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Relaxed TTC June/July/Beyond

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wispaxmas · 25/05/2016 10:39

Old thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2537105-relaxed-ttc-feb-march-april-2016

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auberginefrog · 26/05/2016 22:50

Hello can I join? You all seem lovely. Trying hard to be relaxed but failing miserably and unable to stop myself symptom spotting

30 TTC no 2

rausten · 26/05/2016 20:07

Hi all. 9 dpo at the mo. Getting lots of good signs so we shal see. Congrats to all yhe new BFP!!!!!! So exciting. Good luck to all xxxxc

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wispaxmas · 26/05/2016 18:22

OMG! Two of my bridesmaids were pregnant at my wedding and I was not his but happy for them. Same for my two cousins who couldn't fly over from Canada who had had babies in the months leading up to it.

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jennymac31 · 26/05/2016 18:04

Nope, she wasn't joking! I did tell her that I couldn't put my conception plans on hold for her wedding so we'll see what happens between now and August. I remembered when I told my dh about this. His response was 'WTF' and 'can we just not go to the wedding?' my dd is a flower girl at the wedding so we'll be going.

I think it was a case of my friend voicing her request before really thinking through what she was actually asking of me. She didn't seem too bothered by my response so hopefully she won't be too annoyed if I am pregnant on her wedding day.

Eva30 · 26/05/2016 17:46

jenny and lex what selfish bridezillas! Jenny I'm the same as you, on cd9 now.
Thanks for the tips on DTD ladies - ready and raring to goGrin

neonrainbow · 26/05/2016 17:13

So AF got me after all my fussing about implantation bleeding last night. Roll on next month. I think dh is looking forward to it Wink

AlexiaB · 26/05/2016 15:14

Jenny BD lots and lots! You have to live your life and do what's best for you and your family. I'd personally never tell somebody what they can or can't do but that's just me.

TheresaMarie55 · 26/05/2016 14:58

His ridiculous! Yeah, let's put our lives on hold coz you're getting married! I think not!

Readytosettle · 26/05/2016 13:45

& lex!

Readytosettle · 26/05/2016 13:44

I hope she was joking Jenny!!!

Lex0503 · 26/05/2016 13:13

Just seen the other replies, my bride asked me to not even start TRYING for a baby until after her wedding....which is July next year! I don't care being a pregnant bridesmaid but I wouldn't want to risk missing the wedding x

Lex0503 · 26/05/2016 13:11

Ha jennymac exactly the same as me but I will be stopping in August/September for the same reason, hopefully we get lucky this month x

TheresaMarie55 · 26/05/2016 11:43

Still faint I know but I'm still a little early x

TheresaMarie55 · 26/05/2016 11:42

What, I honestly don't understand the cheek of some people jenny, you get pregnant when you want!

I've done another test today, finally a proper line! X

Relaxed TTC June/July/Beyond
LemonLimeTonic · 26/05/2016 11:09

Jenny - the bride asked you not to fall pregnant around her wedding date? Seriously? Hmm

jennymac31 · 26/05/2016 08:18

I'm in my 2nd cycle and my fertile week is coming up in a couple of days so may get cracking tonight. Will see what happens with this cycle and if I don't fall pregnant then I might leave it for July/August, as I've got a hen do and wedding to go to. The bride had asked me not to fall pregnant at the time of her wedding but I wouldn't be disappointed if I was.

AlexiaB · 25/05/2016 23:53

I'm feeling a bit better now thanks gin :) And jenny I'm the same it hits me hard and it's always everywhere you go. Your DH has a great attitude! Unsure where you both are in your cycles but good luck & baby dust!

jennymac31 · 25/05/2016 22:05

I know what you mean Alexia B. Everytime I seem to see anything baby related or anything cute, I'm in a blubbering mess. Think the whole TTC thing is starting to get the better of me. DH's been asking me when we can do the baby dance again, as he's keen to get on it!

LemonLimeTonic · 25/05/2016 21:02

I suck at this TTC business. I'm out drinking like a fish (not smoking though so that's something!) I'm 6CD. I figure I'm clear a could couple of days before I have to lock the wine away.

ginandcake · 25/05/2016 21:00

I definitely got really bloated both times NJ, especially at the beginning. Just one of the joys of pregnancy!

Hope you're feeling better Alexia, TTC can be so tough emotionally and you can't really tell very many people.

NJ81 · 25/05/2016 20:52

neon I had a really odd AF like you're describing the month before my BFP. Maybe it's the body getting ready, or I like to think!
Thanks sunny tmi but there is definitely a lot of a gas for a normally non gassy person at all! Confused

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wispaxmas · 25/05/2016 20:01

FX, neon!

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neonrainbow · 25/05/2016 19:28

Thanks ready.. i usually have a 26 to 28 day cycle.

Readytosettle · 25/05/2016 18:39

So it's either implantation neon in which case you're testing too early for a BFP or its AF...unfortunately only time will tell I guess. If you're 12dpo then you must have a very short cycle normally- is that right?

neonrainbow · 25/05/2016 18:19

So... im confused. By my calcs im due af today. Bfn this morning. No period but (TMI) have had light pink discharge when going to the toilet since lunchtime with some light cramps on my lunch break. Could this be an implantation bleed? Im about 12dpo but not sure when i ovulated. Im asking because This is not normal for me when im due on normally it just starts and usually first thing in morning. Ill probably post this and my body will decide whether it is af or not and make me look a fool. Blush

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