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TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 19/12/2016 10:51

Hi all, we are planning on TTC in the new year. Before that I want to get a bit healthier lose three stone and generally be in the best shape possible to get pregnant and run around after a baby. Is anyone else in the same boat? Would you be up for a little thread to keep us all on track? Planning on doing a dry January as a kick start and then will be dragging my arse to the gym after Christmas as well. Very open to suggestion and ideas to shift the bulge. Would be good to have a few buddies though. Anyone fancy joining in?

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TheGrumpySquirrel · 04/01/2017 15:33

Some more spotting today. A good sign except I didn't take anything (mooncup or pads) to work today argh!!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 04/01/2017 15:10

Thanks unicorn that's great to hear!

Evie I swing between wanting to get pregnant now, being terrified I'm somehow infertile, and wanting to be sensible and wait until the spring/summer as planned. Doesn't help that I'm pretty bored at work right now! Dreaming of six months off - although I know with a newborn it'll be tough I feel like a change is as good as a rest sometimes.

EvieSparkles0x · 04/01/2017 14:08

Red that's really good to hear it's not bad, and well done you!

We ended up having loooads of food and treats left over from Xmas and NY, which I have been snacking on Blush But the last of them will be gone today and I'm so determined this time. The prospect of TTC shall be my motivation Grin

And FC for everyone's cycles becoming regular as rain. The long one I have just had was killer, but at least it had the decency to come to an end around the new year :) I just hope we can actually stick to barrier methods as I really do want to wait until some weight has shifted..

DancingUnicorn · 04/01/2017 13:54

Confused I'm failing massively too. There's too much chocolate in my house!!!

Grumpy if it makes you more hopeful, when I came off cerezette I was regular pretty much straight away (3 months in anyway!!) fingers crossed for the same.

TheGrumpySquirrel · 04/01/2017 13:54

I've made an appointment with my GP to discuss my totally wrong medical records (I posted another thread about it but they are way off with random things on like measles and eating disorders neither of which I have ever had...) and tell him I'm off the pill and TTC.

EvieSparkles0x · 04/01/2017 13:50

Yess that would be lovely! I do think I can do it, I like colourful food and meat/cheese, so we will just have to look for some nice low carb recipes :) I am going to have a curry without rice tonight, and for lunch tomorrow an "Aztec" salad with chicken, peppers, avacado and red onion with some chili powder and lime. Mmmmm :P

Redpony1 · 04/01/2017 13:49

'Anyone thinking of doing high protein/low carb/moderate fat? ' That's pretty much what i started on 1st Jan Evie , It's been fairly easy really, even coming straight from xmas treats to doing it! (Mind you, it's only day 4 but i find the first week the hardest)

TheGrumpySquirrel · 04/01/2017 13:45

Hi Evie I'm trying to do low carb - it's so hard to get out of the habit but once you are used to it the cravings do go.. the initial part requires willpower. My lunch is just fish and salad and breakfast was chia pudding but I failed mid morning and had a croissant 🥐

  • wow there's a croissant emoji! Let's support each other Smile
EvieSparkles0x · 04/01/2017 13:31

Hi all Halo

I know what you mean Red, my AF finally showed up 13 days (and 13 pregnancy tests) later :/ But I am glad now, I really do want to get more in shape before I get preggo again.

confused I'm a carb lover too, I reckon I'd be soo skinny if I could cut them out of my life! Also read that low carb diet can help with hormone regulation or something, so is good for women TTC. Anyone thinking of doing high protein/low carb/moderate fat?

Need to do a big healthy food shop this week, thinking yoghurt and smoothies and soup, all the stuff that gave me awful morning sickness last time I tried to eat healthily for a pregnancy Grin

Redpony1 · 04/01/2017 13:16

Sounds lovely, I've always wanted to go to Thailand HB , i'm such a fussy eater though and imagine i'd starve! (unless they have plenty of MacDonalds!)

I'm beginning to wonder if i won't get a withdrawal bleed now (after having one in October) and that i am just back to my old teenage irregular cycles! Hmm I hates periods, but have never wanted one so badly Blush

TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 04/01/2017 13:09

Ah HB I remember now. Ooh that will be lovely. We were in Bangkok in November and it was still boiling! Also get swigging water likes it's going out of fashion and that will flush the water weight off. You should drop a few pounds.

My friends wedding is in Cheshire. Really looking forward to it - she is having an Indian themed day and black tie at night. So I'm going to dress up in a Saree for day and then full length at night. Should be great. Not bought outfits for either bit yet though!

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TheGrumpySquirrel · 04/01/2017 13:04

Hb Remember there is a lag.. this weeks diet is next week's body! Have a great time (a tan is slimming in any case)

Confused I'm 9 days off the pill and we DTD the evening of the day I took my last pill so not inconceivable that something could have happened - however from what I understand of others experiences of Cerelle / cerazette is that it takes a while for ovulation to restart [plus I have no womb lining it seems]

HbH04 · 04/01/2017 12:55

I'm off to Thailand for two weeks... Slightly belated honeymoon!

I lost four pounds in Christmas week & have put three back on in 'being good week' The world is against me!

confusedat23 · 04/01/2017 12:50

Well at least you know you arnt preggo Grumpy... how long has it been since you came off the pill again?

It's funny you say that HB but you could be onto something there! My diet just seems to consist mostly of Carbs and I just can't cut them out...

Where are you going for the wedding Theres?

TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 04/01/2017 11:43

Ooh HB where are you off to again? We are away for a wedding first weekend of Feb. would love to be a bit skinnier for that! Eats more rat meat in anticipation.

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HbH04 · 04/01/2017 10:36

theres have you just come up with the winning strategy for dieting... Make horrific rat like food and not eat it?!

11 days til bikini... Help!

I've started my temping, two days in, but unfortunately it doesn't really tell you anything til you have a lot of results in front of you!!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 04/01/2017 10:33

Bold fail!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 04/01/2017 10:33

Thanks confused and red
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I'll read the instructions tonight
* for the CBFM. I'm feeling ok today just super bloated (I look pregnant!) and no sign of AF, not using mooncup. Did a first response pregnancy test this morning just in case - of course it was negative.

Well done on the diet tea and for losing weight red
I'm too scared to weigh myself in this bloated state but going to spin class at lunchtime

confusedat23 · 04/01/2017 09:48

How are you feeling today Grumpy? Your headaches might be AF related!... also I think the CBFM tracks your hormone level so I am not sure if you can just do a random one which is annoying!... i just purchased the CB dual hormone OPK as a bit of a prezzie to me as they are half price on Amazon atm for the 20 pack! But I know that remembers your hormone level too.

Theres do they not have Family Planning there? I have heard of scar tissue but I think thats quite rare. Iranian chicken sounds awful!

I an doing rubbish at this dieting stuff! I just cannot cut out Chocolate! Ergh what is wrong with me =(

Redpony1 · 04/01/2017 09:43

Morning everyone!

Headaches are the worst Grumpy Hope yours pass soon.

TimeforTea - Iranian chicken sounds awful! Good way to diet though haha!

I did a sneaky mid-week weigh-in (don't tell my DP!) & lost 3lb :)

TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 04/01/2017 09:17

Update - I do not recommend Iranian chicken. It was like grizzly rat meat. On the plus side this meant I only had a few bites so the diet is going exceptionally well today! Halo

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TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 04/01/2017 08:47

Aww Grumpy hope you're feeling a bit better soon. Have you still got the headaches?

I'm hoping they know what to do with this implant too. I don't think they're common over here. I had mine put in in the UK. I've had it for just over three years but think it expired in October. My friend had hers out and said it was sore as she had grown scar tissue over it so I'm hoping that doesn't happen to me! I need to take the morning off work to go too - don't want to flag to my boss what I'm up to either!

Diet wise - doing ok today. Had an omelette for brekkie. Having grilled chicken and salad for lunch (although we've gone to an Iranian restaurant so not sure what to expect - might have oil etc) and then for dinner I'll probably have leftover Diet Coke chicken as still not done my big shop!

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TheGrumpySquirrel · 03/01/2017 20:59

Thanks guys ., I've had headaches today and yesterday and I never get them. Also still bloated. I think my hormones are confused. This is the boring waiting bit! I might treat myself to an ov test on the CB fertility monitor in a couple of weeks. It's frustrating not being able to start cycle day counting.

Yes DD could be a bit emotional about end of holidays I think.

confusedat23 · 03/01/2017 20:46

One day she will understand Grumpy but yeah if she is asleep she was probably really tired also! Do you think she could be stressed about going back to school?

Yay! I used to get very clotty periods on the normal pill and forgot just how wet (sorry!) a normal AF could be! Hopefully that lining gets shot and you will be on your way to trying not to concieve until April! Lol

Wiggleyfingers · 03/01/2017 20:43

That's a good sign grumpy! I've been doing lots of googling about brown clots recently as I usually have at least a couple of days of it before I get AF. Wasn't sure if it was normal. I didn't have a period for 4 years whilst on the coil so I feel like I'm learning the basics all over again! Fingers crossed for you. Also don't beat yourself up about the glass of wine! SmileWine sounds like you needed it!

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