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Hut of Gl/Doom tercera- We hate babydust and we don't care.

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duchesse · 19/02/2007 14:19

I'm imaging this one as more of an Eeyore stick hut type thing. Maybe Eeyore is actually still in residence.

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duchesse · 19/02/2007 21:55

I shall delete it from my profile tomorrow, ok?

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Impatience · 19/02/2007 20:05

Duchesse, great idea to quote Amtrak in your profile - thanks. What she says just doesn't make any sense at all, and that she would go to the bother of posting it suggests a pretty nasty streak. Which is pretty ironic given her attempts to tell us how to be better people by not having nasty thoughts. I just don't get it. Stupid cow, nasty bitch, poisonous old trollop. She gives meditation a very bad ambassador.

lissielou · 19/02/2007 20:01

tbh i think i underestimated how much dh wanted this bean

lulu1414 · 19/02/2007 19:51

Hi all- pleased there is a new hut! Lissie- hope you are OK. I know what you mean re DH. I think it is hard for them as they are upset too and also have to watch someone they love in so much pain (physically and emotionally). Mine has been a rock.

lissielou · 19/02/2007 19:48

i think its hit him harder than i thought tbh. hes got to deal with his grief and mine too

scorpio1 · 19/02/2007 19:23

sorry to butt in your hut but i just read that post

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duchesse · 19/02/2007 19:16

Sorry, Lissie, when I say men aren't usually that sensitive, I mean they're often more able to be emotionally detached from stuff. Obviously your poor husband has been through the mill as well over the last couple of weeks, but that comment was pretty evil.

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duchesse · 19/02/2007 19:09

Well, it must have been bad- men aren't usually that sensitive. I've just lost track of what would be considered normal comment. I suppose nothing is fair comment when it comes to someone else's private life, and how they choose to build their family. I've just got so used to blunt comments from my sisters that I barely even react to them any more. I did see seriously red when that thing crawled in earlier though.

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lissielou · 19/02/2007 18:58

just showed it dh and he got a bit upset

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duchesse · 19/02/2007 18:53

Just put it in my profile under Hobbies, which I guess trolling is for some...

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lissielou · 19/02/2007 18:52

great idea duchesse!

lissielou · 19/02/2007 18:51

i know! why would someone want to do that? i just dont understand. beansprout a troll jumped in with some horrendous comments about our probs and was promptly thrown out by the mn bouncers

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duchesse · 19/02/2007 18:49

I've an idea- for a short time I will post what it said in my profile in one of the unfilled in boxes. You can read it there if you like- at least I can take it away again when everyone's seen it.

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duchesse · 19/02/2007 18:48

Quite right too, Lissie- it only joined to come and say that, by all accounts, since there are no other postings from it. What kind of person does that?

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beansprout · 19/02/2007 18:48

Lordy, seemed to have missed something here. I hope whatever it was wasn't too hurtful and was treated with the contempt it sounds like it deserved!

Love the thread title - say it like it is

lissielou · 19/02/2007 18:45

i did report the troll duchesse. just said we dont need comments like that here

lissielou · 19/02/2007 18:42

#am back. pass the vodka! just had a nap coz was a bit upset and feel like shite

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duchesse · 19/02/2007 18:37

As it happens, I have the old Hut still open in my tabs, Impatience- if you really want to know what that troll said, I can repost it in quotes in the old Hut, if I can bear to go in there. It stinks of troll still though.

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duchesse · 19/02/2007 18:26

Takes grotesque mirror down, takes it outside and gives it away to the first passing tinker

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gillian1973 · 19/02/2007 18:25

pero es buen espanol y eso es lo que cuenta.

(..but it is good spanish and that's what counts)

It is a bit unfair as I am billingual so its not learnt spanish just 'absorbed'.

Catbabymummy · 19/02/2007 18:15

Ta Gillian.... my Spanish isn't as good as yours I'm afraid, solo hablo espanol uno poco.

Impatience · 19/02/2007 17:36

Thanks Crypto. What a dangerous thing to wade in saying. We need a space to discuss these feelings. They are normal. And I think they are healthy: It's when feelings get suppressed or turned into something else that it screws everything up. We are having a shit time and we are sensitive, intelligent and reflective and so we feel crappy. One day we might feel better, but while we're not we need to recognise how we feel and talk about them. This hut is a wonderful place, and I consider myself lucky to have loads of people who not only listen to my woes but also tell me theirs so I know I'm not completely bonkers! It's being in here that helps me.

Damn. Didn't want to rant about it. I hope you can see I'm actually trying to tell everyone that they should feel safe in here and not have to edit what they say for fear of any response. Hmm, I'm still going in circles! Just POST impatience...

Cryptonomicon · 19/02/2007 17:30

That's great news Impatience.

Impatience · 19/02/2007 17:23

Oh, and another thing... We had that big chat with our donor and his wife yesterday. They are in this with us all the way! We are so lucky. We thought they might be getting a bit fed up, or wouldn't want to start all over again with dp. But no! It looks like dp will start trying again in a few months and in the meantime I'm going to really go for it. It doesn't cure my FTC but it does give us hope for having more kids despite my shrivelled up insides. Hooray!

They are complete angels. We are very very lucky to have them.

Cryptonomicon · 19/02/2007 17:22

Yes, pretty much along the lines. Don't want to sully the hut with details but negative thoughts = problems & meditation would solve all ills.

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