Hut of Gl/Doom tercera- We hate babydust and we don't care.

Am glad I was not the only one to be visited by the green eyed monster when I read those.

Those threads should not be in conception. They should have their own section called "f*ckwittage".

Feedme, that sounds crap.

Why not make yourself feel even worse by perusing the couple of current threads about people getting pregnant and it being the worst thing that could possibly happen to them. That'll really top your day off.

In fact, so hacked off that I couldn't even manage a full-stop at the end of that post!!

Hello all saddos (myself included in that generalisation).
So, I told dp in no uncertain terms yesterday that we needed to shag, nd also asked him if this was what he really wanted, if he was feeling the pressure, etc.
So he gets home from work yesterday being tedious and thoughtless, then when hwe go to bed he tweaked my nipple, then wondered why I was somewhat put off! Oh, he was also semi-watching Monster frigging Moves on TV! Then when I didn't leap for joy at the tenderness/romance/passion of it all it resulted (I actually typed "reslutted" there! I wonder if reslutted is in the Oxford dictionary....? Might check that out in a moment....). Anyway, I digressed! The outcome was that I ended up sleeping in the spare bed. And this morning he comes out with some crap about not being able to do it on demand!! What about me? Does he think I can do it on a single nipple tweak?? Well, right now I've had enough! Don't see why I should be pill popping, eating this and not eating that, not smoking and not drinking when he gets to do sod all!! I'm truly hacked off

Lottie, you beat me: I was 10dpo. Am now certain that I am not pregnant, and never will be.

Oh bellabear I'm so with you on that train of thought

Can I moan? It is really a very shallow thing. The longer it takes, the more inconvenient maternity leave will be. There, I've said it.

And I'm getting a bit bored of purposeful sex.

And I want a drink.

Take it easy, Duchesse, you don't want to strain a cheeriness ligament. You're going at it cold and out of practice

Did a test this afternoon. Way too early. Don't know why I did it really. Guess I just wanted a nice explanation for why I feel so ropey. OF COURSE there was only one line. And looking at that one line I just felt that certainty that all my tests would always look like that.

Am now in that 2nd week (as I said, test was embarrassingly early...) and am feeling the gloom and doom really start to set in... It's gonna be a tough one.

Go for it Duchesse, I'm glad to hear you are a bit chipper. I want reports from the other side!

Just popping in to say hello to y'all. Am really fed up with all of this at the moment. Am sick of treading water and waiting for something that isn't happening. Can't be bothered with very much at all. May just hang out in the tent for a bit.

Welcome to Bella and everyone else who has joined us. If you want misery, this is where it's at!!!

Can I come in? I'm feeling quite low today. Bloody period. In more than one way.

pmsl! my dysfunctional fanjo would put him off for life

How can you be expected to take a spotty 15yo seriously when they're talking about your fertility/reproduction!! And has said 15yo even lost his virginity yet? Imagine if he gets to grapple with cervixes all day and hasn't even lost his cherry yet!

pmsl, dh is obsessing about his pornpot donation. ffs! he gets to spank his monkey while i get some spotty 15yo with cold hands trying to grapple with my useless cervix

Too bloody right I wish I was a man!
And do they all live in cloud cuckoo land, or is it just my dp?!? Having been spelling out to him for the last week that he needs to cut down fags and booze for the next couple of weeks to ensure he has super sperm, and also requesting that I see evidence of said super sperm every day for the next ??? he seems to have completely missed out on what I'm saying to him!! I really didn't want to have to say "I'm fertile so we need to shag every day" cos I don't want to add that pressure, but having only seen action on Saturday this weekend I felt the need this morning to be rather more obvious with him and have told him in no indefinate terms that I expect action every day for the next few days. I wonder whether it will sink in this time.....?

sorry, these probs!

oh feck.... ever wish you were a man? they dont have this prob!

Just for a bit of added info, the doctor at the clinic has told me to wash my intimate areas with emulsifying cream indefinately, as well as massaging inside and out with it until the problem has cleared up. And no doubt the stuff will not react well with sperm seeing as I am mid-cycle and most need to be shagging!!

Thanks feedmenow, since the painters are still in and painting industriously at that, I will have to wait til they've gone to see if the symptoms are still there. It's good to know about though, so thanks for the info. I don't know if it's the same thing you had but it would defo be good to rule it out esp due to the associated risks.

You know what they say, misery loves company. You'll get plenty in here...

Officially hoping to join hut of doom... miserable as sin and had enough of false hope. I know there's nobody here now so I could just post misery all night or go to bed and dream it instead.

oh god, wtf is wrong with me. watching superman and just had a sob at the baby flying thru space all alone!

feedmenow, i know how easy it is to blame yourself but you cant sweetheart. youll drive yourself nuts!

Plummy, the doctor at the clinic told me not to go for a smear until the BV had cleared up, so I assume the BV could effect the smear and therefore be picked up. But maybe you should tell the GP your suspicions beforehand....
And although I KNOW my lack of action may well not have had anything to do with the m/c, I just can't help but feeling at least partially/potentially responsible. It's just the fact that I was due to go but never did.......oh well, I guess I'll never know...
And to top it off, yet another pg announcement in my circle of friends! My BF called me this morning to tell me cos she wanted to be the one to let me know....Ho hum