Getting ready for baby challenge

We've been trying to get pregnant for 3 years with no joy, have just been diagnosed with PCOS which I think is wrong! Just about to start using the Clearblue advance fertility monitor, please please tell me there's some hope

Confused - I was bloody mental last cycle testing. It consumed me completely

Ooh Holly!!!
And exciting stuff for confused too...?

Well my dh has just been the most spontaneous he has ever been in his life! He usually plans everything meticulously and we were planning starting ttc in March. Yet thus evening went ahead with dtd despite knowing that I accidentally missed my pill today. I'm gobsmacked beyond words!

confused look we are all baby crazy so you are among friends, maybe try a digital on Tuesday if u can hold out then at least you won't be squinting although I can see something for sure!

Confused don't worry, I'll be the same! I think my oh will have to hide all the tests in the house every tww!

Confused you aren't crazy! It only takes one sperm after all plus you are lovely and young and probably uber-fertile. If you can hold off til Tuesday that sounds sensible (and you would have way more will power than I would!)

As a small redeeming factor... we dtd for everyday of my fw including ov day... although i'm still crazy i know

It was there within the 10 mins... but yeah i know i am being ridiculous!

I'm jusy going to slowly creep back into my box now 😂😂😂

Confused - I see a line, but if it came up after the time it could be an evaporation line. Was it a pink colour? If it had colour to it it could be a positive. If it is more grey usually an evap. Google them and there are loads of pictures.

I was testing twice a day from 9DPO last cycle. I will refrain until at least 10dpo

Confused lol 😂

The crazy thing is we are pulling out! (I am actuLly embarassed i have got all obsessed considering ) Although I am not convinced DH manages it because he likes me to finish... bit i find it hard when he isnt (sorry if tmi!)

But i am a very regular person with no pre-af symptoms... and this isnt the first month i have been looking for them so i can't be completely insane!

I think i am gonna wait until Tuesday and live with my 2 inches bigger bloated rock hard belly! In my dream
World that i might be upduffed before being slammed down to earth with BFN

I am currently in denial untill i get a strong positive even tho i think you ladies are right. Then i will tell dh. Hes been away with our visitor since last night so hes not here anyway.
He was talking about it on the phone when i told him how lovely our dd was with a 3 month old today and just saying how he cant wait. Im excited to tell him but im rubbish at surprises so i will probably just blurt it out like last time

Confused i can see a faint line! Keep testing till you get a clearer one!

Confused waiting until Tuesday is definitely the more sensible option but there is NO WAY I would be able to wait. I would test again in the morning. It looks promising though. 9DPO is so early! Was it you that was using the pull out method? Or did you actually start trying? I've gotten confused!

Confused I think I can see something too. I would wait until tuesday as hopefully will be much clearer by then. Have everything crossed for you lovely!

Grumpy maybe?! I'll try to make better observations this month and feed back! Hopefully it'll all settle down soon!

Confused one part thinks waiting is more sensible and will mean you're more sure. But I'd probably test again tomorrow... I think I read that although false negatives are really common when testing before period is due, false positives are really rare. So basically, a line is a line.... fx for you!!

Personally is wait until at least Tuesday when you can be a bit more sure of the result.

Unicorn so possible I ovulated more recently? I'm clueless with no AF dates or OPKs to go on. I guess I will just test every week until I get a period lol

I know testing at 9dpo is bad! I'm such a silly person i didn't think there would be anything there bit they were cheap and it got rid of the urge! This was with FMU today so i am not sure whether to use another one tomorrow morning or still wait till tuesday?

I've had that before grumpy ! I think usually more in the middle of cycle. I think I need to start documenting better!!

I can see a hint of something Confused. I don't whether it's an indent but I can see something. I'd wait a couple of days and test with fmu.

Confused I think maybe... (don't want to get your hopes up too much!) Assume you'll test again in a few days?!

Confused i can see a shadow of a line but not sure if it has colour? Definitely test again in the morning!!

I just got a weird rush of fluid thought it was AF but it's clear! So odd

Excitement and terror is right. It didn't take long to conceive DD (5 cycles) but long enough for me to stress that something was wrong. For example I was quite the harlot in my early-mid twenties and convinced myself that I'd probably caught chlamydia and my tubes were fucked. You can go a bit nuts when it's consuming your every thought. Hoping for a slightly more chilled approach this time round!