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The October bus (cont'd)

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PurpleHaze1 · 07/10/2016 07:48

Wow! What a chatty bunch

I can see a very faint line me9an! Congratulations to you & skee! Grin

New bus so I'll repeat my stats...

Name: Purple
Age 29
TTC #2 (DD 28 months)
Cycle 5
CD 21 / 7 dpo

Fx for lots more BFPs!

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Thingymaboob · 24/10/2016 00:20

How many times a day are you testing? It's very unusual for you not to have ovulated when you have the other months. Do you think it's more likely to be caused by a brief LH surge which wasn't picked up on test? The month I got pregnant, I did not test positive on OPKs

Writerwannabe83 · 23/10/2016 22:13

Sorry for all the arrivals of AF.

I'm CD20 and I still haven't had a positive OPK whereas for the last 9 months that I've been tracking it's always happened on CD17/18. I'm not even getting faint lines, they are completely blank. I don't understand it really. I guess I'm having a random anovulatory cycle but I'm not too fussed seeing as even if I had ovulated DH has been away for my entire FW anyway.

Will the fact I haven't ovulated affect my period? Will I still have one? Do I just have to hang around and wait for ovulation to occur? I've never been in this situation before so I don't really know what to think....

sandsandwiches · 23/10/2016 20:52

I'm out too...AF here with a vengeance. Glad I know my cycles have normalised now though. Hope rest of you still on the bus have good luck! Hopping over to November...

RoseValleyRambles · 22/10/2016 23:13

I'm out. Af has arrived, with cramps to end all cramps. As if I wasn't already well enough aware of her presence. Grrr. Good luck those who are still in the game this month!
Cooper, I had the exact same thing last month, kicked in again a few days later. But always worth a test just in case.

Writerwannabe83 · 22/10/2016 19:48

Possibly implantation cooper ??

I guess only time will tell.

I still haven't ovulated - very bizarre.

This cycle is the first cycle that I haven't been breast feeding my DS so I wonder if I'm having some funny hormone issue or something that has caused me not to ovulate?

MouseLove · 22/10/2016 16:36

Urgh cooper, sounds like it. You might get it properly tomorrow. Sad

cooperbug · 22/10/2016 15:46

Well basically I haven't a clue what is happening with me, woke up yesterday morning to do a test and had Fresh red bleeding on wiping so obviously thought had come on period properly and didn't do test.

Put a tampon in and as was at wedding didn't really think about it anymore apart from when was changing it a couple of times and nothing on it just tiny bit of brown.Again really unusual for me as once AF usually starts its heavy for few days.

Have pad on today and nothing on it, no symptoms at all so doubt I'm pregnant and just weird period?!

MouseLove · 22/10/2016 11:52

Thank you ladies. I did another this morning and it's still a BFN. I'm ok though. Well ask me in another month if AF still isn't here lol

Sorry about your BFN Donna and Rose fx it's implantation bleed!!!

RoseValleyRambles · 22/10/2016 11:27

So sorry mouse. I think I'm in the same boat this month. Light cramping all night without any bleeding, has now turned into AF. Testing tomorrow am if it looks more likely an implantation bleed by then, but I'm pretty sure that's my optimism talking. Bah. Onwards and Novemberwards...

Writerwannabe83 · 22/10/2016 10:28

purplehaze - I'm at work today and meant to bring some OPKs with me to test in the work's toilet but I forgot. I only have tonight and tomorrow night to DTG as on Monday me and DS are going away for 5 days whilst DH stays at home.

Hopefully we can DTG a few times over the weekend and then in an ideal world I will ovulate on Monday Grin

Elles85 · 22/10/2016 10:10

I feel a bit pissed. I got a positive on opk but also have thrush now! I'm so annoyed

PurpleHaze1 · 22/10/2016 08:38

I'm sorry mouse Sad I found the not knowing what my cycle was doing after I got the implant removed really difficult. If it's definitely a bfn for you, I hope AF shows up soon so you can get on with next cycle. Flowers

Sorry about your BFN too Doctor

Writer, this sounds very promising! I hope ovulation has just been delayed a few days & you can DTG lots when your DH is home.

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DoctorDonnaNoble · 22/10/2016 07:41

BFN

Writerwannabe83 · 21/10/2016 21:39

I'm sorry mouse - I think we are all guilty of getting our hopes up and so getting a BFN can be quite devastating Flowers

I always get a positive OPK on CD 17 or 18 and despite testing three times today, on what is CD18, I haven't even had a faint line Confused

I started having EWCM on either Tuesday or Wednesday (can't remember) which is very normal for me as that usually appears 2-3 days before the positive OPK so who knows what is happening.

However, I'm very happy about it as my DH comes back home tomorrow (he has been on holiday for my entire FW) and so if ovulation is late this month it means I'm still in with a chance if I do some frequent DTG on Saturday and Sunday Grin

MouseLove · 21/10/2016 21:27

Well that was hard. BFN ladies. 

On one hand I think I already knew, on the other I feel so devastated. Everything was against me. My sister turned up and stayed for tea then didn't leave for another hour.

So we went to Asda to get a test. The first response ones were sold out. I got a pack of Asda tests. Then I needed a nervous poop on the way home. Went to the loo and couldn't pee!!!

I think I'll pee on the other one tomorrow just in case but I'm pretty sure I'm now on the wonderful and uncertain wait for AF, whenever she decides to turn up. We should take a bet on which day she shows. Today is CD36 

Thank you to everyone who's listened to my rambling commentary this past month. X

DoctorDonnaNoble · 21/10/2016 05:31

Name: Doctor Donna
TTC #2
We're seeing what happens so not trying to count months or things.
However, I'm now 3 days late. 2 days late has been occasional post DS (13 months). 3 days late is new. I'm meant to be going to a beer festival on Sunday so need to buy a stick to pee on today I think.

Writerwannabe83 · 20/10/2016 23:19

Just been baby bombed by another 12 week scan photo on Facebook Sad

I started having EWCM yesterday but had a negative OPK then and another negative one today too. Based on my previous cycles I'm expecting my positive OPK tomorrow and then my DH will be back in the country on Saturday night so who knows, maybe I will get extremely, extremely lucky this cycle if we have a one off DTG session then.

I'm not feeling too hopeful though!!

MotherofUnicorns · 20/10/2016 14:50

well AF arrived just now so i am out! this is cd50 so who knows what has been going on. Hopefully this means i am back on track for next cycle though.
I am going to celebrate / comiserate by drinking a lot of wine this weekend!
See some of you on the November bus!

MrsRose87 · 20/10/2016 12:43

Mouse keep it that way. We didn't tell anyone we were TTC with DD. I wish I'd done the same this time. We only told people I was pregnant because at 6 weeks my sickness was so bad people were guessing. Then by 8 weeks I was showing. People keep asking if I'm pregnant yet. It's starting to infuriate me! We're adamant. I had to tell one of my friends as I was meant to go out with her Saturday and she wouldn't have bought the antibiotics excuse. She's under strict orders not to tell anyone.

MouseLove · 20/10/2016 12:38

Well if it's a BFP Rose I'll have 9 months to wait so what's another few weeks in finding out hahaha. It's not going to change the outcome. I probably wouldn't tell anyone straight away. I'm very close with my parents and sister but I dunno. I've not told them we're TTC. Still early days.

Vanillaradio · 20/10/2016 12:32

Well af arrived this morning so off to the November bus for me. Lots of luck everyone.
Thingy sorry for your loss, take care of yourself ChocolateFlowers
Congrats Diddly I see a line!

MrsRose87 · 20/10/2016 12:03

Unfortunately Mouse everything can be a symptom or nothing. I'm just jealous of your strength. I wish I could go that long without POAS.

Mother and Cooper I had a cycle like that in December. Started spotting around CD14. Absolutely pooped my pants as I did not want another baby then. DD was a nightmare sleeper and the though of another baby made me feel sick. Anyway, AF arrive a couple of days later almost 2 weeks early. It's hard to know what the bleeding is. Our bodies just love to play games.

Diddlydokey · 20/10/2016 11:55

mouse I had the longest off the pill cycle with DS. I think I was on cd 50 something when I finally got a bfp.

cooperbug · 20/10/2016 11:48

It's very frustrating isn't it motherofunicorns? Does your period sometimes start like this?

Fingers crossed for you, when are you planning on testing? I wouldn't test tomorrow if wasn't going to wedding I don't think x

MotherofUnicorns · 20/10/2016 11:44

cooper I am in the same boat as you I think. I had cramps on mon and Tues and brown spotting - v v light on Tues
Had v light pink spotting yesterday and a tiny bit today.
It is most likely just period starting early for me I think. I honestly thought it was coming on Tuesday when cramps were bad enough for a hot water bottle! I'm due sunday.
Not sure I'd have noticed any of this if I wasnt ttc!
Good luck tomorrow but at least you can have a fun day at the wedding if it's a bfn! X

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