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Coggy's Catch Up........

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coggy · 12/01/2007 19:38

It seems FOREVER ago that I was properly on MN and obssessively ttc!
Only 2 1/2 months ago but alot has happened in that time I expect (no.....sadly no bfp from me yet!!!)
I guess that Debbsy has had her Bibsy and maybe Peachy too......BooBoo next month.....lots of other BFPs??????
Natty, MrsMc and Trace have kept me with some of the news on here.

Here's a quick catch-up with me and what is happening.....
I am CD25 of a usual 26/27 day cycle with all the classic AF signs.....cramps, tiredness, wind etc. etc. (It's nice to be back!! )
I am starting IUI this next cycle so I am only a couple of days away from that and VERY excited and VERY nervous about jabbing myself too!
I figured as well as catching up with my old ttc buddies I could also moan and groan merrily away about it all on this thread and (hopefully) get a little bit of (much needed) sympathy at the same time!!!

I am SUCH a wimp really!!!!
Roll on CD1......

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Ready · 08/09/2007 18:02

Oh Coggy I am so sorry that the IUI hasn't been the triumph I hoped it would be for you.
My fingers are crossed for you with your IVF. It's natural to want to wish the time away to be having another crack at the whip (so to speak) - I hope that you can relax and have a wonderful time in anticipation of the IVF.
All the very best. You deserve all the luck in the world.

debbsyandsonn · 06/09/2007 17:51

oh Coggy so sorry please dont lose hope though (((((((((((hugs )))))))))))))

Artoo · 06/09/2007 17:49

Oh Coggy, I'm really sorry to hear this news

I understand your feelings about IVF - when we were told it was our only chance to have our own child it felt very "serious" and kind of "end of the road".

I just hope that your IVF is successful like ours.

Between now and then, take some time for yourself. Pamper yourself a bit, treat yourself.

I'll be looking out for your IVF updates.

Hugs,
Artoo
(35 weeks pg after first IVF)

ccpink · 05/09/2007 11:42

can't express how sorry I feel for you coggy. My rl bf has had ivf and is now 28 weeks preggers on her 2nd attempt. It'll be worth it.. Chin up. Lots of love -cc

Sexonlegs · 04/09/2007 21:51

Oh Coggy, I am so so sorry it hasn't happened for you and dh. I can totally see why you are disappointed, and you are very justified in feeling so.

I wish you all the best with the IVF, and look forward to some news in 2008. I will continue to think of you petal.

Lots of love to you. xx

newkid · 04/09/2007 20:34

Coggy I'm not one for virtual hugs and all that but I just want to send you a very big virtual hug.

manuka · 04/09/2007 17:57

I'm so sorry that you're feeling so disappointed. I wouldn't be at all surprised if you find yourself pregnant before January without any help at all. Lots of love x

Chocolatedays · 03/09/2007 21:25

So sorry Coggy.

I too never imagined having to go the IVF route - if it is any (not much I know) consolation, the process is not a bad as you might think. It is an emotional roller coaster .... but IUI seems to me too.

Hoping the new year brings good news.
Cxx

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coggy · 03/09/2007 21:02

Bugger, bugger, bugger!
My fourth (and final) IUI attempt hasn't worked ...AF came bang on cue today so that's it for several months now until I get lined up for one go at IVF around Janury time.

I will still lurk (of course)...and thank you to those faithful friends I have who keep checking up on me...it is VERY much appreciated and makes me feel supported like I couldn't really explain to many RL people.

Also I do appreciate the monthly poppers-on....you know who you are !!!
I wouldn't bother popping back until late January/early Feb now though as there really is no hope until then.

I MUST NOT wish time away....I need to find some useful things to do otherwise I will get frustrated and totally fed up that I can do nothing to help myself.

I generally feel fairly up-beat but every now and again I have to admit to feeling rather sorry for myself.....what an unfair dealing I seem to have had in the TTC stakes!!!!!

I REALLY didn't imagine that I'd ever have to have IVF.....it seems so serious IYKWIM.....I guess that I thought that I would fall pg again reasonably easily as a kind of compensation for what happened to my DS..........oh well.....I am VERY lucky that I am allowed to have this treatment on the NHS and it will be VERY exciting when the time comes.....so.....see you then.
Cogs.
X

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Juicylucytoo · 31/08/2007 21:48

All my limbs crossed in your honour luvvie xx

ccpink · 26/08/2007 10:51

everything crossed coggy
cc

peachygirl · 21/08/2007 22:06

fingers crossed coggy

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coggy · 21/08/2007 21:31

So am I!!!!

Thanks.
X

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Sexonlegs · 21/08/2007 21:30

Coggy, again, I am thinking of you and am really hoping this is it for you.

Will keep on checking up on you hun. xx

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coggy · 21/08/2007 21:25

LOL Newkid.....it gets really bad some months doesn't it!!!! Grrrrr for you!!!!!

Yesterday went fine.....didn't feel ANY ov pains so I am not at all hopeful...but we will see.
Another jab on Saturady and then that's it until 15 more days!

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MrsMcJnr · 21/08/2007 10:49

Thinking of you Coggy x

pinkrangerstartstowaddle · 21/08/2007 09:10

Hope it all went well yesterday coggy x

pinkrangerstartstowaddle · 20/08/2007 09:01

Thanks Coggy

Good Luck today!!!!! xxxxx

newkid · 19/08/2007 23:08

Coggy, all the best for tomorrow. Hope you have more luck than it looks like I'm going to have this month as DH isn't co-operating here which is why I find myself on the computer at 23.00 on a Sunday night. Actually I meant to have my face on but I am so hoping it's your month that I can wait a bit longer for my month if you know what I mean!

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coggy · 19/08/2007 22:58

LOL....anything to delay it a bit!!!

You and your curtains......me and my IUI!!!!!!

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peachygirl · 19/08/2007 22:32

I'm starting tomorrow since I will have this bit of time how much I will get done though will be debatable when I also should hoover and mess around with the bedroom curtains - blackouts are falling down

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coggy · 19/08/2007 22:29

Thank you Peachy....I shall start to worry about it in another week I think!
Still trying to enjoy as much as the holiday as I can squeeeeeeeze out before doing school work!!!!

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peachygirl · 19/08/2007 22:25

Good luck Coggy!! I haven't forgotten the promised CAT with the songs. DD is going to the child minder tomorrow for a bit so I may have time then

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coggy · 19/08/2007 22:22

So.......last visit to that clinic for a while....rather nervous so lots of prayers if any of you are that way inclined please!!!!

I hope you have managed to dangle your tummy lots today Pinky.....I have read alll the advice on your thread so I'll know what do do if I'm ever in the same situation!!!!!

SOL....I have a friend (sortof) who plays with the SOH band sometimes and I always think of my good MN friend when I hear about them!

How is it all going now Pusscat...I did a search on you yesterday as I hadn't heard for a while....all smoothly I hope....any MS/ other symptoms yet?

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pussycatmomma · 19/08/2007 16:00

gosh blummin heck, i nearly missed it!! dont come on mn much anymore, but lucky i sneaked a peak just at the right moment!
Good Luck for tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xxxx