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Thread 23. TTC #1 - New Year, New Opportunities. Let's keep those BFPs rolling in!

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AlexiaB · 02/01/2017 16:29

Calling all OPK-ers, Temp-ers, Clomid-ers, Femara-ers, IUI-ers, IVF-ers and anyone else on the TTC #1 Bus.

Happy New Year! It's 2017 and it's OUR year Star

We've been going a while now so the novelty has somewhat worn off and we're slightly battle scarred and bruised in the cervix area. We've ditched the Gregorian calendar in favour of the TTC Cycle Day calendar, and we don't get a lot of baby dust in these here parts, we just keep it legs spread and fingers crossed (LSFX). We love a baby bomb from a prior bus-mate but if we get told to 'just relax and enjoy it' ONE MORE TIME you will get a punch in the face!

We have a new Grad's Thread. We recently lost a whole load of ttc veterans to the good side and we're absolutely desperate to join in the fun! May 2017 lead us all to upduffed heaven and the Grad's thread, amen.

We don't have rules as such but expect to be talked down from the ledge with kind but firm words if you get too hysterical. But most importantly, don't convince yourself that you're pregnant in the tww. That is paramount!

Hop on board, post your stats and prepare to be dazzled by the wealth of TTC knowledge we long-timeys have to share...

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FXSkip · 03/01/2017 14:17

music that's amazing!! Did you get a pic? Mine is next weekend and I can't shake the feeling there will be something wrong!

MissyJones83 · 03/01/2017 14:15

Glad you have a travel related note for work kwik takes the pressure off a bit

MissyJones83 · 03/01/2017 14:13

Yay music lovely news

Kathrino · 03/01/2017 14:04

Yay music, glad all went well at the scan today. Must have been wonderful to see that little bean on screen!

Kwick, glad you managed to get your fit note sorted. Hopefully you can take it nice and easy for the next few months now :)

Oh dear Alexia, I was looking at prams online yesterday (although not for me I hasten to add!) I fear now I'm going to be plagued by adverts too...

AlexiaB · 03/01/2017 14:02

Huge congrats Music Smile I had been thinking about you. So pleased all is going as planned and baby bean is matching up with O day Star Hope you can start to relax and enjoy it a bit more now.

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Hippychic79 · 03/01/2017 13:59

Hi ladies - just jumping this wonderful new thread .... thank you Alexia xxx

Firstly good luck Sk1pper xxxxx

My stats -
TTC #1
Age 38 (in days time)
Af due 16/01
Cycle 3/4 ... oh works loads so don't want to count the cycles where we don't dtd in fertile week and if the truth be told I've only been really trying for 2 months (using opks)... naively thought I would conceive the minute I wanted to ... what a dumb ass xxxxzx

Londonjam · 03/01/2017 13:58

alexia I thought that about this week - reckon there will definitely be a BFP or two. I don't think one of them will be me.

Glad everything is going well music, those early weeks must be really nervewracking. Hope you can relax a bit now.

Pyjamas that sounds like a hycosy. A few ladies have had them on this thread, and a few have been quickly followed by a BFP...

kwick · 03/01/2017 13:58

music that is such good news 😘

Pyjamas81 · 03/01/2017 13:54

Thanks for the info ladies! Not sure if it's called HyCosy - she just said X-ray, but maybe that's what it is!

Musicgrrl · 03/01/2017 13:50

Hey everyone

music here
31, ttc#1
Currently 7+5, conceived on cycle 5/6

Sorry I have been awol, I have been trying to take a break from MN. I basically became a crazy woman over the Christmas break obsessing over miscarriage stats and my lack of symptoms. I am happy to say though that we had an early scan this morning and there really is a little bean in my tummy, with a heartbeat! Measuring 16mm, so pretty tiny but right size for my dates. I am beyond relieved although not getting ahead of myself just yet. Also had booking in appointment with midwife today which was lovely Smile

I will begin a proper catch up on old posts soon!

AlexiaB · 03/01/2017 13:42

kwick that's fantastic, very pleased for you!

pyjamas I know Create Fertility do a HyCosy for £400.

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sk1pper · 03/01/2017 13:34

Milk is one of the worst things to drink if you suffer from endometriosis - if it's homogenised. And most brands are. I tend to use coconut milk for everything now, it's a good substitute for cereal and tastes okay in tea too. There are homogenised mills available but they are rare and super expensive.

kwick · 03/01/2017 13:31

Went to GP - have fit note saying I should avoid travel for next 3 months due to a medical condition. Will tell my main boss on Friday...

kwick · 03/01/2017 13:28

pyjamas are you going for a hycosy (dye through tubes, scan to check all ok) - that is about £550 private

Pyjamas81 · 03/01/2017 13:26

That's how I've always felt about milk - a very odd concept for me! Perhaps almond milk fortified with calcium does the job just as well...

Your chart is looking good alexia!

Must not look a baby stuff on Pinterest... must not... Who am I kidding - logging in now...

AlexiaB · 03/01/2017 13:12

I know, I know I'm an idiot. My desperation to baby shop got the better of me! I now need to go and google something totally unrelated like... Makeup.

I'm another who avoids dairy where possible. Milk is meant for calves to grow big and strong, not humans. It seems weird to me.

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FXSkip · 03/01/2017 13:08

Oh alexia what were you thinking!! I do all my baby research on Pinterest so it doesn't translate into google search results and ads because I'm signed into google at work too so would be all over my work computer!!

FXSkip · 03/01/2017 13:07

wingingit I'm a non-dairy eater in part because of the milk-calcium myth. Have a wee google, but it seems that there is much evidence to support the theory that calcium is leached from your body if you drink milk, due to the acidifying effect milk has. Also look at osteo diseases in high milk consumption countries!

AlexiaB · 03/01/2017 13:04

They're everywhere Blush lol

Thread 23. TTC #1 - New Year, New Opportunities. Let's keep those BFPs rolling in!
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AlexiaB · 03/01/2017 13:03

Welcome back pyjamas and welcome Bluebell and all other newbies!

Hi Alice Good to hear from you. What are your bloods for? Flowers

There are so many of us testing around Jan 6th. Surely there has to be a few BFPs there? The tww crazy has got me guilty My temp went up a lot today and I've now decided I could be pregnant which is ridiculous. Watch it crash back down tomorrow lol

Also word of warning... Do not go pushchair shopping online like this silly person did as the baby adverts follow you literally EVERYWHERE you go on your phone. Leave. Me. Alone.

Flowers for all those back at work.

Thread 23. TTC #1 - New Year, New Opportunities. Let's keep those BFPs rolling in!
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WingingIt83 · 03/01/2017 12:30

Ok so I'm a terrible person for not getting calcium -is that why milk is important? I rarely eat cereal and don't drink or coffee.

I can do yoghurt easily enough though as can eat those at my desk -full fat presumably?

Pyjamas81 · 03/01/2017 12:20

Thanks London! I've had that before but with almond milk - it's delicious!! Will give it a go with milk and see if it makes me feel ill. Have always hated milk - much to my mum's annoyance when I was a kid! Will give yoghurt a go as well Smile

So many depressed people at work today - lottery sales will be sky high I reckon!

Have to make appointment at clinic to get tubes checked by X-ray (just to rule it out hopefully) anyone know how much this costs roughly? Has to be in first 5 days of cycle, which is difficult as am not entirely sure when that will be due to apparent early ov this month! Damn travelling messing with my cycles...

Londonjam · 03/01/2017 12:07

Welcome newbies and welcome back old posters.

Pyjamas I can highly recommend blending frozen banana with organic whole fat milk and peanut butter. You could add maca or chia for extra fertility goodness!

kathrino I'm inspired by your yogic morning! Will try and do that tomorrow.

kavanaughkj · 03/01/2017 11:33

Doesn't it just, Skip. I could do with another week off to finish clearing my flat up!

Heya to all the new ladies! My stats (you will usually find me on the grad thread but I still feel like I don't want to leave here yet as it's still such early days!)

Kav
37, TTC1
As of today, 8+4 with raspberry conceived on 11th cycle of trying. Trying to remain calm and not Google every little twinge!

FXSkip · 03/01/2017 11:05

Bloody hell that took ages to catch up!!

Welcome all the newbies, and happy birthday to all the birthday girlies!!

skip
28
Ttc 1
Currently 5+5 with a tiny elf peppercorn
Tried a total of 7 cycles, with an mc at 11weeks on cycle 5.

Being back a work sucks balls.

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