May BFP Bus

Hi everyone,

Please can I join this thread?
Age 30
Ttc #2
Cycle 1

Am 51 days into cycle, and have had brown very light spotting for 5 days. If I don't get a BFP by Friday I will presume it was a very light pathetic looking period! And start again!

Hi, my first time here

Age: 25
Ttc #1
Cycle 1

9dpo had some symptoms but could be imagining them as I know how easy it is to see things when you really want to, I also had some very light spotting, just pink when I wiped with a tissue, 3 days ago and again a tiny bit today, which could be implantation bleeding? Ive also had slight cramping and twinges this evening. Af due on 14th feels like an age away!! I caved and did a test today, bfn, wish I had a least waited till the morning.

Bah humbug to af! Wishing all those trying again for June the best luck x

About to enter fw and the hubby is on lates...waaah! Fingers crossed we won't miss the boat...planning to squeeze in some action towards the latter part of the week!

I'm not due to test for another week but am not in with much of a chance this month anyway. No symptoms at all so far (unlike last month when I also wasn't pregnant)

Sorry to everyone who AF got, think I'll be next hope there are some BFPs soon x

Thanks all.

I don't feel as sad as I thought I might, which is good. I am going to be away during Ov time with my parents so I don't know how that will go down, my DH isn't the type to Dtd with my parents in the next room!

Sorry everdene and chuck... Fingers crossed June will be your month!!!

I have no idea when to test! It's cd18... No idea if I have ovulated or maybe I will ovulate late this month. Thinking I'll test two weeks today whatever happens!

Sorry AF arrived everdene and Chuckading fingers crossed for next cycle for you both. Anyone due to test soon? I should be entering the TWW in the next few days but I'm going to keep DTD for longer in case the medication I took a few weeks ago has messed my cycle up! It's only the first cycle TTC so DTD hasn't felt like too much of a chore yet!

Gahhhh AF arrived!

June bus for me I think, but I'll stick around for a bit.

Thank you everdene! Yep I did first response for the first couple tests!
Anyway, AF arrived today, 12 days late! but according to my app I should be in with another chance this month as I'm supposed to be ovulating on the 20th, that's assuming I go back to normal cycle and not random number of days!!

Hang in there, Pissed. Fx for you for weds!

I'm due to test on Wednesday its bloody killing me. I'm bone achingly tired, I cannot smoke without heaving which is s good thing either way and my boobs are comical but I've lost all faith in my body tbh

I hate the tww. I think I'm 2dpo but can't be exactly sure. Just remaining chilled as I can't really believe that I'll ever be pregnant, so steeling myself for AF at the end of next week.

giraffe I'm the same... So annoyed. It's cd17 for me. Pretty much no cm now and haven't had a positive OPK once even though I've been testing like mad! I think my cervix is open and soft so maybe I'll keep dtd just in case! Think this month is a write off for me.

Ah Lucy and everdene, the waiting is awful! The not knowing can send you crazy.

Giraffes sorry you're having such a crap time.

I'm cracking open the opks tomorrow. Can't believe I'm back doing this all again.

I cried because I spilt fruit salad down myself and because my roast potatoes went cold!! Ate more of said fruit salad and had a sleep and now feel much better!! Glad OH is helpful too as othwerwise I think he would leave me for being a total nutter!!

We can cry/symptom spot/ be nutters together!!

Grr that must be so frustrating Giraffes!

Ha I totally hear you Lucy!

Things that have made me cry this week:

• The thought of the lyrics to The Pina Colada Song (Escape)
• That local councillor who thought he'd lost in his constituency elections by 70 votes but it was a miscount and he'd actually won by 70
• There's No One Quite Like Grandma, which was on The Desert Island Discs podcast

In short, I'm an emotional wreck! I have done some gardening which has really helped take my mind off the worrying. I really want to enjoy this time otherwise I'll just worry all the way through any future pregnancy.

My MIL is crippled by her anxiety and I don't want to be like that. She was in tears practically the whole way through SIL's pregnancy because of worrying. So I am going to try to just relax and make sure I'm enjoying the day-to-day properly.

Well I am totally pissed off with this cycle. I haven't a bloody clue if/when I ovulated, so I can't even obsess over symptom spotting or POAS.

I am literally having a meltdown so know how you feel everdene!! Just had a full on cry because I can't cope with the amount of unknowns and the ridiculous amount of waiting!! Feel like I'm wishing my life away and it's only been about 4 weeks!!

Anyway OH was very sympathetic and managed to stop me hyperventilating over the whole situation- and I'm only 7/8/9dpo!!

Hope you get your BFP this week!!

I tested yesterday and had a BFN on a cheapy - feel so tempted to get some first responses but I know I'll be disappointed if it's negative, and also a tenner more skint!

My DH was like 'I thought you had loads of pregnancy tests?' When I tried to explain that I wanted to buy a First Response! Looking at the Fertility Friend app stats, 65% of people have had their BFP by 12dpo so I am going to wait until tomorrow to test, by which stage I'm be 14dpo. If it's still negative and no AF I'll get an FRER to try mid-week.

I am so trying to chill out with this process but the limbo of the tww is hard, isn't it?!

Ooh hope you get your BFP today Everdene if you're testing?! Definitely need to see some more BFPs!