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'Not a negative but not a positive' HELP!

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Buildthemup · 13/12/2016 09:33

Went for a smear test two days ago. Asked if there's a chance I could be pregnant and there is (although have been TTC for 18 months so unlikely). She said lets do a test just in case. She did those cheap GP ones, came up with one strong line and one faint. She said ooh I'm not sure I can't say it's a positive or a negative sort of things. Enough that id say not to do the smear test. Wait a week and test again. Has this ever happened to anyone?? Obviously going out of my mind. not wanting to get excited as I thought it's always pretty clear its either a yes or a no! Help talk me down!

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Nicky883 · 14/12/2016 18:51

Congratulations !! Grin

IckleWicklePumperNickle · 14/12/2016 16:43

GrinGrinGrin

Buildthemup · 14/12/2016 16:14

Will do stick pic when I'm home! Line doesn't seem all that faint now. Going to go to docs tomorrow morning and maybe do that free test tonight to make sure. I'm so excited have spent so much time (privately) crying.

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soupforbrains · 14/12/2016 00:31

Ooh this thread is the right kind of exciting. Marking my place in hopes of re-confirmed good news tomorrow/in days to come. GrinFlowersStar

lucylou1234 · 13/12/2016 23:31

congratulations ! sorry for jumpingin - was reading through the post excited to see what was happening :p Flowers

2ducks2ducklings · 13/12/2016 22:15

Congratulations! What a wonderful christmas surprise x

ChanandlerBongsNeighbour · 13/12/2016 20:59

Ah congratulations Smile

HOHOHOvariesBeforeBrovaries · 13/12/2016 20:56

Yay congrats!!

IckleWicklePumperNickle · 13/12/2016 19:51

Do we have a pic yet. I also love stick pictures Grin

IckleWicklePumperNickle · 13/12/2016 15:40

Congrats Grin

walsh86 · 13/12/2016 15:15

can you upload a pic on here for us to see?
exciting - congratulations

Buildthemup · 13/12/2016 15:04

I can't decide. Think he'll be quite nervous and I won't be at home to talk to him rationally!

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PotOfYoghurt · 13/12/2016 14:53

Congratulations!! Grin now go and celebrate

beckslovestimmy · 13/12/2016 14:38

Tell him, I bet he'll be so excited!! Remember to lay off the alcohol tonight too! How exciting

Buildthemup · 13/12/2016 14:34

Thanks so much everyone. So nice to have people on your side Smile but also feel like it would have really softened the blow if it was negative.

I'm going out tonight. Do I ring DH and tell him
Or wait til I see him
In morning?

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beckslovestimmy · 13/12/2016 14:33

Sounds like congrats are in order. With DD we were trying for 18 months, had started fertility investigations and were given meds to start first day of period that never came. I think I did 5 or 6 tests before I believed it!! Good luck.

DorothyHarris · 13/12/2016 14:32

Congratulations!! Xmas Smile what a lovely Christmas present!

Buildthemup · 13/12/2016 14:31

Crikey in excited! Can't remember how I managed to not tell every living soul I saw last time!!!!

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Gingerbreadmam · 13/12/2016 14:29

Faint line is a line. Splash out on a digi for the morning. If ur a coupl of days late will deffos work. Congrats!

janiPop · 13/12/2016 14:28

Yes it's right! A second line will only appear if the test detects hcg. Congratulations! Xmas Grin

Buildthemup · 13/12/2016 14:25

Ah!!! Faint line!!! That means it is right????

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DorothyHarris · 13/12/2016 14:19

Mine were like that both times, real squinters and most definitely positive. Good luck Flowers

Stormwhale · 13/12/2016 14:16

Ooh how exciting!! Fingers crossed!

PotOfYoghurt · 13/12/2016 14:15

Fx for you!

BagelDog · 13/12/2016 14:10

Hope you get the news you want but that does sound like a positive!

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