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The October Bus - hoping for lots of BFPs and Summer babies!!

1007 replies

Writerwannabe83 · 05/09/2016 08:02

Hi guys, just starting the October bus.

I'm almost 33, have a DS (2.5 years) and am now trying for DC2. I caught pregnant on cycle 1 but unfortunately had an early miscarriage and am now entering cycle 5.

My current situation is that DH has been changing his mind over the last 12 months to wanting to try for another, then not wanting to, then wanting to etc and it's been very difficult. We have now come to the compromise that we can actually try up until next August but if nothing has happened by then we stop TTC.

I'm on CD3 now, I usually ovulate around days 17/18 and have cycles of around 31/32 days.

Good luck to everyone!!! Flowers

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sk1pper · 23/09/2016 17:53

First week of October starts next week, we have a lot of people coming up that week for AF and testing (including myself) - fx to everyone and enjoy the weekend!

sk1pper · 23/09/2016 17:49

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In order of AF/test date
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MundayCakes85
Age: 31
TTC #2
Cycle 5
AF: 28/09

MotherofUnicorns
Age: 37
TTC #3
Cycle ?
AF: 28/09

lousylear
Age: 41
TTC #4
Cycle 2
AF: 29/09

NappingRabbit
Age: 28
TTC #2
Cycle 3
AF: 30/09 or 01/10

Goldfish99
Age: 34
TTC #1
Cycle 3
AF: 01/10

Sk1pper
Age: 29
TTC #1
Cycle 14
AF: 02/10

Writerwannabe
Age: Almost 33
TTC #2
Cycle 6
AF: 03/10

Mumrahhh
Age: Almost 36
TTC #2
Cycle 2
AF: 03/10

Flashing Lights
Age: 25
TTC #2
Cycle 2
ETD: 06/10
AF: ?

Purplehaze1
Age: 29
TTC #2
Cycle 5
ETD: 10/10
AF: 11/10

Me9an
Age: 26
TTC #1
Cycle 2
AF: 11/10

Alibaba2
Age: 40
TTC #3
Cycle 6
AF: 11/10

bairnsangs
Age: 28
TTC #1
Cycle 2
ETD: 11/10
AF: 11/10

Purplebella
Age: 32
TTC #3
Cycle 5
AF: 13/10

Soozc
Age: 35
TTC #1
Cycle 8
AF: 14/10

buddub
Age: 34
TTC #1
Cycle 2 (since MC 21 weeks)
AF: 15/10

MsPossitive
Age: 29
TTC #2
Cycle 7
ETD: 16/10
AF: 15/10

Mimi
Age: 35
TTC ?
Cycle 16
ETD: 16/10
AF: ?

saritah
Age: 32
TTC #1
Cycle 1
AF: 20/10

Miraflores81
Age: 35
TTC #1
Cycle 12
AF: 22/10

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AF/test dates unknown (if you need it updating, let me know)
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MouseLove
Age: 32
TTC #1
Cycle 1
AF: ?

Flashing Lights
Age: 25
TTC #2
Cycle 2
AF: ?

happybus28
Age: 29
TTC #1
Cycle 4
AF: ?

MissMagpie
Age: 33
TTC #2
Cycle 4
AF: ?

SoozC · 23/09/2016 17:23

So sorry about your mcs, buddub. Fx for you for the future.

PurpleHaze1 · 23/09/2016 15:20

Buddub so sorry for your lossesFlowers

I've been using ovia & FF. If you're charting, FF is much better than ovia but if you're not charting, I much prefer ovia!

MrsPositiveAttidude2016 · 23/09/2016 15:03

buddub so sorry for your losses. I hope this sounds like it's meant. I find hearing stories of other people's losses comforting. I felt quite alone in a sea of baby bumps but knowing there are others out there makes you realise that you're not alone. I tried FF last night and I don't like it. Looks a bit too scientific for me. I use Ovia as it's easy to change your AF dates when they play silly buggers.

sk1pper · 23/09/2016 14:04

I'm my naivity, before joining this forum, I had no idea how common MC was. I know so many people on here who have had to go through this, and I can't imagine how it feels.

I hope that the worst is past for you now and in fact, I hope that anyone on the October bus (or any subsequent bus) who gets their BFP goes on to have a healthy and happy baby with no complications.

purplebella · 23/09/2016 13:30

Hi buddub, so sorry to hear about your mc's. Wishing you loads of luck Flowers

buddub · 23/09/2016 13:12

Sorry I also need to give my info!

Age 34
Ttc #1
Cycle 2 (since lost baby at 21 weeks)
AF 15/10

buddub · 23/09/2016 13:10

Hi there I'm hoping October will be month too! Lost baby 7 weeks and then most recently at 21 weeks.
Just on second cycle of clomid (50mg CD2-6) and desperately hoping it works! Only on CD7 today so feels like far too long to wait!

buddub · 23/09/2016 13:10

Hi there I'm hoping October will be month too! Lost baby 7 weeks and then most recently at 21 weeks.
Just on second cycle of clomid (50mg CD2-6) and desperately hoping it works! Only on CD7 today so feels like far too long to wait!

saritah · 23/09/2016 12:54

Thanks Smile

purplebella · 23/09/2016 11:51

I might get FF when I start temping, I was worried I'd scare my OH with it all but I showed him my Ovia app yesterday and he didn't laugh or anything Smile.

sk1pper · 23/09/2016 10:43

I'm using Ovia, FF and Clue. Clue I like because you can easily compare cycles and takes me about 10 seconds to update (it also has all my historical data in it).

At the moment I'm trying to make a decision between Ovia and FF. I'm impressed with Ovias algorithm so far (it predicted a shift in my cycle a couple of days sooner than FF) but FF is much better for recording temp data and seeing patterns. I've committed to use both till the end of the year then drop one.

purplebella · 23/09/2016 10:12

Sk1pper, the list looks greatGrin We're all part of a team now!

Hi saritah, I also use Ovia and I think it's brilliant, very easy to understand which is what I likeSmile

Sk1pper or Writer suggested Fertility Friend too HTH!

saritah · 23/09/2016 09:30

Thanks sk1pper!

lousylear how are you getting on with Ovia, if you don't mind me asking? I've just started using it. After years on the pill I've no idea how long my cycle is, but I'm hoping it will at least give me an idea of what's going on down there!

MotherofUnicorns · 22/09/2016 23:40

I'm on cycle 3.
I hate this bit! Getting symptoms that are very likely pms but obv I could read into too much!! I'm going to test on Monday if no Af this weekend. ........

lousylear · 22/09/2016 23:34

Thanks skipper. I hate the 2ww. 6 days til I can test according to ovia. Going to try and wait til 1st October. We'll see!

Writerwannabe83 · 22/09/2016 22:49

Wow sk1pper that's a fantastic list of stats. Well done you!!

I'm just checking in after a very long day at work. My DH was after some sex last night and I wasn't in the mood at all. He accused me of only wanting him during my fertile weeks Grin Grin I denied it of course.....

It's nice to see some newbies - welcome all Flowers

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bairnsangs · 22/09/2016 21:22

I'm glad you're finding it ok sk1pper - I find it has it's ups and downs and I totally agree that waiting for AF (when you can tell it's imminent) is a really annoying part. I'm just dying to get into the fertile week now...

Just a series of wee goals and then more waiting. What can you do?

Goldfish99 · 22/09/2016 20:29

Skipper can you add me please! Was clinging to the Sept bus as AF due on 1st Oct but as they're all testing or waiting for AF and I'm still early on in the 2WW think I'm better placed on this bus! So stats:

Age 34
Ttc #1
Cycle 3
AF 01/10

Fx for loads of BFP's

sk1pper · 22/09/2016 20:27

No probs everyone, lousy sorry hon - will update it tomorrow for you.

A few of us in the 2ww at the moment, I'm finding it okay. Tbh what I hate more is when you know AF is coming and you just want it over with already.

bairnsangs · 22/09/2016 20:27

Thanks skipper

AF is due 11/10, same as ETD - I'm going to try to hold out and not test early. My luteal phase is usually a little short at 11/12 days anyway so we'll see how it goes... Grin

PurpleHaze1 · 22/09/2016 19:52

Thanks sk1pper Smile

MouseLove · 22/09/2016 19:37

Thank you Sk1pper for adding me to the bus. I have no idea when AF is due but I'm hoping it shows up before November shows its head. Lol.

FlashingLights · 22/09/2016 19:15

Thanks sk1pper

I had a nearly positive OPK line yesterday afternoon, complete negative today and some EWCM today. So I'm going to guess ovulation is today and unless AF hits me first, I'll go for an ETD of 06/10 (as if I'll hold out for a whole 2 weeks...)

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