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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 19/12/2016 10:51

Hi all, we are planning on TTC in the new year. Before that I want to get a bit healthier lose three stone and generally be in the best shape possible to get pregnant and run around after a baby. Is anyone else in the same boat? Would you be up for a little thread to keep us all on track? Planning on doing a dry January as a kick start and then will be dragging my arse to the gym after Christmas as well. Very open to suggestion and ideas to shift the bulge. Would be good to have a few buddies though. Anyone fancy joining in?

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confusedat23 · 11/01/2017 16:15

Oooo Grumpy deffo sounds more like EWCM to me!! And you managed to DTD as well didn't you? How exciting i'm so glad to have others on TWW (be it planned or not) lol

TheGrumpySquirrel · 11/01/2017 15:46

Confused it was not white like pregnancy plug (my preg plug was hard like candle wax) it was between clear and cream coloured.

confusedat23 · 11/01/2017 15:30

Jupiter I am so glad someone else gets it! Honestly its the oddest feeling! No pain or anything just i know its there lol... i am due AF on 20th so I am going to hold off testing until then... but i don't know how i will sneak one without DH knowing! But i tend to spot for a day or 2 before anyways.

So me you and Grumpy might all be testing at the same time!

Also Grumpy what colour has it been? When i lost my post pill plug it literally was creamy coloured like a pregnancy plug so it could be that as well as ovulation or conception

TheGrumpySquirrel · 11/01/2017 15:22

Great Jupiter we can both test at the same time lol! Now I'm going to try and think of other things - my weight loss / fitness mainly which is excuse to avoid alcohol anyway

HeyJupiter · 11/01/2017 15:21

Sounds like a plan! It is very exciting... I'm going to test on 24th too is AF a no-show...

TheGrumpySquirrel · 11/01/2017 15:18

Very thick very sticky

TheGrumpySquirrel · 11/01/2017 15:17

It's fine I'm trying not to get excited. If that was ovulation / conception then I'm going to test two weeks later? So January 24?

HeyJupiter · 11/01/2017 15:08

Oh god Grumpy sorry for panicking you. Apparently the CM post ovulation is much thicker and stickier than EWCM (which is more slippery) and it's sort of used to plug the cervix and keep bad things away from the egg. Don't worry :) Not everyone gets it anyway!!!

Redpony1 · 11/01/2017 15:05

Ohhh lots to catch up on!

Welcome HP Smile

Don't panic grumpy , what will be will be! Grin Although, i have been thinking, if you don't know when you are due AF or when ovulation was, when do you test? If you get symptoms?

Found out my friend conceived after taking the pill before she got any AF visits!!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 11/01/2017 14:59

Although it was more jelly than creamy .. sorry for TMI Blush

TheGrumpySquirrel · 11/01/2017 14:53

Jupiter "Have read that post conception lots of women have creamy thick CM"

Panicking now slightly!!!

HeyJupiter · 11/01/2017 14:37

Also hi HP :)

HeyJupiter · 11/01/2017 14:24

Wow Grumpy good work! You must feel great!

Theres - that is such fantastic and exciting news. Maybe you could just go without any contraception for now and then try more actively after 8 weeks? So happy for you.

Sshsecret - brilliant that you got your high reading. Your CM also shows that peak fertility is right round the corner. I tend to get 3-4 days of flashing faces before I get my static one.

confused I do know what you mean. I feel really aware of my womb too although I am madly symptom spotting all the time. Have read that post conception lots of women have creamy thick CM although I haven't had any since I ovulated. I'm hoping though it's too soon as the egg won't have even implanted yet if we were lucky this month... so maybe next week. When is your AF due? Mine is due 22nd (Sunday)

Mummyme87 · 11/01/2017 11:17

My OPK came today. I used clear blue last month but wasn't overly excited by them for £30 a go. Paid about £5 for 20 OPK online, will start today

TheresAlwaysTimeForTea · 11/01/2017 10:43

Well done Grumpy on the weight loss! I'm sure you're feeling better now the numbers are going in the right direction.

Confused I'm not sure if we'll start right away tbh. The doc said we'd probably need to wait 8 weeks for everything to return to normal. We are skiing in feb so will probably start in march. Hopefully cycles will be back by then.

I bought a pregnancy book today, and a baby name book (we've been looking for one for ages) and those cute milestone cards for baby's first [insert event]. I needed to break a note and they were too cute not to buy!

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HPeveryday · 11/01/2017 10:37

Is there room for one more please?
I have a boy who's 11 months today and am still carrying the excess weight. I gained more than 5 stones in the pregnancy and managed to lose 4 then gained another 2 so I need to lose at least 1.5 before I get to my pre pregnancy weight!
My problem is I have zero motivation and mentally have settled at this weight. Argghhh, I need to lose this weight!

confusedat23 · 11/01/2017 09:45

Well done Grumpy you are
Smashing it!!

Also has anyone ever been overly aware of their womb... very very odd feeling i have today Hmm

TheGrumpySquirrel · 11/01/2017 09:17

59.4 kg this morning down from 61 on Monday so bloating is gone I think! Spin class early tomorrow and yoga at weekend to stay on track. Food is my weakness though and low carb isn't going well so far!

Mummyme87 · 11/01/2017 09:02

Coming in to my fertile week today, CD10..was hoping my OPK and thermometer would have turned up by now. I'm full of cold, feeling awful so not sure how I'm going to be able to dtd so frequently this week 🤔😬

buzzmoon · 11/01/2017 08:47

There's - I came off the implant a few years ago so can't remember the bloating, I think I got a lot of bleeding though, so fingers crossed for you.
I do remember having a huge sense of relief though and realised that I had been a crazy person for 3 years but didn't know what was causing it!

I'm 18 days off cerazette at the mo :)

confusedat23 · 11/01/2017 08:17

haha Red I just looked at the essentials really... I knew I needed the bottle maker after using it with my nephew and the stereliser is a must! but the nappy disposal system I saw and asked DH about because anything that will get him to help with changing is a benefit in my eyes lol

Holly don't worry I am only getting the bits which are a bargin now... all the other months I am going to keep some money aside so I can go crazy once we actually make the baby lol

Well done JB! you will get back into it in no time! The documentary was amazing and like Mrs says I am really not sure how anyone gets pregnant with those odds!

I am also a massive fan of OBEM and I go through days where I just binge watch it, I end up being so conntected to some of the people on there but it makes me mega broody!

Grumpy if that was EWCM then you will be in the TWW now!

I'm glad your cycles are comign back Seven are you going to use IC OPKs?

Theres That is the best news ever... are you going to be starting right away?

Mummyme87 · 11/01/2017 08:12

Go for it Grumpy. Homebirth is highly recommended for low risk women and evidence from the birth place study shows it is the safest place to give birth (if it's not your first baby), midwifery led unit came in 2nd and the delivery suite last

TheGrumpySquirrel · 11/01/2017 08:04

Thanks mummy that was me. I didn't mind hospital but feel confident my body knows what to do and would rather stay home - plus there is a real risk of not getting to hospital in time if it's as fast as my first!

Thanks holly fingers crossed I start ovulating soon. 17 days off cerazette now

Heyitsholly · 11/01/2017 07:54

Thegrumpysquirrell i got pg after one period with cerezette after 6 years on it. Hoping for similar this time

Mummyme87 · 11/01/2017 07:40

I saw further up the thread about someone wanting a homebirth after a previous 35/40. No reason why you couldn't have a booked homebirth, obviously if you went in to labour before 37/40 then HB would be out of the question but if you went to term then it's fine

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