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Anyone else got a late AF but getting BFN :(

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user1482261465 · 20/12/2016 19:27

My husband and I are ttc (first baby) and my af is 4 days late now but I tested this afternoon and got a BFN. My boobs (mainly the left one) have been sore, and I feel really umm wet below all the time sorry tmi!! Which keeps making me think af has come but nothing as of yet. I was having some stomach pain over the weekend and feeling a little nauseous on and off but haven't been sick. I have no appetite but I've been so thirsty all the time. My mum thinks I might be pregnant but given the BFN today I don't think I am. Is anyone else late but getting BFN tests and random symptoms Hmm

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LaurenH0893 · 12/07/2018 16:12

@EvieSparkles0x & @user1482261465
I know this is a really old thread but I'm searching for answers.
I am late & still getting BFN !
Did you guys get your BFP in the end ? 🤞🏼 xx

EvieSparkles0x · 30/12/2016 10:47

Wow congratulations sugar! I'm 10 days late now, got a BFN at 8 days :( have sent DP out for some different brands of test as I prefer the strip tests! Any luck OP ?

Itsjustaphase84 · 29/12/2016 19:58

Congratulations sugar x

sugarplumfairy2010 · 29/12/2016 17:30

Hi op are you still waiting. I got a bfp yesterday when i was over 3 weeks late. After testing a week ago and it was bfn.x

Itsjustaphase84 · 29/12/2016 08:38

Have you tried different tests?

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user1482261465 · 26/12/2016 09:27

Still nothing for me :( I'm 9 days late today and got a bfn on Xmas eve. So frustrating

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1hannah123 · 25/12/2016 22:23

AF arrived on christmas eve for me :( best of luck for you girls xx

EvieSparkles0x · 25/12/2016 19:08

Sorry to hear about your BFN :( No AF for me yet either, but I'm not testing til the 30th to give AF plenty of time to show up. Thought I'm having some signs and symptoms, but am ignoring them because I've convinced myself before! Do have some bumps appearing on/above my nipples though...

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user1482261465 · 24/12/2016 20:15

Hey ladies, just a quick update. I got another BFN this morning, but still no AF. Had a slight streak of blood in CM (sorry for the tmi) this afternoon but nothing since. I don't think I'm going to get a BFP at this point but hopefully AF will stay away until Boxing Day lol. Xmas Smile Merry Christmas and baby dust to all x

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1hannah123 · 22/12/2016 20:16

I'm fully expecting AF to murder me on Christmas Day also! I just wish i'd either get a BFP or AF to put me out of my misery :( Please keep me updated ladies xx

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user1482261465 · 22/12/2016 20:03

It sounds like a few of us are in limbo right now it must be something in the water. I know how you feel 1hannah123 I feel the same way about testing. I'm planning to do it again Saturday if no AF but I'm fully prepared to be disappointed. Knowing my luck AF will show up with vengeance on xmas day

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EvieSparkles0x · 22/12/2016 19:29

How odd! Although it's uncommon it is possible to ovulate twice in a cycle :)

1hannah123 · 22/12/2016 19:28

Hi!
I had period like cramping a few weeks ago which i thought might be implantion pains, but if that was the case i'd get a BFP by now wouldn't i? Hmmm
I've taken a few tests now and got BFNs so i'm scared to take another :(

sugarplumfairy2010 · 22/12/2016 19:26

Ive mentioned it to my gp as they phoned me about a different issue and they said if it doesn't turn up in another month to give them a ring. Ive got sore boobs and white dots on my nipples and low stomach cramps. I dont think im pregnant not even sure i ovulated as i got a postive on day 10 and then day 20.

EvieSparkles0x · 22/12/2016 19:19

Hi 1hannah :)

It is possible that spotting is a sign of pregnancy, is there any chance you could have ovulated later than expected? You could possibly be experiencing implantation bleeding although it is a little on the later side for that. You could also be having breakthrough bleeding which some women get around the time of their first period after conception. Maybe test again tomorrow with FMU? Let me know how it goes!

1hannah123 · 22/12/2016 19:11

Hi ladies! I am now on cd33 and still no sign of AF (2 days late) I have been getting some dark brown spotting today though, would this be normal if i am pregnant?
did a cheapie this morning and it was a BFN!

EvieSparkles0x · 22/12/2016 19:05

oh no sugarplum have you considered seeing you GP? Do you have any pregnancy symptoms?

sugarplumfairy2010 · 22/12/2016 18:59

Hi its so frustating isn't it. Im nearly 3 weeks late and getting bfn i just wish af would come so we can start trying again.
This is cycle 6 after mmc in june my cycle has been between 20 and 30 days since it happened now on day 47. I wish my body would sort itself out!

EvieSparkles0x · 22/12/2016 18:52

Good luck user ! I'm in the exact same boat, AF will be 4 days late tomorrow, tested today on a cheapie but BFN. So frustrating as I'm always regular!

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user1482261465 · 22/12/2016 17:26

I hope you feel better soon Flowers my AF is still a no show Hmm

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walsh86 · 22/12/2016 10:47

Due AF tomorrow- but got a cold, so feeling sorry for myself and weepy- so think she will arrive on time, I've done 2 test both BFN- don't think its my month

Itsjustaphase84 · 21/12/2016 19:23

Yes let us know. Fx x

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user1482261465 · 21/12/2016 19:19

Oh no Sad big hugs! I hope you feel better soon Flowers!! I'm still in limbo at the moment waiting for my AF to start or to get a bfp (although I'm not holding my breath for the latter) will let you know xx

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Itsjustaphase84 · 21/12/2016 19:07

Well I hope we're not too similar. Got af this afternoon and was devastated
I was crying and snotty and now I'm just cracking open the booze thinking sod it. I've never gone this long. I did get the norovirus pretty bad around time of ovulation so couldn't Dtd as often as I'd like I guess
Keep us posted! X

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user1482261465 · 21/12/2016 16:53

I'm also on cd32 looks like we're cycle twins lol

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