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TTC after miscarriage thread #4

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InsufficientlyCaffeinated · 29/04/2016 14:11

Hello ladies. I noticed the last thread filled up, seemed to happen all of a sudden! Hoping you find your way here (prepares for tumbleweed)

For reference here's thread 3 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2593041-TTC-after-miscarriage-lucky-thread-number-3

All those we are trying to conceive a child after miscarriage are welcome here, whether it's your first or you already have DC

Good luck ladies. Let's have some BFPs, we've earned it

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5tardusty · 12/05/2016 15:19

We are definitely due some more BFPs on this thread. There must be a glut of them coming up soon. Got an early finish today so off home to do my opk. 26 days post mc now. It's pretty boring tbh. I don't even have anything to report!

redstrawberries101 · 12/05/2016 15:15

Could not resist... I feel terrified.

TTC after miscarriage thread #4
InsufficientlyCaffeinated · 12/05/2016 15:05

Stress or illness can cause you to ovulate late which would knock AF back. I have a 35 day cycle once a year for some reason

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HopefulKate1980 · 12/05/2016 15:04

Brenna - sounds like a lovely plan. Fine wine is a great consolation!!

Cheeky - that is confusing. You could have a late implanter and v luckily have no symptoms! I so hope so.

I'm CD25 today. V crampy still, lots of CM too. AF due tomorrow or Saturday. Feeling v calm suddenly after an emotional start to the week. I know that I have done everything I could have done this month - lots of sex, no OPK stressing, no booze, limited coffee, lots of sleep etc. If my eggs don't play ball I'm off to the consultant anyway for some advice.

redstrawberries101 · 12/05/2016 14:14

CD 34. Usually have AF by cd29/30.

I don't recall when we dtd exactly but I think it was fairly early in the cycle. Not sure when I ovulated as I don't track that really.

The month I fell preg I must have ovulated late (became apparent at early scans).

I expect if I am preg, I must have ovulated late for me to have a bfn on Tuesday (cd31) so it doesn't add up really.

Brenna24 · 12/05/2016 14:13

CD17. Ovulation today or tomorrow. Testing the day we go away to a posh hotel for the weekend to celebrate our anniversary (so if it is a BFN i will be having spa days and srinking posh wine).

HopefulKate1980 · 12/05/2016 14:10

Sorry to be boring but remind me of where you are at, CD etc when you think you ovulated? Xx

redstrawberries101 · 12/05/2016 13:55

Thanks but I really don't think I'm preg. I don't feel it at all. Boobs feel fine etc don't feel sick absolutely nothing.

I do have on and off cramping but the height of it was the night before AF was due.

HopefulKate1980 · 12/05/2016 13:39

Good luck cheeky!!! Xx

redstrawberries101 · 12/05/2016 13:24

Lol Brenna! I'll wait Smile

Brenna24 · 12/05/2016 13:07

I'd wait until tomorrow. If you get a negative now you won't know whether or not it is a real negative and you'll need another test for tomorrow. So it would be a bit like peeing on a £5 note.

redstrawberries101 · 12/05/2016 13:05

I've drank 500 ml since 8am do you think that would dilute my urine a lot?

Brenna24 · 12/05/2016 12:48

I am up and down and all over the place all the time Pineapple. It is quite exhausting just dealing with the moods. Today I am dealing with this by spending my bosses money. Grin

Writerwannabe83 · 12/05/2016 12:44

Test now!!!!!!!

Grin
InsufficientlyCaffeinated · 12/05/2016 12:43

Good luck Cheeky

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redstrawberries101 · 12/05/2016 12:00

Right I've bought the superdrug early detection. Tempted to test now. Going to try and wait till the morning.

redstrawberries101 · 12/05/2016 11:43

Yeah i feel exactly like that. On a roller coaster of emotions. I don't actually know how I feel

Pineapple80 · 12/05/2016 11:42

Enjoy the wedding jpeg! We went on a holiday over Christmas time and that's when we conceived (though lost this one in Feb). I also thought stuff it I'm drinking! Once in the 2ww I'd stopped but the holiday def did me good, being away from the usual routine helped me relax and enjoy myself a bit.

Pineapple80 · 12/05/2016 11:39

Good luck cheeky.

I'm roughly 3dpo and feeling a bit flat today. Thinking about how I would've been 22 weeks by now. Generally wondering to myself when it'll happen again. I keep thinking goodness it's almost June and I'm not pregnant. I seem to be going from feeling good to feeling low again. Anyone else?

Hope you all have a good day. It's almost bedtime here in Oz!

redstrawberries101 · 12/05/2016 11:33

Thanks Brenna. Missed your earlier post. That made me laugh! Telling your godmother hahahaha

Brenna24 · 12/05/2016 11:21

as long as you don't drink much overnight then your FMU will still be more concentrated than usrine during the day.

Brenna24 · 12/05/2016 11:21

Use a FRER or a Superdrug early. The clearblue are less sensitive.

redstrawberries101 · 12/05/2016 11:15

Thanks hopeful. I feel a bit silly about seeing the doctor. I'll test one more time and then make an appt. should I try FRER or clear blue? So far only tried the Amazon cheapies.

Do you think I should do with FMU as well? I often go to the loo during the night.

Brenna24 · 12/05/2016 11:11

Hugs Cheeky. It could just be that you got a bit stressed earlier this month and then ovulated late or anything really. Please don't get too stressed yet. Have a hug from me (and some chocolate).

Enjoy the wedding Jpeg. Italian wedding are always a great laugh. We had our real wedding here last year, then another wedding in Italy in september for DH's extended family. I was pregnant at that one which meant missing out on all the lovely wine and half the food, and then it was all for nothing anyway.

We had a night off last night to replsnish DH's stocks but I have mittleschmertz today, so back in the saddle tonight for the next few nights. My godmother is coming over tomorrow night to learn how to make cakes. She is not great for leaving or taking hints so I may have to boot her out the door and be blunt about ovulating and needing to get to bed, shich will make her leave but may traumatise her for life. Grin Hopefully she has the sense not to push me.

HopefulKate1980 · 12/05/2016 07:37

Agree, good for you jpeg.

Cheeky - could you see a doctor? Please don't be scared. I totally understand obviously but could a doctor help? Have you tried a FRER? Sending you lots of thoughts and hope.

Xx

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