Ttc after stopping the pill thread 3. Join us for: Super long cycles, living in limbo, obscene amounts of poas and trying anything and everything to get that bun in the oven!

Oh my gosh Pion, I'm so sorry. What a shock! Such an awful thing to happen! Take care xx

Johno I know how that is, my oh works in a pub so does crazy shifts too so makes it difficult. I find mornings are best though... even if he got home in the middle of the night he doesn't object to a morning dtd before I go to work and he goes back to sleep lol. Men.

Poin I am so sorry for you. I know it probably doesn't mean anything, especially coming from strangers, but we all know how stressful and anxious this ttc can be so having that happen must be heartbreaking but anyone who treats you like that isn't worth you. I hope you're OK.

Holy shit Poin. I am really really sorry to hear your awful news. I have literally been exactly there. Sending you hugs via the Internet and hope that man never relocates his balls!!!

Hi BoBo, unfortunately you can remove me from the list rather than continue to let you add it!
He split up with me via whatsapp at 2am Sunday morning whilst i was asleep next to him and is wanting to buy me out of the house so I will not be TTC.. well with anyone now. 😢😢 lost, totally broken, and terribly upset.
Good luck to you all and thanks for your support over the past three threads. Take care.xx

Hey jj. Well he's a chef so we only actually go to bed at the same time about 2 or 3 times a week. Then I'm up before him or vice versa, and he often finishes late and I'm asleep when he gets in. I was really relaxed last cycle (and still trying to be) but I basically explained the actual stats of it and he was like "oh right, yeh that's quite a low percentage chance".... Was like a lightbulb moment.

I just can't help but think if we just "see what happens" with his shifts we could end up eternally ttc! Good news is my cycles have finally sorted heir act out. Pretty sure I'm gonna ov about the same time as last cycle which means about a 31 cycle again. It's getting to that point now that when I ever get my BFP I'm gonna be in total shock!

Thanks for the updated list bobo, it's getting difficult to keep up with everyone there are so many! You're right, it must happen for someone (or two!) Soon!

Haha go johno! How does he feel about it, is he ok about doing it like that? I've been worried about putting too much pressure on my oh about dtd at the right time but at the same time I know he's impatient too, he was trying to persuade me a year ago!

Hey bobo I'm crossing everything for you Hun! Day 17 just waiting for my solid smiley and ov here. Have basically told DH that we are dtd every day this week. I'm getting impatient and we need to bring our A game. He can sleep next week

Sorry to hear about the bfn Bobo! Keep testing though hun, I really did think I saw a little something on one of those tests! Pesky, when I went to the doctors in March I told a little white lie and said I'd been ttc longer than I had. It won't do any harm to slightly exaggerate the truth! Xx

bobo are you going to keep testing daily?

pesky it's worth a try but honestly all our cycles seem to be all over the place after stopping the pill so I really do think it can take several months to get back in your own rhythm unfortunately:( fx for you. I have no idea what my cycle is doing at the moment and it's so frustrating. It's crazy how it can be so consuming when it's one of the hardest things to predict and control! Literally as soon as I started trying it's all I can think about!

Precisely. Besides...2 and a half months and 6 months are really easy to mix up. I've never been good with numbers anyway. ;)

That's a good plan BoBo. You are a bit evil...I like it! :)

My GP is a really nice woman actually, so that must be worth a shot. Do you think it would also be really sneaky to say I've been ttc for 6 months? I wouldn't if I was younger, but the age thing is worrying me to death!

Sorry to hear that BoBo. Next time though eh? positive thought vibes

That's what I suspect GP will say as well. It's really worrying me though. I can't afford the MOT at all really...I might become a highwayman to scrape it together! :)

Here's hoping both our cycles sort themselves out soon Anna! :)

Oh and good luck Bobo. Really hope you get your BFP soon!

Feeling such period confusion today. Period Confusion would be an excellent name for a band though!

Came off mini pill on 12th April. I'd had no periods while on (three years)

Had a three day bleed on 2nd of May, then a two day bleed on 30th of May. I had another bleed yesterday, but it looks like it's going already, so that's only one day.

I'm really worried that there is something wrong. Should I go to my GP? I'm even thinking of going for a private fertility MOT . I'm 37 and never been pregnant. Time is not on my side. :(

Ahh Bobo I can defnintely see something on the 2nd FRER! It has colour!! Test again when you get home! Exciting!! Eeeek!!

Positive OPK last night and this morning for me. The dreaded tww (or should I say one week wait going by my luteal phase?!) begins! Xx

I honestly promise I type too fast and that in fact I am not drunk judging by my typos

Hi Bobo,
Don't mean to get your hopes up but I've seen bfps still come from this sort of this after what people thought was an evap line, fx for you and let us know how it goes, how exciting!

*mishy glad your temps are making more sense, how have they been over last couple of days?
marmite and claire hope you ladies has a fantastic time on your jollys.
Hope everyone else is ok too.

Welcome all the newbies
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