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mum03 · 11/02/2007 10:15

rahrah - for you a new thread!

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Ready · 16/02/2007 16:18

Rahrah, isn't MrsMc selling her salivascope?? Or did I dream it??

Ready · 16/02/2007 16:17

Rahrah, well I am glad I make you laugh!! I aim to please I thought it was hpts that I was going to snatch off you

Lottie, honestly, you are not boring at all. We agree on so many things, how on earth could you be more boring than me I have been using the Boots own brand OPK, I had intended to use them until my temp had been up for at least 3 days and I was convinced that I have ovulated, even if I get a darker line. I wanted to use them to concur with my temps really. We have had sex every other day, and as soon as I get a positive opk we will do it every day for 3 days. Fingers crossed.

rahrah1 · 16/02/2007 16:15

londonlottie - Did you stop using the cheap ones then? I think I'm going to be obsessed with them too... until I get that bloody line!! I will conquer those OPK..I'm also going to order a ferning kit... I will not be gotten the better of!

rahrah1 · 16/02/2007 16:14

Did you stop using the cheap ones then? I think I'm going to be obsessed with them too... until I get that bloody line!! I will conquer those OPK..I'm also going to order a ferning kit... I will not be gotten the better of!

rahrah1 · 16/02/2007 16:07

Hi Ready... Thanks -- you make me laugh... But I'm in the midlands so you will have to keep your mitts off my OPK...lol

londonlottie · 16/02/2007 16:07

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Ready · 16/02/2007 16:03

LOL at Rahrah spitting at the OPKs, saliva isn't going to work (hugs)

I am getting on ok CD11 no line (well, the most pathetic attempt at a line, really faint, barely there) and then CD12 the same, then yesterday CD13, a little stronger, but still not close to the control, I will do todays in an hour... but my temp dip this morning mirrors last month so presuming I will get a darker line today and ov tomorrow or the next... Fingers crossed

Ready · 16/02/2007 16:00

Argh, I have missed out on so much, I love being busy as I don't think about ttc, but I have missed chatting with everyone

Honeyapple!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BIG HUGE CONGRATULATIONS WOOOOOOOOOO! I am so happy for you!! How very exciting!! I've had such a good feeling about you, what with all your ewcm!! Must confess to a little tear at your news!! All the best!!

Lottie, I'm away 5 minutes and you turn into the resident viagra dealer pmsl @ you crumbling them in dp's supper
Hugs by the way, I feel for you regarding the termination, I am so pleased that I never had to make such a difficult decision. But you really shouldn't beat yourself up about it! Both you and MrsMc did what was right for you, and that is all you can do. (hugs)

MrsMc, Bless them all, they didn't upset me, although they thought they had!! I have officially given up on trying to stop early testing, they never listen to me Hope that your spotting has stopped. Hope you are ok. I have recorded that miracles in the womb, mixed opinions on here though??

Greedy, how are you?? Sorry to hear about your weird patient!!

Fettle, I have missed you!! Although, obviously I understand why you have retreated a little! But don't stay away too long.

Weepootleflump?? Why the foul mood? Are you ok honey?

Seaside, I love to see another positive and upbeat attitude!! Remind me of that in 2 weeks when I am crying and depressed and entering cycle #7!!

Mum03, Sounds like you have got a tremendous amount of change going on in your lives at the moment. Sorry to hear about the possible delay of ttc, I am sure whatever you decide will be right for all of you.

Rahrah, oh honey, (hugs) How close are you to Manchester? I'll be round to get those bloody tests!! I will give up on early testing if people don't get upset by a BFN! But I hate to think of you so upset, so I really don't want to you take anymore!! A BFN this early means NOTHING Hang in there sweets, thinking of you.

Minxi at you demanding sex!! Crumbs, you are hot, hope you feel better soon!! The difference between our temps on the same CD is mental!! Do you think you may have ovulated??

Angelfire, hope all is well!! Hope you are elsewhere engaged and unable to post your temp

Iwillbe, cycle bud. How are you? Jump in temp?? Ov??

Right, well I best get on!! I bet I will have crossed posts with some of you. Apologies once again for not being on here lately!!

Thinking of all of you.

rahrah1 · 16/02/2007 15:57

Rah spits at the rest on her OPK's... useless waste of pee....

londonlottie · 16/02/2007 15:55

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ammylovesolivia · 16/02/2007 15:51

Do temps dip slightly before OV?

Ready · 16/02/2007 15:46

Mum03 - 36.9 cd2 (3rd cycle ttc)
Angelfire - tbc CD10 (2nd cycle ttc)
Ready - 35.96 CD14 (6th cycle ttc)
Iwillbepg - 36.48 CD14 (9th cycle ttc)
Minxi - 37.04 CD14 (8th cycle ttc)
Seaside72 - 36.81 CD18 5DPO (11th cycle ttc)
LondonLottie - 36.75 CD20 3DPO (4th cycle ttc)
Weepootleflump - 39.96 CD25 8DPO(3rd cycle ttc)
Rahrah - 36.6 CD26 8DPO (3rd cycle ttc)
Honeyapple - 37.7 cd28 13DPO (6th cycle ttc)

Pre-Ov dip for me possibly???

ammylovesolivia · 16/02/2007 15:40

OK, I'll stick with it and see what happens.

CONGRATS honeyapple, very happy for you xxxxx

honeyapple · 16/02/2007 15:38

Hi ammy,
I think you need to have a few temps in a row before you can def confirm any OV or not. This means that any freak temps ie from illness, do not muck it up! So you'll need to temp for about 3 more days to see any definite pattern.

ammylovesolivia · 16/02/2007 15:31

Thank you guys! will stick with it, just a bit cross that it's happened at that 'key' time. If the hike in temps is a sign of ovulation, I suppose they may drop a bit but stay above the cover line and if there is no hike they may go back below coverline now I'm getting temp down with antibiotics and painkillers. Is this right? So tomorrows temp should really show what has happened.

honeyapple · 16/02/2007 15:28

Afternoon!
Just got back from taking DC to the cinema- saw Charlotte's Web- and I cried nearly all the way through! Tried desperately to blow my nose and mop my face without being noticed! Probably all the emotions of this morning... but goodness me it WAS a sad film!
Is the book as sad? I can't remember.

It's ok to be upset about things that happened in the past, but we cannot blame ourselves for making the decisions that we did. I would not have the children I have today if i did not have the termination i did when i was younger. I would not have met my DP if I had not had my DS when I did, and I wouldnt be PG now with this baby if the MAP had worked when I fell PG with DD after only 1 month of dating DP. All actions have negative and positive effects.

MrsMcJnr · 16/02/2007 15:24

Lottie ? the reason I went for a medical termination rather than I surgical at the time was because I felt it would be easier to deal with if I saw all that was there and really, there was very, very little and for a long time, that made me feel better, I?d tell myself that it was little more than a tiny collection of cells and just a promise of a baby, not a real one. I do feel a bit differently now I have to say but being selfish, if I?d kept that child, my life would have been so different, I would never have met DH, I would be with someone that I didn?t love enough. Hindsight is a powerful thing, a bit like knowledge, I believe I can still live with my decision though.

londonlottie · 16/02/2007 14:53

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MrsMcJnr · 16/02/2007 14:37

Lottie ? I know what you mean about the freaky bits, I didn?t like seeing that needle going through her abdomen to laser the arteries either! Re the termination point, that is something that is weighing very heavily on my mind at the moment too. I am very much looking forward to the point where I get past the stage that I was at but still have quite a way to go. I know that at the time, I looked at every angle of my life and realy thought long and hard about the future of the baby and of me and of my relationship at the time and I do believe I made a decision based on good judgement but now that I yearn for this baby so much, and track every second of her development, I cannot help but mourn for the child I so callously disgarded. I suspect that plays a big part in my fear of losing this one, the thought that maybe I just don?t deserve the chance. Heavy for a Friday afternoon, sorry!

Seaside yes, I liked the kicking point too. I also thought the theory on left handed people being potentially part of a set of twins was interesting. Lots of lefties in my family, I should have been but my Mum changed my hand when I was little. What they didn?t say, and my friends with the triplets told me this, is that identical twins can be hereditary down the male line as that there may be a gene in the sperm that makes the egg split!

That was amazing what you said about the twins? birth mark Honeyapple!

Ammy ? being ill can distort your temps I?m afraid, keep at it though and you?ll see a pattern overall.

ammylovesolivia · 16/02/2007 13:52

Can I ask a question?

We are not planning ttc til Summer but have been taking my temps to see that I am ovulating ok and when. However I am about to ovulate around now and have got bloody tonsillitis. My temp was so high this morning that it took a few goes for it to register and I havent slept well. I am gutted!! My first month temping and I was so excited to see the change. My temp yesterday was 36.36 and today it was 37.07. I suppose what I'm asking is have I got to put this month down as a bad month and disregard my readings or can it be salvaged?

TIA XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX hope you are all well!

mum03 · 16/02/2007 12:27

It takes ages for men to take on board what pregnacy is all about, my dh seemed excited to start with with our first pg, but then was just kind of "whats all the fuss about?" later, it is just such a different experience for them, they do not have the changes hormonally and physically going on, so honey - I can understand your dp wanting another test, why don't you splash out on a digital one where it says the word pregnant?! Although I am not sure if they are as sensitive as the first response tests or not???

My dh will probrably change his mind in a week or so about trying again. When he wants some 'action', he will have to be the one deciding whether to use protection or not, and I am sure he will choose not to. Hence why I am still temping. I asked him outright if he does not want any more children, and his answer was "well does it mean that if we don't now, we won't ever?" I know he wants another child really, he is just worried about what would happen if we were both out of work for a while - where would we get the money for the mortgage and food etc.... He wants to quit his current job and try getting temporary jobs for a while while he re-trains, but this would leave us vunerable if I was pg and he could not get a job. If I was not pg, then I could easily get work if needed, even if it was not locally. This is turning into an essay again, and I do not want to take Honey's special day away from her, so do not worry about me, I suspect in a weeks time, dh will change his mind again and we will be back to ttc!

Oh and congrats again honey - I am still so excited for you.

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honeyapple · 16/02/2007 12:02

I saw one bit that said if you are left handed you may have had a twin in utero- but it died early on- as identical twins are one right handed and one left handed- kind of mirror image. My DS has twin friends and they are like this- even have a mirror image birth mark! Weird heh.

Thanks everyone for the congratuations! Not sunk in yet. DP wants me to get another test to make sure- but i told him you cant get a false positive. Anyway, might pop out later and get another one to do tommorrow am!

seaside72 · 16/02/2007 11:54

MrsMcJnr - That prog was fascinating as far as the facts they gave - I never knew that multiple births could be created in so many diff ways! It must have been reallly interesting for you at the stage you are at too.
The real 4D scans were amazing - but the CGI bits were a bit weird and combined with the poetry too

I though the best fact was that girls kick more than boys

londonlottie · 16/02/2007 11:47

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