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We are jolly well going to get and stay diffed this month and we are BROOKING NO ARGUMENT.

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Imps9 · 21/04/2016 13:53

Gah didn't realise we'd reached 1000 messages on the old thread!

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Imps9 · 26/07/2016 19:28

Hello Loops. Sounds like it could have been quite a frustratingly short and uninformative appointment, but it's fab that they're taking more bloods and have another plan in mind. The 19 Aug appoint sounds like it will offer more information/clarity. Let us know what Prof B says about TTC this month once the blood results are through - they should have them back by 4/5 August shouldn't they?

Re: DS2's clothes, you could always invoke the Law of Sod and give them all away - then you'd be bound to get diffed with a sticky one and have to buy everything again.

I can really feel my ribs stretching today - it's the weirdest sensation. Am certain that if I listened closely enough I'd be able to hear them creaking.

Have you finished that blanket yet Pasta? I'm not far off finishing Barry-Baxter's fifth and final blanket - I've then got a couple of other projects that I'm really keen to finish before he arrives, but they're quite big ones so I don't know if I'll have the chance.

Beedles, Keep, Geek have you agreed names with your OH's yet?

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Loopyaboutmy2boys · 26/07/2016 12:41

Sorry for not being here sooner, had a lot on last week including a family wedding.

So I went to see Prof Quenby and was there barely any time at all. She recapped my history and said that she wanted to run blood tests to check the results that Worcester had and to test for other things that she didn't elaborate on. I'm due back there again on the 19th August. She mentioned sitagliptin being a possibility so don't know if that is part of their trial or something she can just give me. Will have to wait until I go back and see what she says then. Am due to ovulate around the 4th-8th August I think so trying to see if they can let me know the blood test results sooner in case there is anything that I need to know about before conceiving again. Their receptionist said she can't tell me anything so have emailed prof B to see whether he can help.

Good to see your bumps are all growing and that baby items are being bought. So wish I was at the stage you all are. Ds2 is nearly 4 and because he is big we are going to have to bag up his 4-5 wardrobe soon and move him into age 5-6 clothes (well apart from trousers as he is always a size behind on those!) so yet more clothes going into the loft and no closer to knowing if we will ever need them or not 😞

Imps9 · 25/07/2016 22:28

Wow Pasta that's amazing! Well done you. Are you enjoying crochet? I find it very addictive.

Not much to report here. 27 weeks tomorrow - all is still going well by some miracle. Still feeling full of energy which is really nice.

Geek how is Mr G? Your 20 week scan must be coming up soon?

Beedles are you still in the UK? You chose absolutely the right time to come, weather-wise. Any more exciting purchases? Our Ergo arrived today - it looks baffling but I'm sure we'll figure it out.

Loops please pop by and update us on the Tommy's appt/TTC in general. I really hope you're okay.

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Pastamancer · 22/07/2016 21:29

Geek you seem to have married a very unlucky man, the poor old thing doesn't half get kicked in the teeth by life.

Lots of lovely shopping going on, does that mean you are all starting to believe that you are actually going to have babies soon? Wink

As for me, DD1 has finished nursery and is ready to start reception in September. DD2 is still a nightmare that climbs and pulls things out and basically doesn't stop apart from her nap. It has been 4 weeks since I started to learn to crochet and am making a blanket for my cousin who had a baby earlier this month. He turned up early and I was hoping for a bit longer being a first baby. What do you think?

We are jolly well going to get and stay diffed this month and we are BROOKING NO ARGUMENT.
Imps9 · 22/07/2016 16:24

We have a pram! Well, actually we just have a carry cot at the moment (it was in the reduced to clear section at Kiddicare - £160 down to £100) but we have chosen a pram and will order it online tonight. Have gone for a Baby Jogger City Mini GT. Hopefully Barry-Baxter will be pleased with the choice.

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Imps9 · 21/07/2016 13:15

Have found a pub with wifi so will catch up quickly while Mr Imps orders pudding.

Oh Geek DS sounds like a twat. Poor Mr Geek he doesn't deserve that sort of treatment. And DD sounds just as bad. Is Mr G any better or not? What's the latest treatment plan?

Got a week in France in Sept to look forward to after this holibobs. Had a lovely week so far. Did get a bit concerned about Barry-Baxter as he was quite quiet on Monday compared to usual so I lay on my side for 2 hours to count the kicks and counted 19. Although the info said that I should feel at least 10 in that time, I gave maternity assessment a call anyway cos the kicks were so gentle compared to normal. They were not concerned in the slightest - glad I called though as it put my mind at rest. And B-B is back to properly booting me now.

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keepitgoing · 21/07/2016 13:10

My favourite comments of the last 24 hours: 'you look like you've swallowed a watermelon' and a small boy at kip's nursery, simply pointing and 'why is your tummy so fat'... Imagine if it was just fat!!

geek sorry to hear about mrG's children, that must be so sad for him, I hope he feels better soon too

ControlGeek · 21/07/2016 12:46

Glad you had a good break beedle - such a shame you missed our lovely heatwave this week though!

Whereabouts are you now imps? Is this your last holiday before B-B arrives?

Things are rumbling along here. I've told my DF our news, but I don't think he remembers. MrG's DS is being a royal PITA - he will only ever meet up with MrG if MrG foots the entire bill and gets him riproaring drunk, along with whatever mates MrG's DS chooses to bring along on the day. MrG's currently too ill to go anywhere so asked his DS over for a visit, explaining we have news to tell him. DS refused, since MrG was only willing to pay for DS's train ticket, not for DS to bring his girlfriend-of-the-day along with him. DS has no money, apparently, because he's busy saving to go to Poland to the wedding of someone he's never met. MrG is needless to say a bit upset. MrG's DD went nc after fleecing MrG (well, technically me) out of £450 so at best she'll get told by email, if indeed she still has the same email address.

Movements are still fe and far between, maybe Geekling has more room since the bump sprang out. I am in mat clothes only now - no hope of getting back into my old work clothes!

Imps9 · 20/07/2016 21:00

On holibobs! Hardly any signal! Hope all's well with everyone :)

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keepitgoing · 20/07/2016 09:25

Helloooo is anybody there? Are you all loving the heat....?

keepitgoing · 17/07/2016 10:07

Hi beedle was wondering where you'd got to, how lovely to tell your friend face to face! Sounds like you're pretty sorted, and I agree 24 weeks = huge milestone!

loopy hoping your appointment was good

I've taken to cycling round with kip on the bike as it's easier on the hips/ back than walking, but I think people think I'm a little odd, not many cycle here at all let alone with bump+toddler Grin

BeedlesPineNeedles · 17/07/2016 08:02

Sorry I haven't been around, it's hard work being on holiday!

Lovely bumpies, I might take one today to celebrate getting to 24 weeks, it feels like a good milestone.

loopy how did the appointment go on Friday?

I did loads of shopping whilst I was in England, so baby Beedle now has vests, sleepsuits, hand knitted cardigans, hats, booties (also hand knitted!) and a sleeping bag. Still a few more things to get but hopefully we might start decorating the nursery this week and maybe looking at prams. My mum was so pleased to see my bump, and my best friend was so happy when we told her (I had wanted to tell her face to face so she had no idea)

keepitgoing · 15/07/2016 12:49

I'm back to mw care, they aren't worried about my funny heartbeats, baby is measuring great, and I've had my anti d injection :) nothing for 6 weeks now Shock

keepitgoing · 15/07/2016 08:09

Good luck today loopy really hope they have some ideas xx

Imps9 · 14/07/2016 23:48

Omg I've been having exactly the same concerns/issue! I read that lying on your back can restrict blood flow which makes you feel dizzy rather than reading anything which says it's bad for baby. I meant to ask the MW today but forgot Blush

Speaking of which, my bump is measuring 25cm which is spot on for 25 weeks (although a few cm either way is fine too). So IN YOUR FACE to everyone who expresses shock/horror at my bump size or makes those lame "ho ho are you sure there's only one in there?" jokes. Barry-Baxter is not a lardy cake and my bump is just perfect.

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ControlGeek · 14/07/2016 13:55

Ooh, the other top tip I read is it's ok if you're on a slight incline, so maybe prop yourself up on a pillow or two from your lower back upwards?

ControlGeek · 14/07/2016 13:50

The same thing's happening to me too Keep. Everything I've read about it says that you would wake up in discomfort long before any harm could happen to baby. I've even tried half wedging myself between the mattress and the wall Blush They suggest sewing a golf ball into the back of a snorer's PJ top to stop them rolling onto their back, might something similar (but less extreme!) be worth trying as you're so much further on than I am so probably worrying more legitimately?

keepitgoing · 14/07/2016 13:34

Lovelies I keep ending up sleeping on my back despite trying to wedge myself. Am stressing about the baby, does anyone have any tips? Am currently sleeping with pillow between legs and another behind my back to try and stop me rolling

Imps9 · 13/07/2016 14:03

Confratulations? Auto correct changes so many bloody words all the time but it won't pick up on that one being wrong??

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ControlGeek · 13/07/2016 14:01

Oh keep i'm so sorry you and your colleague are having to go through that. We had a similar situation at my workplace recently (not my team thankfully) and it caused so much hurt and upset. It's never seen to be done fairly, no matter how it's approached, and someone always loses out. Please don't feel bad that you have succeeded though, that is a statement of how good you are, not of how bad anyone else is nor how fair life is. So congratulations, but (((hugs))) that it must be so hard for you and your colleague.

Beautiful bumpies from keep and imps.

I can sympathise with your dress situation Imps though I have the opposite problem - I bought two maternity dresses from ebay and when they arrived the front is so much longer than the back that I'm almost tripping over it because I'm a short arse and it will be ages before my bump properly lifts the front by the amount it needs!

Loopy I hope you're doing as well as can be, and that you are being kind to yourself. I really understand the need to just crack on for time reasons. I hope that you're able to feel a little less guilty about using the progesterone too. 'What ifs' are horrible things.

I'm down to just a few clustered vommy days here and there now. I'm going with Imps' theory that it's accompanying a growth spurt as geekling's movements have slowed down the last few days and I've had flipping awful rlp/stretching pains, and woke this morning to a bump the size of an elephant. Ok, maybe that's possibly a slight exaggeration Grin

Imps9 · 13/07/2016 14:01

Confratulations Keep!! Fabulous news Flowers

It's awkward to be around the person who was unsuccessful but hopefully he or she will be okay about it. And obviously your pregnancy is no basis to feel guilty or bad. I bet expectant dads would never feel guilty about being promoted.

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keepitgoing · 13/07/2016 10:27

I got the promotion but feel awful for my colleague, and very awkward esp as I'm off on leave quite soon. Gah

Imps9 · 12/07/2016 14:16

Smashing bump Geek Smile Has your sickness gone away now? I hope that Mr G is doing better now - hopefully he hasn't had to be admitted?

I will definitely end up wearing said dress with leggings underneath Keep otherwise there will be a real risk of my flashing my undercarriage to all and sundry.

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keepitgoing · 12/07/2016 11:34

Nice bump imps how annoying about the dress, and it'll get plenty shorter too!

geek great bump too for 17 weeks! Proper preggers you are. Oh dear hope the insomnia passes soon. I had it for a while and used a relaxation app. For me the more I stressed about it the worse it got, so it was about breaking that cycle

ControlGeek · 12/07/2016 10:20

Meant to add the pic was taken at 17 weeks. Insomnia is taking over my life just now and struggling to string a sentence together!

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