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Getting Ready for Baby Challenge -Pt 2

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confusedat23 · 16/01/2017 11:17

Just a follow on from our 1st thread!

Theres is our motherhen, we are all just a bunch of crazy ladies either TTC or waiting to start!

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Tigger83 · 25/01/2017 07:57

I'm in...

Lost 3lb so far this Jan
Would like to loose 25lbs by April

Using ww which usually works for me- I weigh in on a Friday.

Feeling a bit sorry for myself still period pains are bad this month and I think I've got the startings of a chest infection.

Sorry I don't usually moan as much as I have done the last few days. Sorry everyone else is having a rubbish few days too!

Confused he sounds like a knob!

Let's think positive thoughts today and I will post something happy after work lol

TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 25/01/2017 06:10

So diet plan - let's say where we are up to and our aim for the rest of the month.

I'll start.

Lost so far - 7 lbs
Aim for Jan - at least 8 lbs (ideally wanted to lose 10 lbs)

Aiming to lose 2 lbs a week so need to lose at least 8 lbs in Jan to be on track.

TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 25/01/2017 06:05

Hooray! I can link turns on a ski slope just about and I can link websites - who knew!

TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 25/01/2017 06:04

Ah sounds like we are all suffering from a chronic lack of motivation! Glad it's not just me. Right let's try and rein these diets in a bit. Mine has gone off the boil too. No loss this week and since then I've had a chocolate bar, bag of crisps, three slices of dominoes and chicken crispers and chips from chillis - it stops here!

Still doing dry Jan but going to try to up the exercise levels a bit. And keep drinking lots of water. I need to meal plan and make a list of what we are going to eat so I don't fall into a disorganized trap!

Confused - your ex sounds like a knob. Sorry that it looks like your friend is spilling the beans. Be very careful what you tell them. I'd be tempted to pull them up on it and make it clear the position you've been put in by their gossiping!

I found a website which listed tips to bring on AF including some natural remedies but I can't link it for some reason!

m.md-health.com/How-To-Induce-Your-Period.html

Not sure if this will work?

DancingUnicorn · 24/01/2017 23:15

Confused I really hope you can get something sorted with the house soon. 💐

DancingUnicorn · 24/01/2017 23:14

So sorry about all the bad days. I just ranted on the phone to my oh about mine too! Must be something in the air!

Diet is dead. I feel like I deserve all the good things. I'll worry about the consequences next week when I weigh in!! It's all ok as long as I can fasten my trousers, right?!

Wiggleyfingers · 24/01/2017 22:11

Oh no ladies! I've had a crazy day and popped back to find you've all had horrid days. Mine has being quite rubbish too. Same as buzz stretched too thin. Who was the other user who worked in a school? We have so many staff off at the moment with illness.
In other news, my diet has completely gone to pot but I have just been food shopping and picked out lots of healthy alternatives to stop me snacking goodies in the staff room! Awaiting AF and want to stuff my face. Anyone else get extreme tiredness as a PMS symptom? I can't find the energy to do anything! God knows what it must feel like in early pregnancy.

confusedat23 · 24/01/2017 22:08

Well its a bit of a long story but basically Ex was abusive and financially controlling i moved back home for a week to help my parents move out and met my now DH and fell madly head over heels (i know its wrong but yeah) anyways i walked out on Ex and felt so bad about it (because of controlling ways) i left it a year without getting solicitors involved... then never told him about DH or wedding etc incase he turned nasty about the house and cut all ties with all but one mutual friend!... who has now spilled the beans to ex so he has contacted trying to call (i never answer so solicitors can see written copies of texts instead!) and he never calls and so i knew something was up.. he tried asking about legal stuff and it all gets spun into this creepy convo saying a belated congrats from him and how we are obv going to be having kids next... so i asked him if our mutual friend had told him this info and he got all weird saying he is psychic and how he can see the future and how me and DH are going to have a little girl... safe to say i havnt replied since! But i can imagine him sitting with a sickening grin so pleased that he has creeped me out!

I hate that feeling Buzz sometimes it seems like the more senior you get at work the less work you end up doing!

You are doing well with the SW stuff!!

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buzzmoon · 24/01/2017 21:54

Wow confused that sounds stressful!! Is he refusing to give you it?

Just so much going on at work at the moment and I'm stretched so thin and people just demanding more and more! Yet colleagues who get paid more than me are just chilling while I'm running around like a mad woman! 😡

I went for SW sausage casserole and not so SW roasties from the freezer. We are trying to eat through the freezer at the moment, so meals have been pretty inventive!

confusedat23 · 24/01/2017 21:22

Oh and to too it all off got the emotionally abusive ex-bf texting me shit to try and psych me out (i am currently forcing him to give me the money for my half of a house we stupidly bought together!)...

What has happened to the world today! Lol

Awhh Buzz what happened? And chips still have vitamins in them too!! Lol

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HeyJupiter · 24/01/2017 21:22

confused and buzz sorry you've had crappy days. Maybe pick something off Wiggley's list of treats to cheer yourselves up? I need to get back on the weight loss too, so easy to slip, especially when concentrating on the TTC stuff so hard (but really I guess they should go hand in hand.) Don't want to undo the good work I did last year pre-wedding. Will weigh in tomorrow...

buzzmoon · 24/01/2017 19:28

confused I feel for you, literally had the worst most stressful day at work today too! Just on my way home and tempted to pick up chips but I know that's so bad!
I'm dwindling weight loss wise too so it's all going bad!

Congrats on finishing the exam tigger you can relax now!

confusedat23 · 24/01/2017 19:05

Just fed up with gettung berated when i simply assumed someone was going to cover my work yesterday afternoon... but no even though someone was covering me they didn't do my work and now im getting told i should have done it before i left... even though i wouldnt have had all the information!!

That ladies is male logic for you Hmm

Oh Grumpy not good for me either! Ive put on 2lbs!!! 😭

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TheGrumpySquirrel · 24/01/2017 18:32

Terrible day on the health front.. had lots of sugar and salt and wine and coffee! I felt slim this morning (at my YTD 2017 low weight) but quickly started bloating up. Workout and no dinner for me tonight.

How's everyone else doing on the weight loss?

HeyJupiter · 24/01/2017 18:29

Oh no confused what happened?

confusedat23 · 24/01/2017 18:10

Always room for one more on our cycle Tigger!

Mummy have you retested today?

What tablets are they Theres sorry if i missed it...

I've literally had the shittiest day at work today Sad

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Tigger83 · 24/01/2017 17:41

I just need to get my head back in the game! Lets hope the Swedish northern lights baby dust works and at least my af is done and dusted before we go away and I'm very glad I've found cycle buddies and super glad the exams done.

Large g+t with cucumbers definitely required I think!!

HeyJupiter · 24/01/2017 17:33

Really glad the exams done Tigger :) Sorry to hear about AF but at least you can draw a line under this month. We can be cycle buddies with confused!

Tigger83 · 24/01/2017 17:23

Well exams done goodness knows how it went, waiting for oh in John Lewis having a savoury scone as too nervous for lunch. Af arrived like clockwork exactly 17 days after ovulation!

TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 24/01/2017 17:07

My doc said up to 8 weeks for everything to return to normal. I'd like to get it over with tbh as we are away the first weekend of feb for a wedding and ski trip and I just know it's going to time itself for that!

I'll try and find the name of the supplements. I found it by a random google search. Tbh I'm not sure I fancy popping any more pills but was just wondering if they actually work.

HeyJupiter · 24/01/2017 17:04

Haha MrsC was just about to say that I'm very happy to have some cucumber (in a hendricks gin and tonic!) Good old Ovia.

I am going to go for the alternate day DTD next month if needed as I'm already sick of tracking ovulation. Don't want my moods dictated by that silly clearblue smiley face.

How did it go tigger?

MrsC2017 · 24/01/2017 16:46

Haha red I love cucumber.... In gin and tonic.... Does that count Grin almond and avocado she is suggesting to me today!
She also informed me that if I get pregnant this cycle I would be due between 14-18 of October, DHs birthday is the 16th! That would be his birthday present sorted anyway!
theres and jupiter I think that's the best way to go about it(every other day) and it's what I'll be doing next cycle because I can't deal with my fertile week changing and dtd 10days in a row again! That's the beginners enthusiasm gone anyway!
For those coming off pill, implant etc did you get a timeline from doc as to when to expect AF or is it very much a waiting game? I think when my mirena came out it took 6weeks for AF.... Ironic as I spotted constantly with the stupid thing in me!
tigger hope exam went well!

Redpony1 · 24/01/2017 15:30

Oh and Ovia strikes again - crack out the cucumbers girls Grin Grin

Getting Ready for Baby Challenge -Pt 2
Redpony1 · 24/01/2017 14:16

thanks Jupiter

theres yeh, for the sake of timekeeping, i am counting since i came off the pill, no bleed of any kind as yet.
Which supplements have you seen? Agnus Castus?

Just done another OPK and it was exactly the same as yesterday....

TheGrumpySquirrel · 24/01/2017 13:46

Thanks Jupiter

Yes theres I'm counting CD1 as first day off pill.. nothing else to go on although I did have brown spotting for 2 days about a week later.

Just had wine with lunch and feel awful! Maybe I'm earlier in cycle than I thought. I just wish I knew if I have ovulated yet. Will use OPK next month (well in a couple of weeks if no AF!)

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