SQUARE ONE TO GRADUATES! Over here! Let's go find those BFPS!

So sorry tee you must feel so disappointed. Everything was looking so promising :( xxx big hug

One for you Kate! Don't let their rude actions leave a nasty taste. Hold your head up high... onwards and upwards.

That's so shit kate how rude of them. Your legacy there will be the fabulous lessons you gave those kids who will all have learnt so much from you.

How are you feeling kiki?

Positive opk!!!

Had a terrible day. I got snubbed by my headteacher. Normally they give people leaving a card in our staff meeting and say thanks etc... instead there was no mention. Kick in the teeth after 4 and a half years! Not even a thanks for working 60 hour weeks (6 months for free at one point). I'm well rid! Start my new job at the end of Feb so I'm off to visit my fam in California next week to just clear my head and get some space.

Hi all,

Thanks beagles hope you are starting to feel better now. Not heard of the bracelet but might be worth a try..

Footy - glad you are still going on the journal it seems to be helping and is a good outlet for all those feelings that shouldn't be bottles up. Glad things are settling down FX for you. Dh and I still nervous about what could happen but news has settled in now - he even defrosted my car for me this am hope he keeps this niceness up!!

Oh tee I'm so sorry I was convinced my cycle buddy would turn into my BFP buddy.. as jam said you absolutely can get your bfp again xx

Thanks Mimi and I hope you're right I hope the good luck rubs off on everyone too it'd be so lovely to see another BFP on here!

Kate - FX for you my lovely - we DTD on the Thursday + Saturday and I think I ovulated on the Sunday so your timing sounds good!

Hope everyone else is OK xx

oh tee :( I'm so sorry lovely lady. I know it hurts so much now but you will feel better and stronger in a few days and it won't be long until you are trying again. You have got your BFP before and you can do it again

footy really glad to hear the atmosphere has improved - long may this continue

mimi sorry you are having such a tough time of it too. How long have you been trying now?

CD1 Cycle14 (I think)
Just so sad 😪😪😪

Hi everyone! Hope everyone is well. First new episode of call the midwife last night- made me cry, so would love another baby :(

Kiki Hope news has settled in and you are feeling relaxed you have your bfp. Is Dh excited?!

Nim thinking of u, hope is still ok. How u feeling?

Beagles- no not heard of that before- looks good though. I'm obsessed with my fitbit as it is so I def don't need anymore devices!

Mimi so sorry for AF. Do you use opks? I can't remember?

Teehow u doing? Any testing yet?

Kate- nearly there! When do u start new job? Hope u get some time off before?!

Jam- do u think u ovulated?

Cd11
It's been 3 days of a good atmosphere. We've been talking loads and continuing with counselling both together and separately. It's definitely going to be a long slog and probably lots of heartache along the way. Managed to dtd a couple of times which has helped draw us together and talking. I can't let it stress me out about which is good day etc to dtd as enough going on and i can't manage his mood, my mood and a convenient mood! Hoping this laid back approach might benefit us.

Still writing my journal - quite scary when I flick back through pages as can't believe some of the stuff I've written. I get very deep and low when feeling crap so it's a bit depressing to read I actually sound depressed!

Haven't noticed much cramps, twinges or cm change though so far so guessing I'm still pre- ovulation.

Sorry pressed post by mistake

kate enjoy the departure and hope the new job is a lot better sweetie .lt just might be what you need for that bfp.

jam how is the tww going? I don't have the energy to continue ttc because af got me again 3 days ago .l also can't stop lol.lt is just so messed up.

beagles ,speedy recovery to you dear.sorry you have to go back to work already.

nim how are you holding dear? Hope you and little bean are fine.

Just thought of all the oldies. parney ,how are you and the baby? radders ,is there a little one yet? jod ps and russ hope all is well.

durez waves and good luck this cycle.

Hello and good luck to everyone l missed

Congratulations kiki.Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy hun.

Wow, this thread is on the roll this year. Each time I log on to a bfp . hope the luck rubs onto everyone.

tee any good news today? Fx for you dear. It would be so nice to hear more exciting news.

Hie there foot ,hope you and h are doing better. Thinking of you.

kate , glad you are about to finish work. You absolutely need

Not long to go kate! Hope your DH can be persuaded

Beagles that sounds like quite the cocktail! Hope it goes the trick, getting plenty of rest is so important too so I hope you are feeling much better soon

I finish next friday beagles and I can't wait!!

Kiki very glad Mr Kiki has stopped being a knob!

TMI but Huge globs of EWCM in the last two days, so don't think I've oved yet... dtd last night. Even though we are just not trying not preventing, I am still obsessed!!!! Doubt tonight will be a hit, maybe I can convince tomorrow night? Looking at past months I get EWCM two days before ov... so tomorrow or the next day I would think. Neg opk, so not quite sure what is going on!

Thanks footy - think you are right in hindsight sharing the dodgy test might have been a bad idea, he seems a changed man now!

Thanks tee - it's my second cycle, as I have to take meds to make me ovulate initially I didn't have my 1st until 5 weeks after the mmc plus I have longer cycles! Your symptoms sound good I am so hoping for you buddy xx

Thanks jam! I'm terrified!

Thanks beagles he is better now thankfully. Hope your antibiotics work now they are trying some different ones and it sounds like you needed a good rest! A friend of mine used to swear by ecchinacea for immune system boost, not sure if you want to add to your vitamin repertoire though bless you. Hope you are feeling well for DTD and fingers crossed xx

Fantastic news kiki seriously thrilled for you and keeping everything crossed for a healthy pregnancy

Fx Tee! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

Wow Kiki you deserve this big time! So if mmc was Oct, sounds like this is your 3rd cycle since?! Same as Nim! That'll give me good hope for next month if it isn't my time now (2nd cycle since mmc) Maybe you really are more fertile after mc!
I've had some very slight cramps creep in, so I'm really 50/50 on which way this'll go now. I will definitely see how tomorrow pans out at least, but maybe I'll test Wednesday rather than wait until Friday x

That's super news kiki!
I think men just don't get women stuff and best left for us to know what's best in these situations. Men over react!

Good luck everyone else xx

Thanks tee - it was two years on the 15th Jan! We are a little anxious because we had the mmc in October but fx all will be well.
I hope so too it'd be great for my cycle buddy to ha e the same outcome! Keep us posted when are you testing? xx

That's fantastic news!!
How long have you been trying Kiki?!
Congratulations, I feel very encouraged that my cycle buddy has been successful, hope it's catching 😊🤰🏼x

Well Mr Kiki seems a bit happier now took your advice and cb says pregnant 1-2 weeks! Took ages so thought it would be not pregnant.

Thanks for all your support ladies would be a mental case without it FX we make it safely to 12 weeks and FX for those testing soon - tee your positive next I hope! xx

That's great you've seen the line again kiki I would probably do the CB if I were you, you can always get another to do tomorrow?

Shame on mr Kiki, maybe he's freaking out a bit.

Oh dear that sounds rather petty Mr Kiki! Talk about missing the point! Perhaps he's just feeling very anxious about it, considering how long you've tried for (remind us exactly, not far off 2 years is it?) and the mc recently? I'm sure when he sees a strong line he'll be more supportive? Bit of a dramatic reaction talking about whether he can live with you!! As if you needed to feel anymore uneasy today! I reckon you've come this far, you may as well do the CB now! x

To be honest tee he didn't really acknowledge the test just got in a grump because I'd tested early (he was expecting we would this morning). Then it went downhill from there, apparently I never listen to him and he needs to decide if he can live with me the way I treat him.
I did the IC with the 4:45 wee which was pretty much negative, however did one at 10:30 same type of test (getting obsessed now) and it was the same as the pictured faint line from yesterday. Don't know whether to do cb later today or wait for tomorrow am.