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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Mimilicious013 · 16/10/2016 06:33

Another month of trying; hopefully BFPs all round. Good luck ladies! !
Mimi
Age 35
Cycle 17
Af due 12 / 11
ETD 13 / 11

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DrRBannerx · 12/11/2016 20:06

lulu not every day, just in fertile window. I couldn't keep that up every dayBlush

Lulu298 · 12/11/2016 20:02

3x a day, every day?! I'm not surprised it's at risk of falling off dr!!

DrRBannerx · 12/11/2016 19:48

danigrace it's going to fall off before I get my bfp Hmm
soozc I liked that film, but totally couldn't watch it atm due to jealousy umm just not being in the mood...

SoozC · 12/11/2016 19:09

I'm due af tomorrow according to FF. I think I'm trying to kid myself that my usual night-before cramps aren't starting right now.
Just watched Bridget Jones' baby. Possibly a mistake as she's one of those upduffed by mistake cases and it's made me a bit sad to be moving into cycle 10!

danigrace · 12/11/2016 12:49

Go Mr & Mrs Banner haha!

Dichoto I'm testing again Mon after faint positive yesterday at 10/11 dpo. I had cramps the day before yesterday. But my sore boobs felt quite different to my usual sore boobs which is what prompted me to test

DrRBannerx · 12/11/2016 11:45

My oh loves this time of the month for that reason! fingers crossed for you tomorrow x

DichotoMous · 12/11/2016 11:34

3 times a day? Fair play! My DH 'complained' at 3 times over four days! 😝 Thanks for your message, it was reassuring. If I'm not pg I think I'm either coming down with something or gearing up for the mother of all periods!

DrRBannerx · 12/11/2016 11:13

I just wrote a whole message to you and it deleted! Angry
I was saying, not testing as fertile period should start Monday, although dtd three times a day just incase ov is messed up from mc.
For piece of mind, when I was last pregnant I tested negative the day before af due and even had awful cramps like period day before and on the day in the morning, I was absolutely sure it was my period but it wasn't. Good luck! X

DichotoMous · 12/11/2016 11:04

Well today I am 11DPO and according to my period tracker AF is due tomorrow. I caved and did an early test with FMU but BFN. However my boobs are still sore and I feel a bit queasy and crampy. Why is it that these things could also be PMS??? I am not feeling totally disheartened though as with my daughter I also tested negative at 11DPO and didn't actually get a positive until a day after AF was due (I didn't bother testing again until I was late), which means unless AF shows up I will be testing again on Monday. Is anyone testing this weekend?

danigrace · 12/11/2016 10:42

Dazed oh no, sorry to hear that! This year I had a cycle that lasted from the beginning of March til mid August! Have you been tested by your doc regarding your long cycles? If you know why it's happening hopefully you can figure out a way to shorten them. Or get your DH to pack you in his suitcase!!

Magpie it certainly sounds like you're covered, fingers crossed for you!! My ewcm can go a bit haywire like that which is where I found opk's really handy

MissMagpie · 12/11/2016 10:32

Oh no dazed - hopefully you will get another chance before March. If not, make the most of doing things you won't be able to do when pregnant and savour those moments.

I thought I ovulated around Weds according to my ewcm but was still having loads yday and have had possible ovulation pains overnight (if it's not that cyst I had last month twinging).

We have dtg 5 times this week including yday and my DH says he is too knackered to do it again this weekend so hoping we are covered.

Time will tell I suppose.

Dazedandconfusedtoomuchpeppa · 12/11/2016 10:24

Thank dani. My husband works offshore & with my cycles being so ridiculously long we will completely miss fertile weeks until March.

danigrace · 12/11/2016 10:08

Dazed ugh so sorry to hear that, big hugs xx why do you say until March? Xx

You're most welcome Lulu, hope it helps xx

Dazedandconfusedtoomuchpeppa · 12/11/2016 10:01

AF just arrived on day 38, so cycle day 1 for me. Looks like that's me out until March unless cycle changes Sad .

Good luck everyone x

Lulu298 · 12/11/2016 08:03

Thanks dani that's so helpful Smile xx

Mimilicious013 · 11/11/2016 22:07

Congratulations daniFlowersStarFlowersStar

Sorry for your loss dr🍀.best of luck now.

Sorry too vanilla for af Wine

Good luck all in the running. Keeping an eye on your bfps. Af just left the building but left me with a terrible backache.

Happy weekend everyone! !

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danigrace · 11/11/2016 21:50

Thanks Dazed, I just hope it's sticky! Have you done a test??

danigrace · 11/11/2016 21:47

Lulu the combinaion of everything together was to bring forward/encourage ov, I very much doubt just one piece would have worked alone bc my hormones and cycle [or lack of] was so messed up. But I've only researched from my own point of view (anovulatory pcos) so not sure which bits apply to other situations and how.
This cycle I took 100mg vit B6 from the day after my +ve opk to support and lengthen the luteal phase (generic brand, pic attached) & that applies to all I think, not just pcos. If it didn't make a difference this cycle I would have also added progesterone cream (bought over the counter) next cycle.

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Dazedandconfusedtoomuchpeppa · 11/11/2016 21:36

Congrats dani

CD37 and bad cramps here. Hurry up AF Angry

DrRBannerx · 11/11/2016 21:28

Thank you lulu
I'm hoping to hear more good news on here soon Smile

Lulu298 · 11/11/2016 20:36

Congratulations danigrace - that's fantastic news! Hope you get stronger lines over the next few tests.

And thanks for reposting your list. Which high dose b6 vits do you take? And did you come across anything to bring ovulation forward/lengthen your lt phase in your research?

Sorry for your loss Dr. Flowers

Here are my stats

36
Ttc #2
Cd 23
AF due 16/11
Cycle 5
Not sure if I've ovulated this month

DrRBannerx · 11/11/2016 16:33

All your hard work has paid off! You deserve it. I hope all the best for you x

danigrace · 11/11/2016 15:07

Haha, I know right. I did a LOT of research and reading of studies etc. before formulating myself a plan (specifically tailored to anovulatory pcos). I just realllly hope this is a sticky one, my first +ve test and it's been a long time coming!

DrRBannerx · 11/11/2016 14:30

Thanks so much! That's an awful lot more then I expected.. Best start stocking up! X

danigrace · 11/11/2016 14:14

DrBanner and anyone else interested here's a copy/paste of what I'd been having (which I posted a few weeks ago in another thread).
Big apologies to everyone else for text block!!

COPY/PASTED from a while back:
"So diet-wise a protein-heavy rather than carb-heavy diet, no added sugars /artificial sweeteners/ additives / processed foods / alcohol / gluten / only live organic yoghurt as dairy / only odd green tea as caffeine. Supplement/extras-wise I've been having a protein shake each morning (natural stevia sweetened whey isolate) & add 1tsp inositol [great for insulin issues that studies show may be a leading factor in pcos]; 1tsp maca root powder [studies show boosts circulation & good for pcos]; 1tbsp freshly ground flaxseed [again been shown to help with pcos - stopped this one after ov, (1st half of cycle only)]; and I throw a fistful of organic leafy greens in there. Also take Pregnacare conception; a good quality fish oil; calcium supp; high dose vit d3 supp; a herbal tincture prescription that includes agnus castus (stopped after ov); tribulus tincture days 5-14 of cycle [small studies have shown it can reduce ovarian cysts and boost chances of ov in up to 2/3 of pcos women, animal studies also v. successful]; also evening primrose oil 3 times a day from cd1 - cd14 to increase ewcm. Also been doing yoga most days in my living room before we start work or after work as well as going for a 30 min - 1hr walk with DH on our lunch break & daily fertility self-massage with geranium or clary sage oil (stopped after ov). Adding a high dose vit B6 for the luteal phase.
Don't think I've left anything out (oops yes I did - magnesium! Which I use in oil format sprayed on skin for better absorption), apologies for the essay!!"

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