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January bus continued...? Anybody still clinging on...!?!

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Addtothechaos · 15/01/2017 09:04

Hi everyone,

Hope you don't mind me staring a new thread as the last is full to the brim now!

Just to recap myself:

Age 31
Ttc no.3
6dpo
1st cycle! (Agh!)

Anyone else?

Anyway I'm still clinging onto the bus but feeling extremely negative about this cycle as I've had what has almost! been the flu Sad
Couldn't get my sorry head off the pillow yesterday and feel like I've been 8 rounds with Tyson aiming right for the lungs!

Going to test on Thursday 19th as had my last two Bfps at 10 DP0

And just wanted to say thanks to everyone on the old thread that kindly gave me advise and a much needed pick me up with regards to being so --pathetically - Ill lol I took all advise on board and today I feel like it's finally letting up a little (woo!)

Hope are well and good news is coming for us all!! X

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Mandraki · 26/01/2017 07:08

I'm 11dpo and just had a bfn (promised myself I wouldn't start speaking in acronyms haha Grin) and I don't feel any different to normal so I'm thinking I'm out for January. Af isn't until Saturday and I have a couple of tests to take then if I'm late but I feel like she's coming. Only first cycle so can't complain, this one can have been our practice one! On to February...

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Addtothechaos · 26/01/2017 06:57

Thanks again everyone

I'm not feeling too bad today symptom wise as it's just like a period now. Keep thinking that in the days before home pg testing I wouldn't have had clue I was even pg! Just an eye opener to all of this testing early business now!

Much love to everyone Flowers

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MrsLoz · 25/01/2017 22:47

Sorry to hear Chaos.

AF got me this morning, on CD 38! My longest cycle since I came off the pill.

I've just ordered some ovulation tests off eBay. Not tried any before but since my cycles are all over the place thought I would check ovulation properly.

Onto the Feb bus I go!

Bows85 · 25/01/2017 21:55

Sorry to see this news chaos Flowers

RoseValleyRambles · 25/01/2017 21:38

glitteryvibes welcome! I'm 11 days dpo too. If af stays away, we can keep each other company here on the last few stops of the Jan bus! Do you have any exciting symptoms to add to our bingo cards?

RoseValleyRambles · 25/01/2017 21:36

Oh chaos, that sucks. Treat yourself to something nice :( . Fingers crossed for the feb bus for you!

MrsG30 · 25/01/2017 21:08

So sorry to hear this chaos Flowers x

powerpuffer · 25/01/2017 20:45

chaos I'm so sorry. What a rollercoaster of emotions you must have been through.

minime2016 · 25/01/2017 19:52

Aww chaos I'm so sorry-It's a horrible feeling to have your hopes dashed. I went through that last month, such a roller coaster. Be kind to yourself over the next few days(with wine and chocolate preferably Flowers)

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Addtothechaos · 25/01/2017 19:26

Also, the ladies that recently got Bfps I hope they are nice sticky ones for you! I've had two sticky ones in the past I just got unlucky this time so hope I haven't made you worry! Im sure all will be well for u all xxx

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Addtothechaos · 25/01/2017 19:24

Thank you everyone Flowers

I am gutted as is dh but it was so so early. Just one of those things I guess Sad I've been so lucky in the past that I think I got too complacent about it all and tested far too early!

Bleeding quite heavy now with small clots so does look like the inevitable. Will see you all on Feb bus to go again but I probably won't join in with the tww and will test when/if I'm well and truly late with stronger symptoms!

Thanks for all the well wishes ladies and morherhippy maybe we will eventually be on the same antenatal thread afterall ! Xx

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sarahboro1 · 25/01/2017 18:19

So sorry to read your news chaos. Xx

2ducks2ducklings · 25/01/2017 17:57

I'm so sorry chaos. I really hope things work out ok for you FlowersFlowers

Motherhippy16 · 25/01/2017 17:48

Welcome glitteryvibes! Love the name! X good luck for testing this week! X

Motherhippy16 · 25/01/2017 17:47

Oh I'm so sorry addtothechaos I had everything crossed for you. We will give each other and everyone lots of support on the Feb bus....it's the valentines love bus so must be lucky right? Dh just got a promotion today so fx for luck next month and beyond. Much love hugs and take care vibes to all x

glitteryvibes · 25/01/2017 16:15

Hi,
Im a bit late to join, was lurking.
age: 27
ttc #1, cycle 1
Not been on any hormonal contraception for years.
I am 11 dpo on a cycle that averages at 26 days +/- 1 so af due friday ish.
Have no tests in the house and plan to keep it that way until im officially a few days late if at all possible.
Symptom spotting like mad but then thinking that i never used to pay attention much beforehand so it may all be normal.

LucyLugosi · 25/01/2017 15:59

So sorry chaos, hugs

Flowers88 · 25/01/2017 15:45

Oh chaos I'm so sorry xFlowers

passmethewine123 · 25/01/2017 15:37

Oh no so sorry to hear that Flowers hugs for you, look after yourself and see you on the Feb bus x

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Addtothechaos · 25/01/2017 15:36

Hi everyone

Some bad news I'm afraid, Started bleeding this morn and not stopped Sad my symptoms disappeared just before and then what looks like af has arrived. Looks like a chemical pregnancy Sad

Will be joining you all on the Feb bus after all. motherhippy I didn't temp but I will next cycle and hope for the best again. One thing I am definitely going to do is wait until missed period by a week and test then. I've been lucky in the past by conceiving quickly and getting Bfps early but everything being ok. This time is different it seems! Will give it a few weeks and join the Feb bus once my body has settled down and also do opks etc but no pregnancy tests at all until I'm late so will opt out of tww next time.

Hope all well ladies, we will get our babies in the end xxx

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LucyLugosi · 25/01/2017 15:32

Congrats ducks and flowers!!

LucyLugosi · 25/01/2017 15:30

AF due on saturday and I'm definitely getting those few days before feelings!
Pretty sure I'll be with you guys on the AF train in a couple of days...
Ah well

Flowers88 · 25/01/2017 15:03

Also, as I've read hundreds of times, due to us both being poorly we literally dtd twice around ov - once day before and once day after.
I got so disheartened reading about couples who dtd 3 x a day and still didn't get a bfp!!!!
It only takes once I guess!

powerpuffer · 25/01/2017 13:32

9dpo and BFN on an internet cheapie this morning. I know it is still early days but it is so disheartening.

RoseValleyRambles · 25/01/2017 13:19

Thanks flowers - I'm seesawing between mild cramps and nothing. Usually it's pretty predictable but i had this once before and it just led to a late af. I'll know by Saturday, one way or the other. Don't want to test in the middle of a busy work week!

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