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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 19/12/2016 10:51

Hi all, we are planning on TTC in the new year. Before that I want to get a bit healthier lose three stone and generally be in the best shape possible to get pregnant and run around after a baby. Is anyone else in the same boat? Would you be up for a little thread to keep us all on track? Planning on doing a dry January as a kick start and then will be dragging my arse to the gym after Christmas as well. Very open to suggestion and ideas to shift the bulge. Would be good to have a few buddies though. Anyone fancy joining in?

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HeyJupiter · 10/01/2017 16:49

MrsC thanks for your info! It's confusing isn't it as the cheapie stick OPKs recommend exactly what you said about doing it during the day but the clearblue digital recommends FMU. I have tracked my ovulation for 3 months now with the clearblue monitor and I have never had a peak LH result on FMU... always later in the day (when I've tested at multiple times around my fertile window) so I would agree with the advice you've given. I think maybe because the clearblue digital also tests for oestrogen rise (well the dual hormone version anyway) they rely on FMU for that primarily.

MrsC2017 · 10/01/2017 16:35

So... I just learned something new I think.... I bought a pack of cheap pregnancy tests and cheapy ovulation tests, I'm gonna test for ovulation in a few days as AF is gone today and I'm convinced I ovulate early, anyway the pregnancy tests advise using first morning urine which I knew but the ovulation test specifically advise against using it as we have the hormone at a low level all the time and it could build up overnight and cause a false positive so it said to do it during the day, I did not know this although maybe everyone else did! Anyway thought I would pass on my new found knowledge!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 10/01/2017 13:00

Sami lol 😂 that's exactly what it was like ha ha! Probably not ovulation then. Slightly disappointed but hey just got to be patient!

samidolls · 10/01/2017 12:51

grumpy I had that too after coming off cerelle, sometimes it felt like the scene out of Theres something about Mary!

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Redpony1 · 10/01/2017 12:31

ohhhh so things might be gearing up properly down there for me then! Yey!

I'd be excited too confused !!

HeyJupiter · 10/01/2017 12:19

Red that's a really promising sign! It's all gearing up down there!

confused only my first cycle on Ovia so hopefully it's getting to know me now. Thanks for the reassurance :)

I too need to get a job at Mothercare!

confusedat23 · 10/01/2017 12:14

I will do Red im really excited although im not quite sure why lol... and I get creamy mucus like that before and after EWCM

Theres i hope everything goes ok with your implant removal

buzzmoon · 10/01/2017 12:01

There's, that's so so exciting! Fingers crossed that docs give the ok!

buzzmoon · 10/01/2017 12:00

Had quite a bit of that too grumpy and red! Hoping it's a good sign but still no sign of AF. I did come off the pill a few years ago just for a break, and it did take a month i think, so will only worry after that point :)

Wow I need to get a job at mothercare!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 10/01/2017 09:33

Thanks red hope you get AF soon. It's reassuring to hear you had this too.

Redpony1 · 10/01/2017 09:16

grumpy i also had thick stretchy mucus about 12 days after coming off the pill too! Still no AF though Sad

confused you have to tell us what you pick up at Mothercare!!

I used to work at Mothercare HQ, they have a HQ shop which is end of season stuff or good samples that they chose not to take on etc. It opened once a week and was VERY cheap! There was a waiting list for pushchairs but they were like £20. Complete outfits for £1 etc. Shame i got made redundant!!

TMI alert.... Yesterday eve i had clear/milky sticky mucus. Not masses but at least something is going on down there Smile

confusedat23 · 10/01/2017 09:01

ooo Theres that is so exciting! you are doing so well with the weight loss so I am sure 2stone will drop off you!

confusedat23 · 10/01/2017 08:57

Jupiter How many cycles have you put into Ovia? I wouldn't stress too much about when it says your most fertile day is as it's just based on an average... any day from 5 days before OV is fine to concieve!

omg Grumpy!! fx'd for you that it works!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 10/01/2017 08:50

Thanks - I'll keep you posted Grin

HeyJupiter · 10/01/2017 08:40

Grumpy might be pre-AF discharge if really thick? EWCM is sticky but thin enough for sperm to actually penetrate. Maybe you're gearing up for a bleed.

Timefortea sounds like good plan, can't imagine being pregnant would be a problem, let us know what GP says. You could easily lose bulk of that weight before March!

TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 10/01/2017 08:26

Yes I'm going to mention the safari to the doc and see what she says. But if went at 4 months would only be a small bump and it's all five star resorts. We won't be roughing it! A bit of bouncing around in the cars but I'm sure that's not dangerous. I'd much rather get cracking than have to wait eight months but will see what she says. I do want to lose at least 2 stone before preg really x

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TheGrumpySquirrel · 10/01/2017 08:26

Jupiter also sperm can live 5 days after ejaculation so I would not worry sounds like you DTD enough!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 10/01/2017 08:24

Jupiter yes stretchy but thick???

HeyJupiter · 10/01/2017 08:22

confused sounds like excellent first purchase, have fun!

HeyJupiter · 10/01/2017 08:20

Theres that's so so exciting!! March is practically tomorrow :)

HeyJupiter · 10/01/2017 08:19

Grumpy that's great! Is it sort of stretchy? Then definitely EWCM! Things sound like they're regulating nicely.

My DH had a "oh my god what if this actually happens?!" last night. I'm 1DPO today (am counting yesterday as day I ovulated after getting peak on OPK the day before) and hope we DTD enough over the last five days. If it's not TMI we did it on -3,-1,and ovulation day yesterday. Ovia now saying that -2 most fertile day so hope we haven't missed the boat..this is all so complicated!

confusedat23 · 10/01/2017 08:11

Wiggley It is very exciting! I have allowed myself £150 for tonights shopping spree! I have decided to get all the stuff for bottle making (As I am going to do a combination of bottle and breast fed). It is all on half price at mother care at the moment because Tommee Tippee are bringing out a new range.. but overall it saves like £150 buying the stuff on sale and SIL managed fine with it all! What OPK's are you buying?

Grumpy Do not panic it is EWCM! also you might be losing a pill induced plug, I did about 2 weeks before my first post pill AF which would line up with Ov dates... Time to get shagging!!! Wink

Theres That sounds like a perfect idea! Also there must be some safaris that would be suitable for someone with a small bump?

TheGrumpySquirrel · 10/01/2017 08:06

Thanks guys! Well we DTD properly this morning (struggling to find a good phrase for this...) so it looks like "not actively trying" for us just means seeing what happens.. DH face afterwards.. "what if this works?!" Grin

If / when AF arrives I'll start tracking with the CBFM aiming to conceive in may but not going to be upset if it accidentally happens in the mean time

TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 10/01/2017 08:01

Ah Grumpy hope it's ovulation! Fingers crossed for you.

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JB1983 · 10/01/2017 07:57

Sounds like EWCM grmupy so you are probably in your fertile week/ovulating. Fingers crossed that's what it is! Smile

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