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We are jolly well going to get and stay diffed this month and we are BROOKING NO ARGUMENT.

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Imps9 · 21/04/2016 13:53

Gah didn't realise we'd reached 1000 messages on the old thread!

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Imps9 · 08/06/2016 08:02

Thanks Beedles and Geek. I slept horribly - my mind decided that it was a good night for dredging through absolutely everything I could worry about and spend at least 20 minutes stressing about each thing - including the fact the our neighbours cut down their gorgeous apple tree yesterday meaning there'll be fewer flowers for bees get pollen and nectar next Spring Confused It's just worry about the scan, but come on brain, get a grip.

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ControlGeek · 08/06/2016 07:46

Thinking of you this morning imps, looking forward to hearing lots of lovely news from you later - with photos!!! Grin

beedle sorry about the dreams, it's odd the bizarre things our minds get up to when we give them free rein. I've only had one like that so far, I dreamed I gave birth prematurely to a girl and we called her Lucretia FGS!!!

BeedlesPineNeedles · 08/06/2016 06:21

imps good luck with the scan today

Another dream about the baby last night, it was definitely a boy this time but his Twin was still inside me and I was at the 20 week scan to check it was ok Hmm And again my poor baby had no clothes, only a nappy. I Think my subconcious mind is trying to tell me to start buying stuff for the baby :o

keepitgoing · 07/06/2016 21:40

That's right geek enjoy it, you deserve it! Have you told all your families? What about dh's kids? I hope they are suitably excited

I think I look obviously pregnant now! Though no one gave me a seat on the bus today

beedle with kip I ummed and ah'd about what it was for weeks until dh could feel it too at 20wks! It's hard to know what it is. I thought it was feeling my heart beat every now and then. But I honestly have no idea how some women get through the whole of pregnancy without realising, the kicks get pretty bloody obvious!

ControlGeek · 07/06/2016 18:47

Alcohol-free beer is pants imps! The best I tried was Estrella Blue, all the others were too malty.

MrG bought a good alc-free red and white wine a couple of months ago - I haven't drunk alcohol in a couple of years, but they tasted like real wine when I had a glass. I can't remember what brand it was, I think it was something German?

beedle, imps' kicks started out feeling like wind then went quiet for a little while, I am sure you'll be feeling things again very soon!

My work's grapevine is starting to do its job now, though I did get to tell three people myself today which felt nice. One of them was someone who has known about some of my previous losses so really appreciated my history. I'm doing my best to get excited now - it will be the only time I get this experience, so I want to enjoy the next 28 weeks and not look back and feel I wasted them worrying.

BeedlesPineNeedles · 07/06/2016 17:33

Fab news geek so pleased Flowers

I haven't really felt anything obvious, it probably was just wind the other day!

Imps9 · 07/06/2016 15:32

Oh Geek how lovely!! Well done Geekling! And measuring just one day ahead now - he or she seems to be back on track.

Oooh non-alcoholic white wine - now there's something to consider. I had a sip of Mr Imps' pint on Sunday and it tasted divine. Would happily have finished the whole thing. Alcohol free beer just doesn't cut it for me.

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keepitgoing · 07/06/2016 15:25

Oh geek that's wonderful!!!! Congratulations!!! Will you be telling people now?
Hope you celebrate tonight!

Someone brought me a bottle of non alc wine to our BBQ on Sunday. I had been really wanting a glass of cold white. It wasn't too bad...

keepitgoing · 07/06/2016 15:23

I'm the same imps wish I had a vocation. Tbh I am not using my talents/at the moment, it's a bit depressing, but not too long till m/l and I'll sort it out later

1030 is good, not too long to wait

My next mw appt is at 25wks, would be at 24 but I'm away... Seeing consultant at 28 (when I also get anti D) but I'm assuming if anything terrible shows on my heart trace they would be in touch before then... Am hoping that'll be my last appt at the hospital, the waits are dreadful!

Have you felt any more kicks beedle? :)

ControlGeek · 07/06/2016 15:20

Scan pic!

We are jolly well going to get and stay diffed this month and we are BROOKING NO ARGUMENT.
ControlGeek · 07/06/2016 15:20

Good luck for tomorrow Imps, and for your scan next week Beedle. It's perfectly normal to worry before the scan Imps but all will be well, you're doing great my lovely.

I've pretty much switched off from caring about work too, though part of that might be that my job has changed so much from when it was fun and I enjoyed it. Everything seems so insignificant and unimportant now!

trix not long now lovely, you'll soon be off those pesky pills. I took my last pill/injection/bum bullet last Friday. It feels good, but weird, like I've forgotten to do something each day. When's your next scan booked for?

Bah to the wanky client, five times in twelve minutes?! Honestly!

It was my 12 week scan today keep and all is well - though Geekling is proving an uncooperative little bugger and I was made to prance up and down stairs like an extra out of Fantasia. S/he also had a really bad case of hiccups for the entire duration of the scan, which made us both laugh lots. NT scan measurements were fine (2.0 from memory) and CRL from what they could measure (did I say s/he was being uncooperative?) was a day ahead of my IVF dates.

Imps9 · 07/06/2016 13:54

In a rare display of openness, I've been talking to some colleagues about how worried I am about tomorrow's scan and they've actually been really comforting. It's not like me to talk about B-B or personal stuff at work but I'm glad I have today as it's been nice to get it off my chest.

When's your next MW appt Keep? And are you meeting with the consultant or will that only happen if there's something in your heart results that need looking at?

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Imps9 · 07/06/2016 11:21

It's at 10.30am tomorrow. We won't find out the sex, unless it's by accident!

Yes, work stuff is a worry. I would like to re-train but have no idea as what. I've been like this for years though - I just need to blimin' well do something about it.

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Imps9 · 07/06/2016 09:00

My mind is telling me that something is definitely going to be wrong - I just can't override that thought at the moment. Luckily I only really have this anxiety in the run-up to scans, I'm quite calm and relaxed about it all the rest of the time.

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keepitgoing · 07/06/2016 08:52

I feel the same imps but in fact it's worse post m/l because I don't want to do any job where the hours are bad, so it limits my options a lot

Ooh scan day tomorrow. Good luck! It's scary but a long vely long scan. Are you going to find out the sex? What time is it?

trix coming off the drugs will be fab I hope you start to feel better then

geek is it your official 12 week scan soon?...

loopy hope you had a lovely half term with your boys.

BeedlesPineNeedles · 07/06/2016 07:49

Mine's wednesday next week, so not too much longer to wait. I'm brooking that Everything is fine with B-B tomorrow. I'm not really anxious yet, but obviously still half expecting that something will be wrong

Imps9 · 07/06/2016 07:01

Scan is tomorrow Beedles. Feeling really quite anxious about it. Glad the waiting for it is over soon though. What day is yours next week?

Glad you had a nice long weekend. I did too (was off work on Friday) and had enough energy to do loads which was nice.

10 weeks already Trix! I hope you get your normal appetite back soon. I am so pleased that mine came back and that I enjoy, and can keep down, healthy food again. Plus the odd ice cream and cake of course.

Luckily wanky clients like the one yesterday are few and far between. God I am so disinterested in work now though. I don't enjoy my career at the best of times but at the moment I actually resent it. I absolutely love where I work, it's just the work that I hate. I'm hoping that I will have some sort of epiphany on mat leave which will tell me exactly what I want to do for the rest of my life.

Loops how are you getting on? And Belle and Minty if you're lurking? Let us know how you are.

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BeedlesPineNeedles · 07/06/2016 06:39

I'm nicely relaxed after a long weekend :o

I dreamt about the baby last night, I'm not sure if it was a boy or a girl, but I was worried that I hadn't bought it anything. And my boss was trying to get me to come back to work a week after giving birth!

trix we had a mini-heatwave last week, nice but my journeys home were really warm and sweaty.

imps is it your scan on Friday?

cartoontrickster · 06/06/2016 20:14

Urgh I hate people like that imps wouldnt work be nicer without them!
It was stifling in my office today, it's a small place so opening the front door and putting a couple of fans on is the extent of our 'air conditioning'
I'm 10wks now which means I can start weaning off the pred in 2wks I cannot wait! I really hope my appetite quickly returns to normal I've never been so hungry and I'm sure it wasn't this bad when I was on the pres previously.
loopy how are you? Feeling more positive I hope.

Imps9 · 06/06/2016 17:44

Grrrr had 5 missed calls from a client on my phone from the last 12 minutes - then a snotty voicemail with the last call saying "I've tried to contact you at least 5 times today and am disappointed you haven't got back to me". Wtf? I was away from my phone for 12 minutes! Haven't had any other contact from him today. Idiot.

Sorry, just had to share. How are we all today?

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keepitgoing · 05/06/2016 12:05

Yeah course it is imps, depends which part he's kicking how much you'll feel it. I've read you should only start monitoring kicks from 25+ weeks

Imps9 · 05/06/2016 09:14

Every day's an education Geek! Not liking the sound of leaking vom bags though Shock

Hope you're having nice weekends. Having spent 2 solid days gardening, I have Gardener's Thigh this morning - my muscles are so stiff it's unbelievable!

Sick again this morning but am feeling lots of stretching so my theory about vomming accompanying a Barry-Baxter growth spurt has not yet been disproven.

Feeling more movements Beedles? I didn't really feel many yesterday - is it normal for the strength/frequency to come and go so much in the early days?

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ControlGeek · 03/06/2016 15:28

beedle how did I miss you're getting kicks?! Oh yay lovely, amazing milestone :)

ControlGeek · 03/06/2016 15:10

Yay for an 8am lie in imps!

I'm so jealous of all your casual dress codes, my office insists on formal office attire so ebay is currently my friend. Luckily I can still get away with some of my pre-pg work jackets though my norks have outgrown at least two

keep sorry your appointment was a waste of time, I hope your results come back all clear.

I have learned three things today:

1 - Sea bands don't work, despite their extortionate price.

2 - Sick bags can leak.

3 - Midwives don't always want your wee.

I think it was number 3 that shocked me most Grin

keepitgoing · 03/06/2016 12:16

Ooh jealous of 8am wake up imps! Enjoy your day off in the sunshine

Ooh beedle they will be teeny kicks, how lovely

Well unsurprisingly my appointment was a waste of time as the ECG wasn't back. I'll see them again at 28 weeks for my anti d anyway. If there's a problem when it is reported I guess they'll ring. Grr