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TWW - could do with some company

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minniewinnie · 18/09/2016 10:47

Hi all. Just starting my 11th tww. According to Ovia I have 11 days until I should POAS. I'll add my stats below, but basically I could just do with a bit of company and support this cycle, as the ttc is starting to get me down (I've had one miscarriage at 8wks back in January, but nothing postive since ). I would love to conceive this cycle as its my two year anniversary in October and it would be lovely to surprise my DH with some good news SmileThanks

Age 35
Ttc #1
Cycle 11
CD 16
Peak OPK on CD 14, so testing on 28th sept according to Ovua

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minniewinnie · 21/09/2016 19:58

So sorry to hear about your miscarriage bummymummy Sad, especially after ttc for so long Flowers . Hopefully this will be all our months x

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BummyMummy77 · 21/09/2016 18:46

Hi!

Age 39
Ttc #2
Cycle 30 Sad
Cd 3

Had a miscarriage in Feb.

Have an appointment to see someone in October but we live in the states and don't have health care so will only be able to afford initial testing and no fertility treatments. More to find out if it's even worth trying anymore.

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minniewinnie · 21/09/2016 18:38

12dpo - you must have the patience of a saint moonlight. We're off to Greece to celebrate our anniversary next week, so may have to stick up and pack some tests to take with us if I don't get a bfp on Wednesday, (we're flying out weds afternoon) lol!! X

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MoonlightMojitos · 21/09/2016 18:05

Ha well I've got 5 cheapies ready to go so I might test sunday Tuesday at 12dpo if I can, going to see how I feel. I've been temping for the first month so will have a look how those are looking and decide! jackie I'm feeling crappy today, woke up with a slight cold too but hoping it doesn't get any worse.

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minniewinnie · 21/09/2016 17:09

Hi Jackie - we're Ovia twins this month, lol. I'll be testing Wednesday too Grin. Nothing for me either so far, although I'm not sure if tooth ache is a symptom Hmm - after so many months ttc I'm trying not to read into anything!

Hi Moonlight, 6dpo ... only a few more days now. I'm lucky I've been so busy I haven't had a chance to go ott this month! About 3 cycles after the MC I had a testing obsession and ended up using about 8 of the bloody things that month, so now if I get an early negative I try and not test until AF is due... although we'll see how that swirls out this month Grin xx

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JackiePaper · 21/09/2016 16:48

Hi I'll join if that's ok.
Age 33
Ttc #3 (but my dp #1)
Cycle 2
Cd 17 & I think 5dpo
Ovia reckons I can test next Wednesday if I last that long! No real symptoms but I have a stinking cold so that's masking everything atm!

MoonlightMojitos · 20/09/2016 17:57

5dpo and no symptoms for me :) ooh the wedding will be nice! I think I'll be getting very impatient by the weekend!

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minniewinnie · 20/09/2016 10:36

Hi User Smile - I'm terrible for the symptom spotting, lol, every twinge and sore boob gets googled! But it seems that some people get lots of symptoms while others have none and it doesnt affect whether you end up with a BFP. 8dpo onwards is always tough - the days just draggggg so much! Luckily I have a wedding to keep me busy this weekend, which should help with my clock watching, lol. Fingers crossed for you Grin xl

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user1471874092 · 20/09/2016 09:43

Hi minniewinnie

Age 38
Ttc #1
Cycle 12
8 dpo
Testing on 23rd sept

Had chemical miscarriage back in December and again in January.

Hate the 2ww. Whenever I google 8dpo it seems everyone has symptoms.

I have no symptoms today.

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minniewinnie · 20/09/2016 09:09

Hi moonlight, how's it going for you? I was feeling so rough yesterday :( - not symptom spotting, I think I was just viral - hopefully that isn't a bad thing!! 4dpo, only a week before I can start my early fx poas! Lol x

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MoonlightMojitos · 18/09/2016 13:38

Thanks:)! Lol same, I expect I will cave and poas next Sunday at 10dpo but I'm really going to try and hold out to save any disappointment. Sounds like you've dtd enough too, fx for you! I know how you feel about hoping it would happen quickly again, let's hope this is the month for both of us!

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minniewinnie · 18/09/2016 13:05

Hi moonlight, thanks for joining me Smile. Sorry to hear you've also suffered a mc, hopefully this month will be your one! I'm not really down about it, but the first time we conceived was cycle 3, and now it's been 8 cycles since the mc - I was hoping to conceive again a bit quicker (don't we all, lol). I have high hopes for this month, we dtd sun, tues, thurs and today. My DH works away, so invariably we only manage to dtd for part of my fertile week most other months, so higher odds this cycle I reckon Grin. I'm also terrible for testing from day 10 dpi normally, lol! X

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MoonlightMojitos · 18/09/2016 11:12

I'll join you :)

27
Ttc #1
Had bfp cycle 2 which ended in mc at 7 weeks
Now on cycle 3 since mc - 3dpo test day 29th September which will be 14dpo but highly doubt I will last that long!

Sorry you're feeling down about it all, it is crap. Time seems to go so slow when you're waiting for that BFP every cycle feels like eternity! Are you feeling positive this cycle? We dtd Mon, Weds and Thurs (with ov on the Thursday) so I feel like we've done all we could have this cycle and just hoping luck is on our side this month.

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