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Thread 23. TTC #1 - New Year, New Opportunities. Let's keep those BFPs rolling in!

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AlexiaB · 02/01/2017 16:29

Calling all OPK-ers, Temp-ers, Clomid-ers, Femara-ers, IUI-ers, IVF-ers and anyone else on the TTC #1 Bus.

Happy New Year! It's 2017 and it's OUR year Star

We've been going a while now so the novelty has somewhat worn off and we're slightly battle scarred and bruised in the cervix area. We've ditched the Gregorian calendar in favour of the TTC Cycle Day calendar, and we don't get a lot of baby dust in these here parts, we just keep it legs spread and fingers crossed (LSFX). We love a baby bomb from a prior bus-mate but if we get told to 'just relax and enjoy it' ONE MORE TIME you will get a punch in the face!

We have a new Grad's Thread. We recently lost a whole load of ttc veterans to the good side and we're absolutely desperate to join in the fun! May 2017 lead us all to upduffed heaven and the Grad's thread, amen.

We don't have rules as such but expect to be talked down from the ledge with kind but firm words if you get too hysterical. But most importantly, don't convince yourself that you're pregnant in the tww. That is paramount!

Hop on board, post your stats and prepare to be dazzled by the wealth of TTC knowledge we long-timeys have to share...

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Hippychic79 · 07/01/2017 13:26

No symptoms of af is good either way I think :)
Good luck xxx

OrangeCloud18 · 07/01/2017 12:44

Flowers sorry for the ones with AF !

I have finally received my FRER so will test tomorrow with FMU if AF still has not shown.
I still have no symptoms of AF yet though when I usually get them a few days before so either there will be no AF or I didn't ovulate when I thought I did or my body has decided to go solo on this...

Hippychic79 · 07/01/2017 12:32

PMA - will not be poas and wasting my frer's unless I'm over a week late ... hold me to this ladies xxx

Hippychic79 · 07/01/2017 12:31

Alexia - love PMA xxx
Sk1pper- love you - fx for you xxx
Pug - congratulations xxx
Flowers for anyone with af
Think I'm on Feb bus too as only managed to dtd on cd9, ovulated cd14... but got flu on cd11 and haven't dtd since ... d&g... desperate & gagging - even though fw has gone this month....
Still managing to symptom spot even though I'm pretty sure I'm out ... wtf 😂
Good luck lovely ladies xxxxx

sk1pper · 07/01/2017 12:31

Pyjamas - I think not temping is the right thing if it's relaxed you. Besides your probably looking forward to your HSG. Well not "looking forward" as I'm not sure getting our insides flushed will be a pleasant experience but it's a positive step forward.

Pug - I didn't realise there were so many different types of pg test! Is the digital one expensive?

Harriet - Flowers

MissyJones83 · 07/01/2017 12:26

Sorry kathrino binky Flowers flaming annoying / depressing but fx for you both still

alexia hopefully tomorrow morning will show some progression but everything else looking super positive still!!!

Thanks for the list jam

AFireInside · 07/01/2017 12:26

harriet sorry to hear that Flowers
pug woohoo!

BFN for me this morning despite AF due today & strange spotting during 2ww.

Londonjam · 07/01/2017 12:07

Sorry Harriet 💐** but I hope that means you had a good cycle length. You can join me to keep the February bench warm 👯

Sure kaydee

Hurrah pug! 🎊

MouseLove · 07/01/2017 12:05

I've only done 2 cheap cross ones last weekend and the clear blue digital last weekend. Didn't test this week and then did the dud this morning. DH is still talking about IF I'm preggers. 🙈🤔

Pyjamas81 · 07/01/2017 12:05

Hang in there Alexia - a line is a line, but I can understand your frustration! That's some great PMa though!

We're testing on the same day kaydee! Fx for both of us!

That's some good BDing right there sk1pper 😊** Hopefully we won't need our HSGs.

8dpo here and not one teeny tiny symptom - maybe it's because I'm not temping after ov this cycle - whatever it is, I'm more relaxed. This may change towards the end when AF symptoms come along and I sec bad guess myself!

Just had my first PT session of 2017 after 3 weeks of doing nothing - I am RUINED.

Pugmummy87 · 07/01/2017 12:02

I haven't noticed any real change in a frer I did this fmu today aswell alexia. I was going to wait another day or two before breaking out the digital but needed the reassurance, so also used that and it says Pregnant 1-2 weeks. As they are less sensitive than frers I feel happy that something must be happening if the digital has picked it up.

I like your PMA!

I am not bleeding or spotting.
My boobs are feeling heavier and starting to feel tender all over rather than just nipple.

I drank loads of juice before I went to bed last night and went to bed late so maybe fmu was more diluted than usual.
It's bloody ace to see our names on the grads list!!

Thread 23. TTC #1 - New Year, New Opportunities. Let's keep those BFPs rolling in!
Kathrino · 07/01/2017 12:01

That is excellent PMA Alexia, good work! And your comment about your FRER did make me smile - I put mine in the bin and then took the bag out to our communal bins in my pjs so I wouldn't be tempted to keep looking at it 'just in case'.

Thanks for the list Jam, I think I will be joining harriet with a ticket for 8 Feb but will confirm when AF actually bothers to turn up.

Good luck in the TWW Miranda and sk1pper. I'm very impressed with your text book DTD sk1pper, hopefully it pays off for you this month.

Kaydee2017 · 07/01/2017 11:56

Can you put me down for 14th please jam? Will be CD34, no idea how long my cycles will be, but I have to have a filling on 16th, so figure that's a good a time as any to check - if I get that far! Grin

harrietm87 · 07/01/2017 11:53

Hello AF! Really glad it's here at last! New bus ticket for 8 Feb please!

AlexiaB · 07/01/2017 11:45

Thanks for all the reassurance ladies. I really appreciate it! It's hard after losses not to stress over line darkness.

I am only 11dpo
I am not bleeding or spotting
AF is late
I have high temps
And pink lines on ic's

How's that PMA? Grin

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sk1pper · 07/01/2017 11:40

Miranda - that's awesome, fx for you too. Remember to keep your feet and kidneys warm as per Kwicks instructions.

Alexia - a line is a line remember. Try not to be frustrated by any lack of real progression, it will happen for you. Your body is probably slowly gearing itself up. Xx

Starmist · 07/01/2017 11:39

Sorry if I was a bit premature in congratulating you Alexia. As Jam says a line is a line & you definitely have one. Keeping everything crossed that this is a sticky one & that the line is darker soon to hopefully give you some reassurance xxx

Londonjam · 07/01/2017 11:37

Good luck skipper keeps those toes warm and enjoy some pineapple. There are a few testers around that time;

Binky - 5 Jan
Harriet - 5 Jan
Bluebird - 6 Jan
Kathrino - 7 Jan
Orangecloud - 7 Jan
Tonks - 8 Jan
Macy - 9 Jan
Afire - 10 Jan
Pyjamas - 14 Jan
geeup - 15 Jan
Eva - 15 Jan
Gingerhanna - 15 Jan
Hippy - 16 Jan
Colourmylife - 17 Jan
HepKestrel - 18 Jan
Sk1pper - 19 Jan
Miranda - 21 Jan
Peaches - 23 Jan
Inspectorpenguin - 26 Jan
Winging - 30 Jan
Missy - 31 Jan
Londonjam - 3 Feb
Bluebird
Chaotickate
EJ
Miw
Tenner
Erest
Missyjones
Alice
Flash
Kaydee
Redpony
Supper
Presh

Grads
Kav
Mrsg
Wanting
Music
Nicky
ScottishLady7
Starmist
FXSkip
Dixiechick
Kwick
Mouselove
NS
Alexia
Pug

Please let me know if anyone is missing or your date.

Londonjam · 07/01/2017 11:32

Thanks for your kind words. I hope you're right about it being around the corner kwick

Really hope it's not AF binky. Do you take anything to try to regulate your cycle length?

Sorry about the bfn kath hope it's just too early. I find it easy to slip into thinking something might be wrong too. A doctors appointment sounds like a good idea, although I'm sure you are just fine.

Miw make sure you get yourself seen, kidney infections can be nasty

Harriet have you tested? Fx af stays away!

Thanks starmist hope all going well with you

Alexia a line is a line, we could all see it. Keeping everything crossed it gets stronger and stronger

AlexiaB · 07/01/2017 11:25

kwick I broke it open and then chucked it in rage so no photo I'm afraidBlush I've never tested well with them tbh. Bizarrely my ic has showed some progression!

Kathrino that sounds very proactive for Jan. You will get there FlowersFlowers

sk1pper great dtd! Star It's mostly all just ttc sex in this house so I get you! Let the tww crazies begin Grin

Lol Kaydee it's not for me anyway!

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Miranda234 · 07/01/2017 10:36

sk1pper I'm due AF around 21st Jan. I think I may have ovulated yesterday but I'm not sure as haven't been able to reliably do OPKs this month, I had some pains last night which might have been ovulation pain. Fx you won't need HSG Smile

sk1pper · 07/01/2017 10:29

Morning everyone, I'm officially in the 2ww now. Think I ovulated around CD13-14 but it's really hard to know when you're not doing opks. I've BDed as much as possible, sometimes I didn't even want to... we just forced ourselves. A last Hail Mary before my HSG I guess. Anyone testing or waiting for AF around 19th Jan?

Thread 23. TTC #1 - New Year, New Opportunities. Let's keep those BFPs rolling in!
kwick · 07/01/2017 10:27

Alexia please post picture of FRER.

mouse yep email them!!!

ns last time I managed to get it down to once a week... but you know what, if I need to test I WILL!!! It gives me peace of mind - although that is silly given that it would still show positive even if I MC - but whatever sees you through, right?

Miranda234 · 07/01/2017 10:26

Fx for you kathrino that it's still just too early

Kathrino · 07/01/2017 10:22

That's a bugger mouse! Definitely get on to customer services.

Alexia, sorry that you didn't get a strong line this morning but good news about the temps. It must be so frustrating for you.

miw, hope you're not feeling too rough with the kidney infection Flowers

There's a small chance that I may have ovulated on CD18 and not CD16 which would only put me at 13 DPO and not 15 DPO but pretty sure I'm just clutching at straws and would have expected a FRER to pick it up in any case.

I think I know in my heart of hearts that there's something wrong (I have a theory that it might be an autoimmune thing and/or the result of some other medication I'm on which I was told wouldn't have any impact on TTC but which is relatively new to the market). We probably won't get much of an opportunity in Jan as DH is away with work but I might spend the month making/having doctors appointments so I feel like I'm doing something.