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Thread 4: Ttc without ease, loopy length cycles, post pill poas and everything in between!

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BoBo90 · 17/07/2016 19:43

Welcome to thread 4 Ladies!

Hello to all our old members and welcome to any new Smile

Here is our previous thread:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2618917-Ttc-after-stopping-the-pill-thread-3-Join-us-for-Super-long-cycles-living-in-limbo-obscene-amounts-of-poas-and-trying-anything-and-everything-to-get-that-bun-in-the-oven

and here is our current list of lovelies Smile:

Smile Ladies-in-waiting Smile
Cookie22 - ttc #1 - Cycle 9
Bobo90 - ttc #1 - Cycle 6
Helpmeconceive - ttc #1 - Cycle 4
Tinyemmy - ttc #2 - Cycle 4
Mummy2squish - ?
Sparkle789 - ttc #? - Cycle 3
CatMum87 - ttc #1 - Cycle 2
May07 - ttc#1 - Cycle 4
Iwillbemrsminty - ttc #1 - Cycle 4
Loulabelle1990 - ttc #1 - Cycle 6
Johno85 - ttc #1 - Cycle 7
ClaireSunflower -ttc #? - Cycle 3
Sophronia - ttc #1 - Cycle 2
SusieBu16 -ttc #2 - Cycle ?
Purpleviola14 - ttc #1 - Cycle 3
Chloe2413 - ttc #1 - Cycle ?
Marmitetoast1 - ttc#1 - Cycle 3
Happybus28 - ttc #? - Cycle ?
Pyjamas81 - ttc #1 - Cycle 1
MishyBakes - ttc #1 - Cycle 2
Artynic - ttc #1 - Cycle 2
Sarahhh1984 - ttc #1 - Cycle 1
peskyfeelings - ttc #1 - Cycle 3
AnnaKateNZ - ttc #1 - Cycle 2
HighHopes16 - ttc #1 - Cycle 1
Niks2029 - ttc #3 - Cycle 1
user1468336922 - ttc #2 - Cycle ?
SummerHopin - ttc #1 - Cycle 4
Staronthewall - ttc #1 - Cycle 1
Jjspoon - ttc #1 - Cycle 1

Grin Resident Preggos Grin
Firstgo1984
LemonShizzleCake
Sunnydays321
cnchapmanxx
Thisisbloodyridiculous
Lawyeredout82

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Jjspoon · 22/07/2016 18:10

Sorry af got you johno :( good luck with the cold turkey! I've gone the opposite way as I was just relaxed and only went by ewcm last cycle but now with recent events I have purchased a bbt and got the ovia app so will start that soon. Thanks for asking loula I'm still here lurking ha. I'm still bleeding so no dtd for now. I had my blood test results today and the test yesterday showed a big drop apparently so thankfully no need to go back again. They told me to do a pregnancy test again in 2 weeks and make sure it's negative, if not give them a call. So have to wait until after then really to start ttc again. I'll be asking you all for bbt advice then as I don't have a clue! bobo finger up fanjo excursion 😂 this made me lol alot, good news for you then!

Piehunter · 22/07/2016 17:21

Loulabelle good to know about the 72 days although eek! I've been off cerazette 4 weeks today and not even a withdrawal bleed although I feel as if I'm gearing up for a period now... First 2 weeks were pregnancy symptoms with nausea etc, now I have UNBELIEVABLY sore boobs and I'm irritable but that could just be me being a moody cow Blush been on cerazette a year nearly, depo for 3 years before that... Combined pill for 5 years before that, so have had probably 1 or 2 natural cycles since I was 15!

johno booo for af, big yay for holiday, enjoy!!

Loulabelle1990 · 22/07/2016 07:49

Sorry AF turned up johno! It is good you are looking at the positives, hopefully you can try to forget about it whilst you are away. Where are you off to?

I am having a cold turkey cycle. Think I am cd 15. I haven't really been going on my apps that much but pretty sure I ovulate next week! It's been so hard to DTD in this heat though! I am also coming down with a cold of some sort so I'm not happy!

LOL bobo, finger up fanjo excursion - the things you come out with, so funny!! Glad your cyst has gone tho Grin.

I have been prescribed mefenamic acid by my doctor to help with period pains. Has anyone else taken these before?!

Lapin387 · 22/07/2016 07:21

That's rubbish johno :(
At least you can enjoy the holiday to the full now and have a bit of a mental break from this ttc craziness.
When my AF arrived last month on honeymoon (we had this little hope it would just stay away and we'd come home to a bfp) I felt really down. But then I realised I could enjoy the holiday with wine and cheese and was much more positive about it.

BoBo90 · 22/07/2016 07:15

Stupid witch! Sorry Johno, sending virtual hugs your way!
Well done for looking at all the positives! Gold star for you ⭐️ 😄 And the holiday will keep you distracted and now you can properly enjoy it 😊
Maybe get dh to hide your thermometer! No temping for you Mrs 😄

6dpo now and it's dragginggggggg! 😫 Not much going on, usual cm, cervix is low and closed (not that I know what that indicates 😆) and a few odd cramps! On the plus side on a recent finger-up-fanjo excursion I did find out my cyst has gone!! So I'm quite pleased about that 😆

We need some more poas soon! Who are our twerkers? (That's tww'ers to the newbies 😉) Xxx

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Johno85 · 22/07/2016 06:45

Morning all. Anyone testing today?

So it seems AF has arrived EnvyWeird but bbt hasn't dipped to cover line, I did just read that once full AF arrives the cover line becomes irrelevant as its now a new cycle.

Negatives- 41 day cycle, think I ovulated later with no peak opk, have had a very stressful cycle and that's probably a contributing factor, I won't be in my fertile week on holiday when I'll actually see DH everyday and night. And duh- and another bfn!

Positives- looking forward to a cold turkey cycle with no bbt or opk- just waiting and seeing what my body throws at me, last day at work before a much awaited 2 weeks holiday to surprise my parents who live abroad, I can eat and drink to my hearts content on holiday, I have all you lovely ladies to keep me sane and entertained.

Bobo how's your cold turkey cycle going? Anyone else still doing it? Just need the will power not to temp!

X

Nutcaserugby · 21/07/2016 22:51

Lovely to see BFP congratulations xx

LuciBee231015 · 21/07/2016 21:47

Thanks Loulabelle. Will just have to see how my body decides to react when I come off!

I'm sure I'll be boring you all with my symptoms! But hey.... That's what these forums are for! Don't want to keep taking about it to DH as don't want him to feel pressured etc.

Loulabelle1990 · 21/07/2016 21:40

Hi luci, I read your post earlier.

I came off cerazette on 6th December last year, didn't get a withdrawal bleed and had my first proper period after 72 days!

The symptoms when I came off it were exactly like pg symptoms so all very confusing. Fx for you Smile

LuciBee231015 · 21/07/2016 21:20

Much clearer lines Lapin! How exciting! Congrats!

I'm coming off pill on 31st July, so I will have real updates and probably loads of questions soon!

Loulabelle1990 · 21/07/2016 19:17

Deffo two lines lapin! Congrats lovely Smile.

Babydances I'm with you on the hot weather being a passion killer. Really struggling this week! Meant to be DTD every other day. Haven't even done it once yet this week! Sad.

Johno I am still hoping your AF won't turn up this weekend! We need more BFP's on here!

JJ, how are you getting on?? Hope your okay FlowersFlowers xx

Johno85 · 21/07/2016 18:50

Holiday not till Sunday morning bobo but how on earth could I go a day week without your comic genius Wink proper made me belly (can't use bump excuse yet) laugh Pahahah X

Johno85 · 21/07/2016 18:48

shit sugar Lapin- read my earlier post. Meant won't LIE, Not wont LIKE! Doh. Wish we could edit these posts Blush

Johno85 · 21/07/2016 18:48

Lapin you could not be more lovely. Really chuffed that horrible fear is out of the way and it's all good news X

BoBo90 · 21/07/2016 18:36

That's good news Johno 😄 Fx you waste lots of panty liners mwhahaha waiting for an af that doesn't turn up! 😉 Hope you're enjoying your holiday my lovely 🍹🌴

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BoBo90 · 21/07/2016 18:32

and making her way straight onto the resident preggo list we have our newest member but possibley longest stalker lurker 😉: the lovely Lapin!!! Congratulations on that great big whopper of a positive 🎉🍼🎉

Grin Resident Preggos Grin
Firstgo1984
LemonShizzleCake
Sunnydays321
cnchapmanxx
Thisisbloodyridiculous
Lawyeredout82
Lapin387

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BoBo90 · 21/07/2016 18:27

Smile Ladies-in-waiting Smile
Cookie22 - ttc #1 - Cycle 9
Bobo90 - ttc #1 - Cycle 6
Helpmeconceive - ttc #1 - Cycle 4
Tinyemmy - ttc #2 - Cycle 4
Mummy2squish - ?
Sparkle789 - ttc #? - Cycle 3
CatMum87 - ttc #1 - Cycle 2
May07 - ttc#1 - Cycle 4
Iwillbemrsminty - ttc #1 - Cycle 4
Loulabelle1990 - ttc #1 - Cycle 6
Johno85 - ttc #1 - Cycle 7
ClaireSunflower -ttc #1 - Cycle 4
Sophronia - ttc #1 - Cycle 2
SusieBu16 -ttc #2 - Cycle ?
Purpleviola14 - ttc #1 - Cycle 3
Chloe2413 - ttc #1 - Cycle ?
Marmitetoast1 - ttc#1 - Cycle 3
Happybus28 - 1 - Cycle 2
Pyjamas81 - ttc #1 - Cycle 1
MishyBakes - ttc #1 - Cycle 2
Artynic - ttc #1 - Cycle 2
Sarahhh1984 - ttc #1 - Cycle 1
peskyfeelings - ttc #1 - Cycle 3
AnnaKateNZ - ttc #1 - Cycle 2
HighHopes16 - ttc #1 - Cycle 1
Niks2029 - ttc #3 - Cycle 1
user1468336922 - ttc #2 - Cycle ?
SummerHopin - ttc #1 - Cycle 4
Staronthewall - ttc #1 - Cycle 1
Jjspoon - ttc #1 - Cycle 1
Nutcaserugby - ttc #1 - Cycle 3
Piehunter - ttc #1 - Cycle 1

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Lapin387 · 21/07/2016 18:06

Thanks johno. It seems mean to just start posting now, but I've been lurking and reading every post since November, (worrying that I'd had an early menopause and not noticed it and suchlike whilst waiting for the first AF) and found this thread such a comfort that I feel as if I've been part of it all along :)

Johno85 · 21/07/2016 17:57

Lapin now that is as good a BFP as I've ever seen. Congrats! bobo this girl needs a fast track to the resident pregoo list! Won't like- totally jealous of your welcoming womb..... Send us all some of those vibes please Wink X

Lapin387 · 21/07/2016 17:52

Thanks johno, bobo and lucibee.
The sensible thing to do would have been to wait a couple of days and test again... But instead I went out and bought a frer at lunch (and was paranoid someone would recognise it through the bag before I could stash it away at work). Tested just now. Think it looks a bit clearer. Had a tiny bit of pale pink spotting this morning though so still not convinced. After waiting nearly six months for my period post pill I was convinced It would take more than three cycles to conceive.

Thread 4: Ttc without ease, loopy length cycles, post pill poas and everything in between!
Thread 4: Ttc without ease, loopy length cycles, post pill poas and everything in between!
Johno85 · 21/07/2016 17:43

Hey team get up the duff. So Lapin welcome! I see the line but I can't zoom in- from the pic I can't see any colour so wonder whether it's an ident? May just be the pic. When are you planning to test again?

bobo my personal BFP sponsor- no full AF. In fact put on a panty liner sorry hate that word (yet I can talk about ewcm!) and nothing!!! Was like this last cycle with AF. If my temp jumps back up tomorrow I'll maybe get excited! Your dpo are ticking along; told myself I wouldn't check in on here on holiday but will wanna see your BFP progress Smile X

BoBo90 · 21/07/2016 13:29

Looks like a positive Lupin but try not to get too excited until after af is due as you have symptoms just in case 😄 Depending on your dates the spotting might have been implantation? How long ago was it? Xxx

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LuciBee231015 · 21/07/2016 10:49

Hi Lapin

Does look like a very faint line in the pic with the white background. I'm not at the testing stage yet, planning to come off cerazette on 31st July, so maybe the other ladies will have more to say!

Is cd30 a good time to test if your cycles are between 32-36? Perhaps wait another couple of days and test again?

Fx for you x

Lapin387 · 21/07/2016 10:29

Hi all,
I've been lurking on this thread sine stopping the cocp at the end of November, and have found it comforting to see other people in the same boat as me. At first I had a long five months with no period, then a 36 day cycle and 32 day cycle. Haven't been temping or opking, just dtd regularly and watching out for ewcm. Now on cd30. Took a superdrug early test this morning and think maybe there may be a faint line? It came up between the second and third minute. My acne has broken out, hair is greasy and bbs feel heavy. But those could be preAF symptoms. I've had some very light pink on wiping only. So cautiously excited that might be pg, but not convinced and feel that maybe it's all just AF on the way and me seeing what I want to on the test. Any thoughts?

Thread 4: Ttc without ease, loopy length cycles, post pill poas and everything in between!
Thread 4: Ttc without ease, loopy length cycles, post pill poas and everything in between!
ClaireSunflower · 21/07/2016 09:45

Oh I know babydances this weather is not good for dtd! We are doing it every other day and last night was just too hot!

bobo I didn't know that about pregnacare!! I have been taking it for the last 4 months and never seem to get much ewcm! Oh dear 🙈 I might look at seven seas instead.