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5 days late!

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Chockywockydodah · 04/01/2017 13:58

Just looking for a bit of advice really?

Basically AF was due on the 30th of December, so as of today is 5 days late! And she's no where to be seen!

I took a test on the day my AF was due as I just felt a bit weird (spotty chin, headachy, bleeding teeth, cramping, backache). It's was BFN. Then I retested yesterday when I was 4 days late and again BFN.

What's going on? I've had horrendous back ache all day and keep running to the loo to see if she's here! Nada!

Thanks in advance! Grin xx

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Khaleesi85 · 18/01/2017 19:05

Hey chocky and others ☺

How are you all? Whereabouts on your cycle are you now?
I'm cd9. Lots of DTD going down in the hopes that this is our month. Just looking at ovulation tests are there any anyone recommends?
Really want to try and narrow down when I actually ovulate to give us more of a chance this month!

Hope you're all well. I've been so busy with college and work! xx

Chockywockydodah · 12/01/2017 12:33

Glad to hear everything has settled down now Khaleesi! Still pretty cramps over here but managing to keep myself busy running round after my two LOs Smile

Xx

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Khaleesi85 · 12/01/2017 10:33

Hi glen! Welcome here. Everyone is really friendly and supportive on here.
Your symptoms sound promising. Fingers crossed and let us know when you test.

chocky that sounds promising if this next cycle is meant to be more fertile. Fingers crossed we both have a successful cycle this time! How's your af now?
Mine has settled now. Was horrific to start with but bit more normal now. Was feeling disheartened but more positive now 🙂

Chockywockydodah · 11/01/2017 19:49

Hi Glen! Your symptoms sound really promising! Keeping everything crossed for you!

You're being so good by not testing! I couldn't wait that long 😂😬

Xx

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GlennRheeismyfavourite · 11/01/2017 17:56

Can I join too? I'm just on the cusp of 34 days when it's normally 28 or 29. I've not said anything to dh yet, I'm going to wait until the weekend to test as I have gone 33 days once in a blue moon. My boobs are pretty sore but I'm not sure if I'm imaging things! Keep feeling like AF might arrive but nothing yet - fingers crossed. Also weeing all the time!

Chockywockydodah · 11/01/2017 16:58

Same here Khaleesi, not so much heavy but really painful and crampy 😭 way more than usual!!

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Khaleesi85 · 11/01/2017 08:17

Morning all!

Well this af has hit me hard. It's a particularly heavy one this cycle. Clearly making up for being late! Feel rotten today so have taken the day off college and work. Just going to rest up in bed today and eat my body weight in chocolate 😂

How are you today chocky? And everyone else?
Hope everyone is good and certainly not feeling as bad as me today xx

Chockywockydodah · 10/01/2017 18:00

Fingers crossed for the both of us - next month will be the one!! Grin

Seems so unfair when that happens doesn't it Envy

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Khaleesi85 · 10/01/2017 16:58

Aww sorry to hear that chocky! Sending hugs your way. Seems our cycles are similar!
I'm hoping next cycle will be the one. Going to try harder this month.

Going to try and get a thermometer and chart my temp this cycle and also get an ovulation test kit so I can be a bit more accurate.

I've got horrible cramps. Really don't want to go to work tonight 😞 feeling rather sorry for myself. One of my friends has just announced she is pregnant and she wasn't even trying 😭

Chockywockydodah · 10/01/2017 16:01

Just started spotting, so think AF is finally here! X

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Chockywockydodah · 10/01/2017 14:36

So sorry Khaleesi Sad on the bright side, I've read some women get AF really late one cycle and then get their bfp the next!! Will be thinking of you!

Congratulations Sparky!! There's hope yet! 11 days late still no AF or bfp! Ah well

Xx

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Khaleesi85 · 10/01/2017 11:52

Congrats sparkly! Don't feel bad. I'm happy for you. And it does give me hope that maybe next cycle will be better

SparklyBlueShoes · 10/01/2017 11:44

Really sorry to hear that.

I got my BFP today after being a week late and having four previous negative tests.
Total shock.
I feel bad sharing this when you've just had AF arrive but hope it reassures you and others it can still happen.

Khaleesi85 · 10/01/2017 10:45

Well I'm officially out this month. Af has just arrived 😭

Khaleesi85 · 10/01/2017 08:33

Thank you chocky! I hope so. I'm crossing everything for us both.

On cd33 now. Longest cycle I've ever had! I wish I hadn't of given in and tested this morning.

It's so disheartening seeing another bfn when you feel so sure that it would be a bfp 😞

I'm crazy bloated at the moment too. I look like I have a bump I'm that bloated. Was so tired last night I could of passed out. Work was much harder than normal.
Fingers crossed!!

Not doing another test until the weekend. Don't want to keep torturing myself!
Are you managing to hold off the testing?

Chockywockydodah · 10/01/2017 08:12

Don't worry Khaleesi! It's far too early for you to be testing yet anyway! Lots of women don't get a bfp till after AF is due, and seeing as you ovulated late you'll be due AF later anyway!

I have a good feeling for you! Fingers and toes crossed! Xx

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Khaleesi85 · 10/01/2017 07:26

Just did a Superdrug test with fmu and bfn 😞 I don't understand. I really feel pregnant like I did with my DS. Still no sign of af.

Maybe I should of waited till weekend when it would be 14dpo 😞

Chockywockydodah · 09/01/2017 19:32

Being tired - another fab sign! I know it's been miserable today, a hot chocolate sounds like a fantastic idea!!

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Khaleesi85 · 09/01/2017 18:28

As the saying goes, every pregnancy is different! So maybe you won't show up on test till later especially if there's a chance you ovulated late like I did?!

Fingers crossed for us both! It's just the waiting I can't handle and the not knowing one way or another! I'm too impatient 😂
Monday is done just few more days to go!

I'm at work at the moment finding it really hard this week as I'm so tired! Everything feels like a massive effort. Not liking this rain today either. It's all dark wet and cold! Want to be at home with a massive mug of hot chocolate! ☺
Hope you have a lovely evening. Try not to stress. You will know one way or another soon. Just be patient! (Says the most impatient woman ever!)

Chockywockydodah · 09/01/2017 18:07

Evening!

I don't think you're being irrational at all! Completely understandable to worry slightly. You've just got to take it one day at a time and try to stay positive!!

I think testing at the weekend would be the best idea, as a bfp would defiantly show by then! It's awful seeing nothing when poas.

This line is so faint I could even take a picture if I tried! Think I've just got some serious line eye Wink I got a really strong bfp with my DC1 but a really faint bfp with DC2 but I tested 3 days early with him! Thought I would have got my bfp by now if I am indeed pregnant!

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Khaleesi85 · 09/01/2017 16:33

Forgot to add... I don't have much experience with FRER. When I've had a negative they have been totally white window. Maybe it could be an evap? Or a very faint bfp? I'm not sure. Do you have a photo of it? Maybe post it and see what others think? xx

Khaleesi85 · 09/01/2017 16:30

I found myself really panicking about it all today. The possibility of being pregnant after my miscarriage last year. Little bit scared because when I miscarried I lost loads of blood and nearly died.
I know it's an irrational fear as there is no reason to suggest that if I am pregnant this time it will end in miscarriage.
Just can't stop slightly worrying about it. I guess that's to be expected though.

Symptoms are really promising. Don't want to get my hopes up though, just in case I'm not pregnant. But it's unusual for me to be this late and not have any signs of af.
Fingers crossed. Still not sure when to test??
Thinking of holding on till weekend and then doing one with fmu. By then it would be around 12-14 days past my late ovulation.

I'm really hoping this is it for me. Can't bear another bfn.
Just remember chocky it's not over until af shows! So even though you got a bfn today. Af still hasn't shown. So maybe you ovulated later than normal? So there might not be enough hcg to register on a test yet xx
Thinking of you Hun. You never know this time next week we could be bump buddies! 🤞🏻

Chockywockydodah · 09/01/2017 14:28

Also, the symptoms sound really promising Khaleesi! GrinGrinGrin xx

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Chockywockydodah · 09/01/2017 14:28

Hello Khaleesi!

BFN for me this morning! Where the hell is my AF??

Also, does anyone know if FRER's are known for indent/shadow lines? The last two I have taken have had a faint line after about an hour? So faint i can't see any colour! But when I've had negative frers before they have been stark white??

Cd38 for me today :( still hope I suppose! X

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Khaleesi85 · 09/01/2017 12:45

Hi chocky,
How did your test go today? I hope you got your bfp!
Still no af for me! On cd 32. Very late for me! Fingers crossed it will be a bfp for me too soon!
I'm certainly feeling different to how I normally do in my cycle. My appetite has increased and I frequently need the loo! Not like me.
I just hate the waiting! xx

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