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May BFP Bus

718 replies

Kellz92 · 08/04/2016 16:18

Thought I would start a thread for the May BFP bus...

Name: Kellz
Age: 23
Cycle: 10
ETD: 2nd May

Good luck ladies

xx

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GiraffesCantDoMentalArithmetic · 14/04/2016 20:19

ISW Grin not heard that one befo either, but it is quite descriptive!!! When I do exam marking it stands for "ignore subsequent working" but from now on it will give me a good giggle.

I am binging on pate and alcohol while I can, during what is turning out to be the period from hell.

Feeling a bit depressed to be starting cycle 4 - this is the longest it's ever taken me to get pregnant, and we tried sooooooo haaaaaaard last month.

SunnyDays1987 · 14/04/2016 17:46

Hahahaha insane sex week! Never heard that before!!

Ivoryshoes · 14/04/2016 14:24

It's insane sex week hanflan. It's the part of Ttc my DH loves.

LillyBugg · 14/04/2016 13:02

My etd is 5th May for the list.

I work in HR and three people have told me they are pregnant this week. Three!! I'm in the wrong job.

hanflan · 14/04/2016 10:14

ivory what does ISW stand for again? I am so bad with all these abbreviations haha!
Symptom spotting is awful but inevitable. Last time round I had all sorts of symptoms and twinges, then the month I actually got my bfp I didn't have any symptoms at all! So little, that I actually went out and got quite drunk. Oops....

Ivoryshoes · 14/04/2016 10:02

Great list hanflan.

I'm gearing up for ISW. Trying to feel hopeful. Promising myself this month there will be no symptom spotting. Last month I had every symptom going, but no bfp.

Fingers crossed for lots of bfps this month.

hanflan · 14/04/2016 09:39

MAY BUS:

Kellz92 Cycle 10 etd 2nd May
Nimisha Cycle 1 etd 2nd May
Ivoryshoes Cycle 3 etd 4th May
Rarotonga Cycle 2 etd 5th May
TryingToWait Cycle 4 etd 6-18 May
Dutchy88 Cycle 2 etd 7th May
Everdene Cycle 1 etd 11th May
GiraffesCantDoMentalArithmetic Cycle 4 etd 15th May
hanflan Cycle 1 etd 25th May
GinandJazzHands Cycle 4 etd ?
broodypsycho Cycle 11 etd ?
Lillybugg Cycle 5 etd ?
SunnyDays1987 Cycle 1 etd?
ProseccoKiss Cycle 1 etd ?

BFPs:
None.... yet!

hanflan · 14/04/2016 09:36

Giraffes - Hi! Sorry to have to see you here, but fingers crossed May is the month!
Welcome Prosecco, and you too Rarotonga. Of course there is room, the more the merrier Grin

Rarotonga · 13/04/2016 23:06

Name: Rarotonga
Age: 34
TTC: #1
Cycle: 2
ETD: 5th May

Hope there's room for me!

everdene · 13/04/2016 22:54

Argh it's all seeming real now!!!

Is etd estimated test date? If so, mine will be May 11th crosses fingers*

Nimisha · 13/04/2016 21:06

My two are great sleepers now. I think is going to be a very big shock when there is a tiny baby around again. My youngest is 5 in a few weeks. I never planned such a big gap but I didn't feel ready until now.

My first was a terrible sleeper for the first six months then not too bad but needed some encouragement to sleep until seven with a gro clock. My second was not to bad in the early days but was still waking at night until he was three, but thankfully sleeps well now.

ProseccoKiss · 13/04/2016 21:06

Can I join pls!?

Name: Prosecco
Age: 26
TTC: #1
Cycle: 1

Good luck all!! xx

GiraffesCantDoMentalArithmetic · 13/04/2016 20:22

MAY BUS:

Kellz92 Cycle 10 etd 2nd May
Nimisha Cycle 1 etd 2nd May
Ivoryshoes Cycle 3 etd 4th May
TryingToWait Cycle 4 etd 6-18 May
Dutchy88 Cycle 2 etd 7th May
GiraffesCantDoMentalArithmetic Cycle 4 etd 15th May
hanflan Cycle 1 etd 25th May
GinandJazzHands Cycle 4 etd ?
Everdene Cycle 1 etd ?
broodypsycho Cycle 11 etd ?
Lillybugg Cycle 5 etd ?
SunnyDays1987 Cycle 1 etd?

BFPs:
None.... yet!

GiraffesCantDoMentalArithmetic · 13/04/2016 20:20

AF arrived.

I'll sit at the back and sulk for a few days.

Giraffes
TTC #3
Cycle #4
ETD 15/05/16

SunnyDays1987 · 13/04/2016 16:47

Wow, that's really not good, you must be knackered?! Do you know what's wrong with her when she wakes up? You are definitely owed a fantastic sleeper this time!

hanflan · 13/04/2016 16:26

Like 5 or 6 screaming wakeups a night! And many many many 5am starts

SunnyDays1987 · 13/04/2016 16:23

How awful are we talking?! Haha yeah just stay up all night then, who needs sleep anyways.....!!

hanflan · 13/04/2016 16:14

Haha sleep is still awful here. Like really really shit. So might as well have another baby and they can tag team all night, right?!

SunnyDays1987 · 13/04/2016 16:10

Yeah I think that's kind of where we are at too hanflan! For a long time I tried to convince myself that I didn't want another but deep down I think I always knew, I was just very scared at the prospect of having to do it all again! But I think I would have always regretted it if we'd not tried. DS is now pretty reliably sleeping through the night so the sleepless nights are going to be a killer. But we are still in the zone of babies and night wakings and all that. I slept terribly all pregnancy last time too so I'm hoping this time is much better or the sleeplessness might be starting all too soon for me!

Good work on the stats. I'll add my etd once this AF has arrived!

hanflan · 13/04/2016 15:34

If anyone wants to change/add/edit feel free. Or if I have missed anyone I am very sorry!

hanflan · 13/04/2016 15:27

Bored, so thought I would do a stats list for everyone so far, then we can keep adding to it as everyone joins!

MAY BUS:

Kellz92 Cycle 10 etd 2nd May
Nimisha Cycle 1 etd 2nd May
Ivoryshoes Cycle 3 etd 4th May
TryingToWait Cycle 4 etd 6-18 May
Dutchy88 Cycle 2 etd 7th May
hanflan Cycle 1 etd 25th May
GinandJazzHands Cycle 4 etd ?
Everdene Cycle 1 etd ?
broodypsycho Cycle 11 etd ?
Lillybugg Cycle 5 etd ?
SunnyDays1987 Cycle 1 etd?

BFPs:
None.... yet!

hanflan · 13/04/2016 13:52

Basically, very much a "f*ck it let's just go for it" thing. I don't think I'll ever feel 100% ready so why wait? haha

hanflan · 13/04/2016 13:50

sunny basically much thinking and discussion with DP. The thought of not having another is far more unbearable than the thought of having another and it being as much of a struggle as it has been this time round. Basically as hard as I've found things (even through the "I'm never ever ever having another one" bits) it's all just totally worth it and I'm broody as hell! Really want a little brother or sister for DD and sort of thinking why don't we just go for it and get it all out of the way while it's still hard?! I don't want DD to start sleeping through and I'll get used to it, then it will all be a shock again when the sleepless nights hit again!

SunnyDays1987 · 13/04/2016 13:44

Ah right makes sense hanflan, at least if it's elective then it should eradicate a lot of the stress like last time? How come you decided you are ready now? Remember seeing a post from you a few weeks or so ago saying you didn't know if you could face it?!

Lucky you kellz!!!! It must make life so much easier if you're actually getting some sleep at the start? How old is your DD? Yeah I think once we've started I'd find it hard to stop as well. Fingers crossed it happens soon for you!

Kellz92 · 13/04/2016 12:25

sunny Normally DD is good but just getting back to routine after being ill! Shes almost totally better now thank you!
DD was one of those miracles she slept all night from 6 weeks, only having broken sleep when teething etc! i was VERY lucky and i know it wont happen twice lol

everdene I didnt know that either! but worth a try :)

Han Im sure i read ewcm dries up just before ov :)
I also didnt really want an xmas baby as i spent most of last pregnancy in hospital so scared id have same complications. But also didnt want a jan baby as DD is 31st jan lol, but dont want to stop trying a few months, chances are i wont fall pregnant anyway but think its been so long now i wouldnt mind!

xxx

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