TTC after miscarriage thread #4

Oh Brenna I'm so sorry. I had that pain 2 weeks ago. It's awful. Have you got people to comfort you? Look after yourself. It will happen for us all soon xx

That sounds scary Smiling. I'm glad you have a plan for this time.

Today should be Rowan's due date.

JPEG. That looks like you haven't ovulated yet to me.

Ok thanks Amy I think I'll move over to fertility friend. Just now I noticed ewcm, or what I think it is, for the first time. I'll just keep dtd as much as possible! Last night I just didn't have the energy and my boyfriend is out all day today playing cricket... He better have some energy left when he gets back!

Kate & Mrs the wind has stopped now! I'm cd9 now having the tiniest amount of cm today, it's egg white but literally the tiniest bit.

Mrs I had the same feeling in my right side last cycle, felt to me like pressure and when I pressed it was quite tender. Felt a bit like trapped gas.

JPEG I don't like ovia, it's really unclear and doesn't draw you any lines or tell you if you've ovulated. I deleted it and moved on to fertility friend instead. Looking at your temps though, at the min it doesn't show you've ovulated clearly but judging by your temp starting to rise and if it continues to rise it normally indicates ovulation for the day before the initial temp rise.

My chart is up and down this month but I think the weather change has caused that. My temp is higher than it normally is for the beginning of my cycle. I'm just waiting for the shift. I normally have a really big temp dip before I ov, with the weather I don't think that's going to happen this cycle but we'll see.

Pulling inside could be implanting? Really hope it's not a cyst.

Xx

How can Ovia suggest you test on Friday if you are 3dpo? I find Ovia so confusing. I am on CD21 and I think I ovulated last Friday so that's 8 dpo. I can test on Thursday I think. I feel ok thanks Jpeg. So hard not to get hooked into symptom spotting but definitely got increasing amounts of CM and feel tired like I've got a hangover. My boobs are big too & im very bloated. Definitely not getting in a bikini today! It would be pornographic and not attractive!! I had very similar symptoms last month apart from the CM and nothing happened so I must must prevent getting hopeful and then to see it all fall apart when AF shows up.

What can you do today jpeg to help you relax? You must listen to your friend. Can you go for a swim or a massage or something? Xx

I'd love to help jpeg but have no idea about temping. V sorry. Hope someone else can help.

amy that sounds gorgeous, not the wind, the massage! Hope you are less windy today! What CD are you on?

The weather is so beautiful! I'm sat in our garden having a (decaf) coffee and it's already v warm! Better get a tan to compensate for the lack of rose spritzers and pub gardens that I'd normally be consuming in this weather!

Hope everyone has lovely days!

Anyone got any news? Unusual symptoms?

Xx

Amy that sounds like a lovely day! Really relaxing...

I feel like I'm always asking for the same advice but I was wondering if someone can help with my temping chart. It's the first time I've done it and just need some help interpreting. I think next month I'm just going to quit all this checking it makes me more anxious!!

Hope everyone has a good day in the sunshine!

Congrats alltalk what fantastic news. Wishing you all the best for your pregnancy

Hi everyone hope you're all ok.

Welcome to all the new people here and sorry for your losses.

Alltalk congrats on the bfp!

I went for my massage earlier, it was lovely but painful. Having fibro I forgot that heat is not really the best thing with having hypa sensitivity to temperature so I could only manage 10 mins but she gave me a different massage for the further 20 mins I could stand. I picked the kids up from school and we went back and had our nails done. It was really nice but since having the massage, sorry tmi but I can't stop farting! DH has put up a wind break its that bad! Obviously had the right, relaxing effect but unfortunately not on the muscles.

I have no signs of ovulation or anything else right now, no pains, no cm, no temp dip/spike, nothing. Opk's are still gone, haven't been tempted at all to buy any more.

Good luck to anyone in their tww or approaching the fertile window. Hoping the spring sun brings more than just budding flowers xx

I'm so glad you have a plan Smiling - that is great and must be very comforting. I am petrified about getting pregnant again but hope my consultant will be able to help too. Anyway, welcome again. It's great to have you here and all the other newbies! We'll get some luck very soon I know it! Otherwise I am going to change my name to LosingHopeKate1980!

xx

What a scary experience this must be for you smiling - the best of luck and hopefully the closer monitoring will lead to a successful pregnancy.

I'm feeling happy tonight as my period has arrived today which is 2-3 days earlier than predicted which means I'm closer to my fertile week

mrs I've read quite a bit about CM and when it's white and creamy that is evidence of progesterone which you get when you ovulate so yes sounds like you have O'd. Would that be a surprise? Its all v confusing.

I am SO bloated tonight. I had a really light fish dinner at my parents house but it's like I've eaten two massive pizzas. When I breath in I can feel my womb too which feels tender and sore. What the f*ck?! Must be weird hormones. It's always bloody weird hormones these days

Welcome smiling I'm new too.

Congrats alltalk

I've bought some cheapie OPKs ready for next cycle (shhh don't tell hubby)

Evening everyone.... I have just inhaled a pizza and chocolate. Not exactly a healthy fertility diet!! I'll start again tomorrow!!

I'm cd15... Not sure if I have ovulated. Haven't got anything except negatives on the strip OPKs. No idea!! Cervix felt soft... Who knows what is going on!! Mrs what type of OPK did you get your positive on?

Hope everyone has good weekends.

HopefulKate not at all, I was on a thread like this when I conceived my son and I think those ladies know pretty much everything about me and we are now very good friends so I'm happy to answer any questions

I have a letter from the dr with a plan for when I get pregnant again, I will have scans every 2 weeks and at the first sign of my cervix opening I will have a stitch put in. I may also end up on bedrest

You can have a few surges Mrs but sounds like you may have ovulated?

Smiling I'm so sorry. That sounds tough. Sorry to ask the question, hope you didn't think I was being nosey. Can they do anything to prevent it just in case??

I'm on CD20 and feeling pretty ropey. Spotty and exhausted. Dreading the possibility of getting my body out for summer! Feel revolting! Xx