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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Ladies Hoping for BFP In May

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 26/04/2016 18:15

Hi everyone...
Hope all your TTC days are nearly over and hopefully getting some positives in May Grin
Thought I would start a thread for is hoping to get their BFP in/around May time so we can share a journey like I did with other women when TTC my DD :)

Some stats....

Age: 25
TTC: #2
Had the mirena coil removed 5 days ago
Really hoping to concieve before my 1st cycle Hmm

Look forward to hearing some good news from you all x

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Wannabemama · 13/05/2016 08:55

Sorry you haven't had the news you wanted this month Rosie! Enjoy your G&T's there's always next months!
I've just had the same thing with the brown blood type thing after I peed and not due on until Sunday. So hoping its implantation bleed and not AF!! Confused

Rosey135 · 13/05/2016 08:41

Good luck everyone else, catch you next month if not xx

Rosey135 · 13/05/2016 08:41

Thanks for your positivity indecisive but she is well and truly here in full flow :/ and with horrible cramps to boot! Was really hoping for some good news for my birthday next week, ah well at least I can have a few g & t s for my birthday

indecisivedoctor · 12/05/2016 22:38

Rosey I don't want to give you false hope but I had brown dc in the few days before my Bfp. I think was the implantation bleed..

Rosey135 · 12/05/2016 22:08

Pretty sure my period has turned up today, brownish discharge after peeing. And it's two days early and I can normally predict my period to the hour, suppose it's better earmy than late in these circumstances

Wannabemama · 12/05/2016 19:07

Hi ladies!
I'm so glad to find this thread so I hope you don't mind me tagging on!
I'm in the dread 2ww and feeling so many symptoms but also very worried in fining myself a phantom pregnancy as its all I think about! I can be obsessive! (Is what the husband thinks anyway!)
So.. I'm currently on 14 DPO and all I've had so far is BFN but thinking I've been testing too early!!
I'm off some foods, smells are more apparent! The worst period pains! Though not sure on for 3 days yet! Terrible back pain especially in my lower sides! Has anyone else felt like this too?

WingingIt83 · 12/05/2016 16:29

So I caved ( lasted less than a cycle) and downloaded ovia and stocked up on opks and pg tests!
At least logging data each day will give me something to do in this endless waiting game.

A lot of us seem to be due AF in the next few days, sprinkling anti-AF dust at all of you xxx

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 12/05/2016 09:29

Ladies....I think AF is going to be arriving next week for sure!
I'm having a break out on my face 3 huge spots!!! Ahh! I am so religious with my facial routine and haven't had spots for a very long time! This does not happen lol. Noooooo xx

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Rosey135 · 12/05/2016 09:29

No such luck :( and I'm starting to feel period cramping so not feeling very positive about it, also a bit concerned as to what the bleeding I had could be? If it's not implantation bleeding then I should probably go to the docs. A few more days left so I suppose I shouldn't lose hope completely, it's not over till it's over!

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 12/05/2016 07:14

Fingers crossed for you rosey
Let us know how you get on x

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Rosey135 · 11/05/2016 22:20

I have two tests so I will do one in the morning and save one till later ....

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 11/05/2016 21:45

findingmyfeet
I always get a bulk buy on eBay of test strips pay about £4 for 50 early testing ones x

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findingmyfeet12 · 11/05/2016 21:20

Where do you all buy your tests from? I'd love to test more often but the tests are so expensive.

WingingIt83 · 11/05/2016 21:17

Rosey i'm also expecting AF this weekend but have said I'm not going to test until at least Wednesday!

Pixie2015 · 11/05/2016 19:36

Lovely to here more good news

If you have tests use them it keeps the hope and excitement going 🤔

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 11/05/2016 18:59

rosey personally.....depends on how many I have in the draw I would do them the week building up to AF due :) because I am impatient like that! I have 40 ready to be tested haha I even done one today knowing it would be BFN but I just couldn't resist any longer haha.
Because I don't know if the bleed I had after my coil came out was my period I'm just assuming it was, so I should be due AF on the 18th so a week today. (I've estimated a 28 day cycle as I have no idea haven't had a period for 3 years) could be later could be sooner I really have no clue. My fertile days were from 1st-5th I definatly ovulated that week (posts OPK pic earlier on in this post) xx

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Rosey135 · 11/05/2016 18:42

Got some more tests in the post, trying to resist the urge to do one, period due on Saturday, do you think its still too early to do one in the morning? Don't want another bfn ...

findingmyfeet12 · 10/05/2016 22:34

Congratulations Indecisive that's great news.

I've had sharp pains in my breasts today and some sharp abdominal pains. I poas even though my miscarriage was only 3 weeks ago Blush Of course it was a bfn. Not even sure why I tested now. I expect the sharp pains are due to pregnancy hormones left over from the miscarriage.

indecisivedoctor · 10/05/2016 20:48

Apparently it can open up the passage in the tubes by whooshing fluid down.. Maybe massive coincidence but for us we conceived next month on after having tried for 18months..

geeup · 10/05/2016 18:34

Ooh thanks for the tips! I am having a lap and dye so hopefully it has the same effect on me! I don't have a date yet but you've cheered me up. Anything which offers a chink of hope right?!

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 10/05/2016 18:16

geeup didn't even think of this....in November 2009 I had a lap done.........found out I was pregnant 2 days before Christmas DD is 6 this year so it may help you too xx

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indecisivedoctor · 10/05/2016 17:33

Thanks ladies.. Think the news is settling in now! I feel utterly exhausted today- this must be bloody psychological as yesterday I felt totally normal!

Geeup if you don't mind me being totally nosy- are they planning a lap and dye? Or just exploratory laparoscopy? Just asking as I had a lap and dye before my first pregnancy- they say the "jet wash" effect can help you could conceive. I had it Jan and was pregnant March..

Novinosincebambino · 10/05/2016 17:18

Good luck geeup! I know it's hard not to test every day - I did last month Blush wishing you all the best.

JessJR23 · 10/05/2016 14:43

Congratulations indecisive!!! Excellent news :)

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MummyTo1TTC2 · 10/05/2016 13:41

Welcome geeup
Sorry to hear of your struggle :(
I keep getting tempted to test even though I only ovulated last week (covers eyes with hands) so I know it would be bfn for me lol.
This feels likes the longest month evvvverrr it's driving me insane keep thinking really negative that it isn't going to happen :( I've had 2 pregnancy announcements over the last week! One gave me a little hope as my friend came off the coil in Feb DTD once that month and she is now 3 months pregnant! I really hope it happens that quick for meeeee and others xx

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