Happy Sunday everyone. I haven't ovulated yet If I ovulate today that should mean a luteal phase of 12 days... is that ok??? Should I get the TCOYF book?? Would it help me do you think? Or would it make me worse?
Have to say I am having a little bit of a down day... I know it isn't like me to be pessimistic, but I really don't think that this is my month (sorry Greedy!) we have been doing it every other day, so not worried about the effort side of things... I just think there is something wrong with me Sorry for being so mopey.
Fettle, I don't think I will do the OPKs again, they have just put doubts into my mind about the reliability of my temps. Which is pretty daft since there seems to be a clear pattern to my temp shifts I just don't know. Hope that you are feeling great by the way
Mum03, tee hee, fancy putting your RL family before your tempbuddy family! Hope all is well
Honeyapple, Relax and take it easy!! I think you are right to stop temping, it may only cause you to worry if you have a slight deviation in temps, and that's not a good idea!
Greedy, Thinking of you tomorrow!!
Rahrah, (((hugs))) Oh honey, I'm so sorry to hear you down... You really do need to find a way to relax about ttc, I know, it's easy for me to sit here and suggest it (bloody cheek of me huh!!) You have been through so much, and you really don't deserve all of this! Just remember, you have been through a traumatic experience, and it has affected you very much. I think you are putting far too much pressure on yourself to be "back to normal". 28 days is a good length of cycle though, and you should perhaps forget your DPO this month, as ovulation wasn't clearcut... but that can happen to any woman and at any time, it's just a pain in the rear that it happened this month for you. But try not to worry (you can slap me if you like ) so much. I wish I could say better things than I do, I am pretty useless at being supportive, but I so hope you fall pg really soon ((hugs))
Seaside, ooooh creme eggs at your thoughts of early menopause from the night sweats, glad your mind is at ease on that. I know what you mean though, my mum has already gone through her menopause, and isn't quite 50. It is a worry.
Lottie, you boozy thing you Hope you had a great night though, and took your mind off of everything! Your temp is high, I am inclined to say that it is a mixture of booze and hormones!! So fingers and toes crossed
Minxi, liking that, what is wrong with us, nothing, it's just taking time!! It is so hard, and each month it gets harder and harder. I am at the stage now (quite ridiculously I know) where I am wondering at what point I will just give up! I am not the type of person who gives up either, so it is a really disconcerting feeling!!
Angelfire, LOL at your DH thinking every day is best Well, it worked for Mr&MrsMcJnr, so it's always worth a shot I haven't done my OPK yet, I do it about 5pm. Maybe that's where I have been going wrong?? I have a bad feeling about this month, just don't think I will ovulate I'd be inclined to not adjust your temp from yesterday as it sits in well with your chart.
Weepootleflump, hope you are surviving your visitors (MIL and MT) I always wake up before I need to (I may have already told you this, apologies if it is repetition!) so I set an alarm for earlier, that way it's less often that I have to adjust my temp.
Where is Iwillbepgbydec07???
Have a great day all!