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We are jolly well going to get and stay diffed this month and we are BROOKING NO ARGUMENT.

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Imps9 · 21/04/2016 13:53

Gah didn't realise we'd reached 1000 messages on the old thread!

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keepitgoing · 16/05/2016 08:24

Oh bugger loopy I hope you can find some better tests...

V sad as family dog, my parents', died in the nght

Loopyaboutmy2boys · 16/05/2016 07:34

No improvement on today's test. I'm 13 dpo today. My only hope is that these tests with the weird blue stuff going on are fakes. DH buying some from a real shop today.

Imps9 · 15/05/2016 17:22

Yes I can definitely see that line Loops. Come on line!! Stick around please.

Yes 10 weeks should be as safe as 12 weeks Geek. How's that MS?

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ControlGeek · 15/05/2016 17:16

I can see that line loopy, and I'm brooking so hard for you my lovely. How are you feeling?

Thanks for the reassurance on the 10 weeks/telling front. It will be so much easier when I don't have to hide so much from my team.

Loopyaboutmy2boys · 15/05/2016 16:55

Meant to post earlier but forgot, did another FRER and faint line today, but not as faint as the day before, it just about is visible on a photo today....

We are jolly well going to get and stay diffed this month and we are BROOKING NO ARGUMENT.
Imps9 · 15/05/2016 09:19

I always get stronger lines later in the day than with FMU even when I've been drinking plenty so the wee isn't concentrated. Dunno why - tried to find out why this might be using the power of Google but to no avail.

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Loopyaboutmy2boys · 15/05/2016 08:51

No news yet imps. I have a cough and must have drunk too much overnight as FMU was very pale so not tested yet. Am going to try and hold it in now and test later if it's more concentrated a colour, do you reckon 4-5 hours is enough? I remember you said you didn't use FMU much?

Imps9 · 15/05/2016 07:43

What's the news this morning Loops?

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cartoontrickster · 14/05/2016 15:35

My heart was thumping so hard! It's really scarey isn't it. Was hoping to be a few more days along but Mr s seemed happy with what he saw.
geek I think you are fine to tell a few more people at 10wks. I've always thought that early pregnancy is when you need the most support yet it's kept as a big secret.

loopy not sure about the test Window looking blue but I've never shined a light behind it.

BeedlesPineNeedles · 14/05/2016 14:05

Wonderful news trix :o

geek there's very little difference in the chance of anything going wrong at 10 weeks or 12 weeks. So I'd say its fine to tell them about geekling :o I told a couple of close colleagues around that time. Film was A man called Ove here it's supposed to be a comedy but it was very sad in places

Imps9 · 14/05/2016 13:41

Oh fabulous Trix!!!!!

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keepitgoing · 14/05/2016 13:18

Grin wonderful huge congratulations!!!

ControlGeek · 14/05/2016 12:26

Oh trix squeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!! Oh lovely you must be so relieved GrinGrinGrin

cartoontrickster · 14/05/2016 12:04

Just a quick one. All good we have a heartbeat. 6wks 3days Grin

keepitgoing · 14/05/2016 11:27

Where is trix?? Hope all well

geek telling people and 10 weeks after a scan sounds v reasonable. So pleased you're in new territory and past horrible milestones

ControlGeek · 14/05/2016 10:21

trix wishing you all the good luck that's humanly possible for this morning, I'll be checking back when I can for your news.

loopy that all sounds a bit odd, I can't say I've ever had an frer turn blue, but one word of caution, there are plastic strengthening struts behind the testing window that can also show up as shadow lines if you shine a light behind. Not that I would ever do this, but you're best off waiting for it to dry fully, then take it apart and shine a light behind the test strip Grin I'm brooking like mad that your line is a line.

keeps so sorry about your dream, they can really shake you up. I hope you're ok, and kip keeps you just busy enough but not too knackered this weekend.

beedle I couldn't possibly comment without knowing which film it was Wink I'd say it's totally normal though, sad books can make me feel a bit down for days so I'm sure films can too. Yay for surviving spa day and it not being a secret any more!

imps fab news bout diffed yoga, I'd love to do that but can't find anything local to me. Is that the only exercise you do?

MrG and I have settled on geekling for a nickname. It still feels early, but I felt I had to do something because he kept calling it sproggling and I was on the verge of committing murder. Yesterday we past our final milestone from previous pgs, and we are now in uncharted territory. My bloating is so bad, and my ms is starting to creep into my working day, so I've decided to tell my immediate team members after next Friday's scan. Do you think that is daftly early? About half of them know my IVF history anyway, in fact it will only be brand new news to one person. I'll be a day shy of 10 weeks at that point. Advice please?

In other news (can't remember if I have already mentioned), I have started knitting a baby blanket. It feels very surreal just now, especially when I realised I will need to email my clinic next week and ask them when they want me to stop/taper off the meds eek!

Loopyaboutmy2boys · 14/05/2016 10:12

It's very odd imps. Just like you I've peed on far too many frers and never have they been blue when lit up from behind. Can't find anything from a quick google so really have no idea if Amazon are selling dodgy ones or whether first response have altered them. It looks completely normal unless you shine a light from behind. Now don't know if I can trust the rest I bought from there!

Imps9 · 14/05/2016 08:21

Sounds a bit odd Loops but having a line is a great start even if it is a squinter.

Nasty dream Keep. Hope you're okay.

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keepitgoing · 14/05/2016 08:15

11dpo is very early I've never tested then (when I've been pg) so wouldn't know but you're in the game! Brooking for you

beedle I did some preggo yoga in Thailand but was fairly early and so a bit easy

Nope never did active or hypnobirthing and no time these days (plus am expecting another sneeze birth anyway) but have heard great things

Had horrible dreams of vv prem birth last night :(

BeedlesPineNeedles · 14/05/2016 07:59

But faint isn't a bad sign at only 11dpo is it loopy? I can't say I've ever tried shining a light behind a test so I have no idea!

I'll think some more about the yoga imps

Loopyaboutmy2boys · 14/05/2016 07:38

So a very very faint squinter on FRER today, way too faint for a photo. Will try again tomorrow. Not sure if Amazon has sent me real tests. Has anyone had this happen-if I shine a light behind the window (which usually helps if the line is faint) the window turns blue!! Bright blue?!!

cartoontrickster · 14/05/2016 07:32

Morning ladies thanks for the well wishes we will be leaving in around an hour. N is staying home with nanna and pops thank God!
loopy brooking for your peestick this morning.
For some reason I was struggling to get on mn and kept losing posts the last couple of days, Grrrr.

Imps9 · 14/05/2016 07:01

Yes Beedles 'tis entirely normal.

Maybe it's worth doing the June one to see if you like it. And the stretches are really easy so you could learn them in June and do them at home by yourself during July and Aug.

Where is your peestick photo Loops?

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BeedlesPineNeedles · 14/05/2016 06:38

Morning, I was worried you'd all disappeared in a freak friday the 13th accident!

loopy have you peed yet?

trix lots of luck for your scan

keep I hope kip isn't too tiring this weekend. Yes, its not a secret but I'm obviously not that gossip-worthy as hardly anyone knows.

imps I've had a little look for diffed yoga but it seems everything stops for July AND August, which means I could do a short course in June or a longer one that goes to a couple of weeks before I'm due. So I'm not sure.

We watched a sad film last night and I cried loads, I'm still feeling sad this morning, this is normal isn't it?

Imps9 · 14/05/2016 05:51

Morning everyone!

Trix SO much good luck and Brooking vibes being sent your way for the scan this morning. Will check in asap to see your news.

And you too Loops. Can't believe your willpower! Well done. Hoping to see a nice chunky second line pronto.

Beedles hope you had a lovely relaxing time at your work jolly conference. Am glad you're telling colleagues - it's bloody strange telling folk isn't it? But also nice at the same time.

Geek any more scans this weekend?? Love the pic - what a lovely little Geeklet you have in there.

Bon courage with Mr Keep being away this weekend Keep. Hope you have lots of energy and aren't feeling too knackered.

All good here. Started Diffed Yoga on Thurs - it was extremely gentle but I enjoyed it. The teacher also runs active birth workshops which I think I'll look into. Did anyone else do those?

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