Hut of Gl/Doom tercera- We hate babydust and we don't care.

feedmenow try not to feel guilty as it's impossible most of the time to say what causes a m/c. What you've described sounded quite similar to something I've had since my m/c. I've booked a smear this month - would it show up there or should I go to a GU clinic? I hate going to those places in case I bump into any of my patients!

wonder why they do that? dropped a clearblue down the loo while testing and when fished it out there were 2 faint lines, all excited rushed out to get another - BFN. Needless to say I now use ebay ones (with a clearblue in the drawer to double check if I ever get a BFP)

God, am STUPID moo! Have been reading stuff about implantation bleeds and thought there was a v. slim possibility that my v. light bleed the other week might NOT have been a period. Anyway, had some ebay pg tests so did one a little earlier which I dropped in the pee. When I fished it out I put it straight in the bin cos it was soggy, etc. Then had a glance at it later and saw a faint 2nd line! Shock horror! Immediately did another only to plainly and blatantly get a BFN! Am actually laughing at myself cos of my desperation
Although will probably be wailing later (and hurling if my alcohol consumption tonight goes according to plan.....)

want to be pg now - DSs 6 and 4 and don't want totally enormous gap with next (and definately last) one.

pmsl! am new on here - know no one yet! have 2 DSs, had mc before first DS and he didn't take to long - second took 18 months. Last took only 6 weeks (!) but then mc - now been ttc since nov - no luck tho, grr...

I love that..."do you have some already?" Yes, I have some already, 1 dd and 1 ds but no. 3 has been a loooong time in the planning. Also, both dd and ds were 2pleasant surprises" so had kind of expected no. 3 woul dbe easy to conceive and easy to carry, etc. Oh well, lifes a shit and then you........any suggestions anyone???
When I just read your post the words 'dodgy cycle' caught my eye but I thought it said 'doggy style'!!!!! Maybe I need to get my eyes checked!

are you ttc your first or do you have one/some already?

bought myself a massive bag of mini eggs to cheer myself up!

dodgy cycle - always had one but had nasty mc last year and since then it been really awful - was hoping for some tablets to help it all (have had them before) but he wants MORE bloods taken on first day of next period - trouble is I could wait months for that!

What was your appointment for?

hehe! don't blame you - make mine a very very large glass of red!

came in here cos feeling miserable too, had rubbish appt with consultant today left me feeling a bit down - sort of pales into comparison next to your post tho feedmenow. at least you know you can get pg and so will again x

Thanks Beckle, but you aren't allowed to do a whole lot of cheering in here!
Offer me a large glass of jamaican White Rum and that'll be fine though!
Was meant to start antibiotics tonight but am going to hold off til tomorrow so i can get wankered tonight to commiserate with myself!

you poor thing, am sure its not your fault. 1 in 4 pg end in mc. big big hugs - sorry if haven't cheered you up much xxx

I am miserbale, really fecking miserable! I would try and cut a long story short but can't really, so here goes the whole damn thing.
After I had my coil removed in prep for ttc I noticed some off things going on with my vag, namely some "fanny farting" experiences and some occasional watery discharge and a faint odour. Anyway, was booked for an appt at my local GUM clinic (which I find far nicer than my GPs)for an MOT. Anyway, then found out I was pg and thought 2 things, 1. there can't be much wrong if I'm pg and 2. they wouldn't be able to do much if there was anything wrong cos I'm pg! So stupidly carried on with life. So then in Jan I m/c and quite obviously looked for something to blame. Was pretty much mostly over that but it has now all come flooding back! I finally went to GUM clininc today cos I have been aware, again, of symptoms. The doctor there did all the swabs saying everything looked normla, but after looking under the microscope told me I have BV (Bacterial Vaginosis for anyone unfamiliar with this infection!) which, it turns out, is linked to m/c or prem babies. My first though was "but if I already had it when I got pg then there wasn't anything I could have done". I then read the leaflet she gave me which fantastically informed me that it is easily treatable in pg. So now I'm torturing myself that if only I'd gone to that appt a week after finding out I was pg then I might never have m/c. I know it is still a big "what if", but ts still a "what if" and has just returned me right back to the beginning.....

lissie, my husband's not that fussy At least you get a break

Sideways, you're right that it's meant dp and I have been able to keep sex for it's own sake rather than another job to be done. Our situation is a whole bag of mixed blessings.

some women have it others dont. its not massively common tho! dh wont even come near me til my periods been and gone.

I was too happy to post here yesterday.
feeling down again, as I've now started the dreaded 2WW.
BTW I never had any implantation bleeding when I was pg, how common is it?

hi all, anyone watch corrie last night? even the fecking dog was knocked up! why are we being tortured??? agree about the libido. nothing kills your sex life like ftc.

Yes female loss of libido is not taken seriously. Makes me when doctors on my ward ask male patients whether they have experienced loss of libido or erectile dysfunction but don't bother to ask female patients. Oh well, we are just receivers after all.

Sometimes I do duty shags even when I'm not ttc. Now how's that for controversial

It is sad, impatience, but I guess we just keep going.

I was thinking earlier about how lucky you are in that you still get to have sex with your dp because you want to and not out of duty. I know the whole ttc thing is more complicated for you, but at least you can keep it separate and you and your partner never have to think "oh God, another duty shag".

Or am I talking bollocks again?