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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Ladies Hoping for BFP In May

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 26/04/2016 18:15

Hi everyone...
Hope all your TTC days are nearly over and hopefully getting some positives in May Grin
Thought I would start a thread for is hoping to get their BFP in/around May time so we can share a journey like I did with other women when TTC my DD :)

Some stats....

Age: 25
TTC: #2
Had the mirena coil removed 5 days ago
Really hoping to concieve before my 1st cycle Hmm

Look forward to hearing some good news from you all x

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BuffaloCustardbath · 05/05/2016 13:45

Sorry to hear of those who are out for the month... Onto the next FW and fingers crossed that June is the month for you!

STILL not out here, CD34 but BFN yesterday, I've no idea what is going on but it's driving me crazy!!

dippypanda · 05/05/2016 13:19

Hi, can I join too?

I'm 37
TTC #2
Cycle 2 after mirena
AF due 27th (or 20th if cycles stay short)

Last cycle was very short 21 days, I've not had AF for 6 years though so no idea what my cycles are like. So I've decided to temp and use OPKs this time and see what's happening. Good luck to everyone Smile

Sophronia · 05/05/2016 12:08

I'm out for a May BFP too, AF arrived today Sad this was our first month TTC so I wasn't expecting a BFP right away but still, disappointing!

Good luck to everyone hoping for a BFP this month SmileFlowers

Blondie0912 · 05/05/2016 09:30

Hey ladies! Loads going on here again I love it!

Good luck Pixie I am sure everything is fine- keeping my fx for you!!!!!!!

Mummy that looked positive to me- lots of DTD for you and baby dust! Grin

Poppy-I was on Cilest for 10 years- took me some time to get cycles started again Confused but I think that is just me as loads of people on here have no problems coming off Cilest so I'm sure you'll be fine Grin

Sadly I'm out for a May BFP Sad AF arrived yesterday- but keeping my Fingers Crossed for all of youuuuuu!!!!

Poppydm · 04/05/2016 20:40

Ha ha! Hopefully you won't need that many Smile X

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 04/05/2016 20:23

Everyday around ovulation. This was my last one though didn't realise I only had one left. Got 50 PT ready and waiting haha x

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Poppydm · 04/05/2016 20:13

I've never used these before. How often do you do a test? X

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 04/05/2016 20:06

Just done this OPK x

Ladies Hoping for BFP In May
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Poppydm · 04/05/2016 20:06

Eeek fingers crossed 😊 X

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 04/05/2016 20:03

I honestly can't remember as I was on/off it so much and back then I never felt or tracked ovulation. I've been on the coil for 3 years, had it taken out 2 weeks ago (I ovulated a week before it came out) the last 2 days I've been getting cramps so it's defiantly egg release week Grin x

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Poppydm · 04/05/2016 18:48

That's so true and thank you for your lovely message and support. Think we'll just keep trying then do a PT in a few weeks or so. Hard to know anything when you're not in a natural cycle so to speak. How long did it take you to ovulate after coming off the pill? X

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 04/05/2016 18:33

You will be so happy when it happens all the feeling scared will go out the window :) hopefully we all get out BFP this month!! We all have different stories and journeys to get to this point it's so good to be able to share and talk about it with others! I was in a forum when I was pregnant with my first 6 years ago on the bounty website and we are still Facebook friends now! It's so lovely to make bump buddies to talk about all the scary parts and happy parts x

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Poppydm · 04/05/2016 18:26

Ah that's lovely! Really hope you get some great news very soon :-) I'm married to my best friend, have a good career and my husband and I both want a family. We've talked about it for a while just feels surreal to finally be making (or trying to make) it happen! I always read about people feeling so excited to conceive and although I want that, just worrying that I feel so nervous and scared by it all. I have an awful habit of overthinking everything Confused X

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 04/05/2016 18:11

poppy it is a big wave of emotion I remember with my first I wanted to concieve soooo badly then what it happened I started to get anxious and panic, but I was young and had a lot going on at the time.
This time round I am in a more stable relationship, very settled, lovely house, great job (as does OH) and I feel so ready to start again :) I have more excitement this time as it will be my partners first and feel so lucky I get to share the amazing moments with him xx

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MummyBex1985 · 04/05/2016 17:28

Hi all

TTC#2.... Cycle 12.... I would really like a May BFP please!!

Poppydm · 04/05/2016 17:15

Thanks mummyto1ttc2, feel allsorts of cramps and twinges so it might be best to just hang on a while and settle into a cycle. Very new at all of this and feeling a bit overwhelmed and nervous about it all. It's such a big decision! Anyone else feel like that? X

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 04/05/2016 17:04

Hi poppy
I conceived DD after being on cilest, I was on/off it a few months before conceiving I think I went a month without taking it before x

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Poppydm · 04/05/2016 17:01

Hi ladies,
Can I join in too?
Age:32
TTC #1
Cycle 1

I just came off my pill (cilest) two weeks ago. Not had an official AF yet and only really 'tried' once so far. Not sure whether it's best to wait and have a real period first? Is anyone else trying straight away after coming off bc?

Chuckading · 04/05/2016 15:36

Can i join in please!

I'm 37
TTC#2
Came off pill before Christmas. AF currently 8 days late, but getting BFN! Just want my period to hurry up so we can start again! Bit scared as my DS was born 9wks early due to pre-eclampsia and icp.

Congratulations Pixie!

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 04/05/2016 12:14

How bizarre kate I would have thought it would have shown by now. Stress can delay though...?

Has anyone experienced painful ovulation after having coil removed!?
So I was defiantly ovulating yesterday (first since removal of coil) which for me I can always feel and get mild cramp on whatever side I'm ovulating from, but yesterday it was like actual pain on my left side....Making me let out a "ouch ouch it hurts" haha.
Sex last night was also painful on that side had to be super careful was very hard to enjoy it when it was hurting :( :( seems to be ok today though....very strange!! Xx

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Pixie2015 · 04/05/2016 11:08

Thanks for all lovely message started light bleed - so early scan arranged for Monday 16th may - another 2 ww!
Fingers crossed there is more BFPs soon x

Blondie0912 · 04/05/2016 10:01

Kate I'm on same CD as you! Last month I ended up getting AF tomorrow so I'm going to wait until Friday to test again as had BFN on Monday. So annoying! Pretty sure it's a BFN though as the last time we DTD was two weeks ago this Friday so pretty unlikely!!!!! Hopefully you have more luck than me Grin

Kate94 · 04/05/2016 07:38

I've been testing using the same brand of Internet cheapie FRER. 3 from one batch and 1 from a new batch... Should I try a different brand? Surely with my period about 10 days late I wouldn't even need a fr now.

Kate94 · 04/05/2016 07:33

Kent it's shit isn't it.. Everything just all seems to come at once!

I'm CD38 today and still BFN

KentCat · 03/05/2016 19:33

Well today has been a horrid stressful day in the office and then came home to find the gearbox in the car has gone meaning we can't reverse! Normally take these things in my stride but tonight burst into tears on my lovely husband. I just find my emotions are all over the place these days.