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Frustration post pill

35 replies

Dolwar · 21/01/2017 18:03

We are ttc #1 and I came off the pill mid December, had withdrawal bleed as usual. Since then....nothing. I was due to have my period last Monday (pre pill I was very regular 28 day cycle) but no sign of it. And yes pt was negative. I'm really confused now because I had all the usual signs of AF - spots, greasy hair etc but that was it. I have no idea where I am in my cycle and it's very confusing and frustrating. Just wanted to vent really AngryHmm

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OnNaturesCourse · 13/02/2017 21:03

"Needing some 2WW buddies" is my new stomping ground , lovely supporting ladies xx l

Sshsecretenclosed · 13/02/2017 20:59

Definitely. It's so good to have support.

OnNaturesCourse · 13/02/2017 20:49

Yeah im about 5 dpo... But coming down with a cold and AF pains 😌 already looking forward if im honest, best way to rein my hopes in lol. Keep in touch xx

Sshsecretenclosed · 13/02/2017 20:17

Hi nature Ermm trying not to stress myself out this month. Just lots of DTD. Am ovulating right now - potentially. So lots of DTD but I'm not complaining! How about you??

OnNaturesCourse · 13/02/2017 19:55

shh how are you getting on?

OnNaturesCourse · 11/02/2017 10:47

My DP mentioned it last night and said the only reason people say you're most fertile in the 3 months after stopping the pill is the ladies drive goes through the roof 😊😂

Sshsecretenclosed · 09/02/2017 21:04

I'm exactly the same!! 10 year relationship and 9 of them on the pill.

OnNaturesCourse · 09/02/2017 20:28

Yeah, I started the pill when I was 16 after being sexually active once so for 11 years I've had nothing to compare my drive too. Thought it was just how I was... I was so wrong lol

Sshsecretenclosed · 09/02/2017 19:33

Onnatures I feel the same. Don't think I ever want to go back on the pill again tbh. Feel like I've lost the last few years and last few weeks have been amazing!

MrsL2016 · 09/02/2017 17:29

Thanks for the advice everyone. I wish you all luck for TTC and getting your BFP's. Hopefully I will be joining you soon.

Redpony1 · 08/02/2017 10:47

Hi Supper i am now CD64 post-pill!! Boring now. I ovulated on 25th Jan though and Ovia made me test today, BFN. Just wish i knew when AF will be here!

OnNaturesCourse · 08/02/2017 10:23

supper sorry to read that AF is AWOL , but from what ive read (i love research) its normal for this to happen at first xx

OnNaturesCourse · 08/02/2017 10:20

I was on that too mrs ... So far ive been rather lucky. After withdrawal i had a 34 day cycle, ovulated around CD 18/19, then a four day AF which was seriously light except for day 2 of it. Im now CD 14 with a positive ovulation test yesterday. Im keeping my fingers crossed that things remain steady. Id stop the pill about 3-6 months earlier than when youd look to ttc but it can be done in a lot less time, totally depends on your body xx shh i totally have the crazy sex drive too, DP is wondering whats happened... 😂 its me pestering him now. For this reason ill definitely have to think twice about ever going back on the pill. Xx

Supper16 · 08/02/2017 06:52

Hello everyone,

I'm also on my first cycle post pill, CDbloody43 and no sign of af :( I did a Frer a week ago and bfn, I really don't want to test again.

Fertility friend says it can't detect an ovulation pattern now, which I guess would make sense (and I'm a terrible temper, I keep missing days and I don't think the thermometer is reliable).

How are you both getting on Dolwar and Redpony?

allthecheese · 07/02/2017 22:34

Hi Mrs, I was also on microgynon. I stopped in August 2016, but I think my cycles are a bit messed up still, and to be honest I wish I had come off earlier so I knew my body a bit better now. So I would come off sooner rather than later.

Sshsecretenclosed · 07/02/2017 18:33

Hi all. My period was only three days! Welcome surprise. I'm now on CD 11 and hoping for signs of ovulation soon possibly would be lovely thanks! Amazed by how much I want to DTD with DH blushes Amazed at how the pill had zapped that!!

MrsL2016 · 07/02/2017 17:48

Hi everyone.
This is my first post and I was just curious what pill everyone was on before TTC. I am on microgynon and trying to decide the best time to stop, and hearing all your stories has made me think I should stop sooner to plan for a settling in period (no pun intended). I was planning on stopping pill in April and TTC from May with the hope of getting pregnant in the following few months.

OnNaturesCourse · 07/02/2017 16:12

How are you all getting on ladies

OnNaturesCourse · 29/01/2017 01:56

shh.. im trying to see it as clean break, a clear out before the hardwork starts but i was disappointed. I have my 2 year godson visiting next weekend, almost makes my ovaries hurt i want a baby so bad

Dolwar · 28/01/2017 22:57

Ssh that's fab news for you. Next month could be your month!! Still nothing here :-(

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Sshsecretenclosed · 28/01/2017 14:16

Thanks Purple for your support!! I know, I know I def should. I also thinking I want to get away half term week - coincides with possible fertile week - but wonder if It will also relax me about all this conception stuff!!

purplek1tty · 28/01/2017 14:03

There's no reason to think that. Getting a period after 28 days is brilliant! Think of it now as your proper month 1 of a normal post pill cycle Smile

Sshsecretenclosed · 28/01/2017 13:43

Thank you Purple I'm so difficult to please because I'm also worried my body is tricking me that things are back to normal and next month AF will be elusive - there's no pleasing me!!

purplek1tty · 28/01/2017 13:34

Shhh I completely understand your disappointment, but please be thankful that your cycle has snapped back so quickly. Its not the same for everyone and is a really positive thing! Smile I had to wait 6 months just be where you are! Hopefully cycle 2 will be your month Grin

Sshsecretenclosed · 28/01/2017 12:46

Finding it tough today to be honest. DH could sense the disappointment and said maybe you still might have a chance that it's not a full period just body tricking you (!) Bless him. It isn't the body tricking me, it's bright red. Part of me is trying to think at least now I will have lovely fresh lining for a fresh little sticky bean - hopefully. Other part of me wants to cry and to top it, i'm out for dinner tonight and one of my friends has a four week old - and it's her first outing without bub. I wanted it to be my month. I know i'm being irrational as it's only month 1 but it's difficult to not get so into it isn't it?

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