ... we're no longer rock on roll ... more like cup of tea and digestives these days ... but I'm remaining positive that our gym and organic eating should be compensating for our past misdemeanours:))

Sweet - your very lucky to have a DS ... you know from experience that good things take time ... at least your body knows what it's doing ... I'm tTC #1 ... so have banned symptom spotting on the basis that I have no freaking idea what I'm looking for and I refuse to keep googling the shit out of everything pregnancy related :)))

Thank you all for joining ...
All welcome xxx

And one more Sunday prayer xxx

More PMA xxx

Some PMA my lovelies xxx

Thanks for the heads up on pre seed Sk1pper- let's hope I can time the tackle and he scores the goal this cycle :)))
You're a true inspiration on here mate - you really are ... I can't freaking wait to see you bfp ... it will be better than all the flitters (girls who come on to show their bfp and then piss off) put together!!!!
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Wow that's a very very long day I'm not surprised you only dtd once in the week! POsitive - you've both got high sex drives ... this is great and you're only 25 ... wish I was :))) I'm 38 and oh is 41 ... you'll have children by the time you reach our ages :))
Enjoy dtd as much as you possibly can that's what I say xxx