temp buddies

It's not my MIL its my bloody mother and father! My brothers wife had a baby...

It's typical of them...they feel I need to accept the situation...I'm not sure that baby
therapy is the route though! I have told them plain and simple that they are tipping me over the edge.. Hope they get the message.

i dont WANT to leave these ttc threads! i like the fact that everyone here seems a bit obssessive and a bit crazy! i can feel lots more good vibes coming for BFPs in feb. also, i will be selling my dhs rambo sperm on ebay if anyone is interested! (i have to stop saying that or he will get a big head!)
i dont think relaxing was the key to me concieving cos i was VERY stressed when DH went away and i hadn't ov'd. mind you, i guess when i did i wasn't stressed, just pissed off cos i thought it was too late.

rahrah - i hope you have a better weekend. it sounds really tough what you are going through. think about YOURSELF and what is best for YOU and if you want to shut yourself away and not see or talk to anyone then do. just do whatever feels best for you and hopefully you will feel more able to deal with things soon.
xxxx

Thanks mum03...XX

rahrah - {{{{{{hugs}}}}}}} for you, sorry you have had a hard day.

BTW greedy, on my first pg, I too dtd on the friday and o'd on the thur/friday. I was so not expecting to be pg, I tested on the 14dpo just for the sake of it and got the expected -ve test, I was so sure that af was about to arrive that I did not test again for another 3 days. Then when I woke at 5am to a dream about being pg, tested and almost collapsed in shock when it turned positive, I was shaking for hours afterwards. It seems that having time apart from dh's just prior to o is the way to get pg! Or perhaps it is being so relaxed due to thinking it is impossible! So perhaps it is time for Rahrah, honeyapple and I to get away from our dh's rather than jumping on them!!!

I tell you what Ready...it better do... I've had about as much as I can take.

Had a truly awful day today, SIL had her baby yesterday and my mum and dad seem determined to rub my nose in it... They sent me and email, with pictures on telling me about her. It's very difficult when you have just lost your baby to want to know much about anyone else's, especially somebody close. My dad feels i need to deal with it and look to the future... I don't think I'm going to stand a chance getting pregnant when I'm so stressed about everything...

Woohah - congrats to you too greedy on your BFP's, What a day, it is exciting enough to get one bfp, but three in a day is exhausting. Huge congratulations to all the newly pregnant mummies.

It's our turn next Rah!!!!!!

OMG - do I see another BFP!!!

CONGRATULATIONS

January has been a positive month for a lot of peeps..

There is only going to be a few of us left

If I don't catch next month, I will be expecting some of that super sperm Greedy!

OH YAY!!!!!! congratulations greedy!!!! you , Fettle and MrsMc all graduating together!!

Bodkin will be chuffed, she is keeping her eyes peeled for you and me... just me letting her down then

YAY!!!! What a wonderful day... a BFP for MrsMc, a stronger BFP for Fettle and an apparently impossible BFP for Greedy!! Awesome. Utterly thrilled for you all.

Have to say, feel all emotional!! But if you tell anyone I shall deny it!

oh shit! i forgot about the earrings! i had better not remind him or he might takke them back! i am sure he thinks i was shagging the postman while he was away! he still doesn't believe me!

yippee! my first congrats! guess we will have our next super long 9 month cycle together! fingers crossed!

typical! just when i have some news its really quiet on here!
turns out my dh DOES have superdooper rambo sperm! got 3 BFPS this afternoon (couldn't quite believe the first or second!) dh still doesnt believe it! don't blame him, the last time we BD'd was sat and my temp didnt go up until the friday after! if there has ever been a month when i thought i stood no chance THIS was it! i have just bought 30 opks too!

Hiya, Congrats Fettle- definitely seems very positive for you! I hope you can try to enjoy being pregnant, and not get too woried about it all.
My temps have been the same all week, which is hopefully a good sign- I might notice if/when they go up... I have been very good at taking them at the same time every am- but I'm going to be staying at a friends on sat night- have to surreptiously take my thermometer with me...
Going to start proper BDing now- every other day. I feel like you rahrah- if i dont get PG this month i will really be f*ed off!
MrsMcJnr's BFP this morning has really spurred me on!

Fettle 36.9 18 DPO (officially pg!!!!!yippee!)
Greedy - 36.9 15 DPO
Honeyapple - 36.3 CD7 (6th cycle ttc)
LondonLottie - 36.9 CD27 / 9 DPO (3rd cycle ttc)
Mum03 - 36.4 CD6 (2nd cycle ttc)
Rah - 36.3 CD5 (3rd cycle ttc)
Ready - TBC CD21 / 6 DPO (5th cycle ttc)

borrow rahrah!!!???? does that mean i get it back once you have finished with it!!!!!! YUK!!!

Thanks Ready, thats so nice of you... I hope your pain goes away... OUCH..

Fettle your BFP is amazing,,,First success of this thread... we will have to keep it going until everyone of us is pg..

Greedy... Lets see what tomorrow brings, hopefully not your AF! If you are pg.. then we all may want to borrow your husband super sonic sperm!

i nearly forgot to post my temp! i am trying so hard not to get my hopes up cos my lp was 16 days last month and i have had crappy cramps and i am still spotting!

Fettle 36.9 18 DPO (officially pg!!!!!yippee!)
Greedy - 36.9 15 DPO
Honeyapple - TBC CD7 (6th cycle ttc)
LondonLottie - 36.9 CD27 / 9 DPO (3rd cycle ttc)
Mum03 - 36.4 CD6 (2nd cycle ttc)
Rah - 36.3 CD5 (3rd cycle ttc)
Ready - TBC CD21 / 6 DPO (5th cycle ttc)

fettle! i wasn't sure where to post my message to you, there seem to be so many threads on the go! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! i am Sooooooooooooooo happy for you now that we are officially allowed to be! its been very hard knowing how excited we were allowed to get for you cos i know you were trying to play it cool, but i am allowed to be excited now right? i am sure you must be due some good luck and this will be a wonderfully happy and healthy pg for you. CONGRATS again long cycle bud!

Right, well, I don't know about the rest of you but I do not want to see Rah throwing a paddy!! Soooo... why don't we all club together all the baby dust we can find and let her take it to Wales

In all seriousness Rah, I really hope this month is your month. If anyone deserves a BFP it's you honey!!! Fingers crossed and thinking of you!!

I still have my stitch like pain near my bellybutton and it's annoying me!! Catches me off guard, and takes my breath away! Painful. I have no idea what it is. Best not to worry though.

I know, its such a pain to start again. Why has no one invented a guaranteed way to get pregnant... They have invented all these crazy things but not that!
One tablet, a shag and bobs you uncle...pregnant.. that would be great!

I have the following to assist me this month:

• Fertility book - to look at CM, cervix positioning and charting

• Ovulation sticks

• Pre-seed

• Away in Wales for some sea air on prime days..

If it does not happen I'm going to throw a complete paddy!