Starting 2 Week Wait

Oh Fran, just catching up. You've nothing to apologise for. What an awful experience. I hope you get some answers. Be thinking of you x

Hi... Just got back. Dr was v good. Did another pg test. Which was bfn. Had a feel of my tummy and my right side was a bit tender so she did an internal. That was a grim experience when bleeding, even if it's light. She's almost certain it's a very early MC, and to be honest that's what it feels like. She wants me to go for a bloody test and go to EPU to see if they can pick anything up on a scan.

Thank you so much for the support guys. I'm sorry I've hijacked the thread with this.

Fran, I'm sorry to hear you're having to visit the gp. Fx for you.

Thank you Raro. How are you? Haven't seen you for a few days. X

Sorry to hear that Fran, hope you get some answers from your GP tomorrow. Will be thinking of you.

Thanks guy... things have moved on a bit since this morning... I called the out of hours GP this afternoon because I'm cramping worse than I ever have (except for when I had the MC) but spotting rather than a proper AF. She suspects a chemical or it might have something to do with that test I had on Thursday. I told her about that faint second lines on Monday and Tuesday and the symptoms I've had during the TWW. She doesn't think it's AF so I'm going to see my GP tomorrow to get check out. I have felt so unwell today.

God, all I've done is moan since Thursday. I'm sorry.

Hugs Fran x

And speaking of AF... She's arrived.

The way I see it is I have two lovely DCs and one more would have been a blessing. My biological clock has probably caught up with me and I left it too late. Luckily I had my DC when I was younger, if I'd been in this postion without them it would have been awful. I'm lucky to have them and I'm grateful to be a mum. :0)

I can't imagine how disheartening that must've been. Seeing the BFNs wasn't easy for me but I haven't been in your shoes x

Oh I see. Well you know that without any health issue that could obviously impact on your pregnancy you risk is no higher than anyone else of your age. Maybe ask for a different Dr for further visits?

I was thinking about the age thing... I'm no spring chicken and have accepted that my chances are through the roof of having another MC even if I am pregnant so I'm not going to try again after this cycle. It's one of the reasons I was so fed up with the BFN.

I don't think it we was in relation to me. She just didn't choose her words very wisely!

I thought I had but it went public... It's fine it was nothing I hadn't said publicly anyway.

Why was your GP so negative about your chance of MC? That's terrible! I'm not surprised you're stressed. Big hugs... I can totally empathise. X

Not to worry, I can empathise with you, but don't think it was personal. It's so easy to get caught up in your symptoms and forget about what others are experiencing. You PMd me? I haven't seen anything

I'm anxious so trying to focus on the positives. My GP was rotten and mentioned the high possibility of miscarriage. Why I don't know. We go from one fear to another on this journey x

Thanks Little... It wasn't directed at you, I promise. The BFN was a real let down but as AF is now late (according to my period tracker which is bang on every month) so there's still hope. I said that because there was a few people who completely ignored two posts about my BNF and it came across as insensitive given that I'd congratulated the BPFs and supported the BFNs. Sadly I probably killed the thread if Lightcola is anything to go by, which is why I DMed you instead. :0/

How are you feeling? Is bean settling in nicely? X

Thought I'd hop online and see how everyone's getting on. First chance I've had to catch up in a couple of days! Sorry about the BFN Fran, I genuinely am. Inbox is busy enough with work emails so I don't have notifications turned on! Still time for AF to do one so you get your BFP. A friend had BFNs until day 16. Good luck to everyone else too x

I think it's a poor attitude to accept congratulation from the people waiting to find out and not acknowledge them when they've tested and it hasn't worked out for them. Blame me all you want but that's what you did.

Wow. Well that's just ruined this for me. I'm out! Great talking with you ladies, but life's too short to get involved with attitudes like that.

Best of luck with all the upcoming tests everybody and for frequent bowel movements.

So did I! And I'm not being bitchy, I'm making an observation. We all come here for support. It just surprises me that of the 8 or 9 people who has posted on this thread only one person has responded in 24 hours. It's a poor show really. I have been happy for the bfpers and cyber hugged the Bfners and I'm a bit miffed that it's not been reciprocated. I think that's fair enough and doesn't make me a bitch!

Fran I don't feel there was any need to be like that? I genuinely didn't see your post.
Sorry about your bfn, and sorry that I asked a question. Thought this was for support not bitchyness!

Thanks for the support re MY bfn guys!!!!! Only one person acknowledges it while the rest talk about constipation at 6dpo.