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Back to SQUARE ONE CD1! Anyone want to spend April with me?!

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Tee4me · 30/03/2016 16:59

So AF got me this afternoon!! Trying not to get down in the dumps (although I just watched 'one born every minute' on catch-up and sobbed!)
Dusting myself off and hoping for better luck in April! A few stats:
Age-33
TTC-5th cycle
DC-1 DS (3.5 years old)
Anyone else at the start of their cycle and trying something new in the hope of a more successful month?!

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january29 · 25/04/2016 13:53

Trying to think positive! Just need AF to arrive so I can get started with a new month, fingers crossed she arrives on Wednesday when she is expected. Still a little part of me hopes she doesn't and I get a BFP but I know that is not the case this time.

newhairdontcare · 25/04/2016 12:29

Sorry for dropping off the thread this weekend. I don’t seem to have had a minute to myself.

So sorry to hear your news Radders, you must be emotionally exhausted with it all.

Hi and welcome Summer, I live in your neck of the woods.
Congratulations Parney, have you calculated your DD?

Nothing exciting to report this end. DH and I went out for dinner last night and I came home super bloated. My tummy's back to normal now thank goodness. DS has been asking for a baby sister all weekend. Obviously a massive coincidence but still a bit strange...we have been really careful not to talk about it near him so it must just be a fluke.

Waves to anyone I have missed and good luck to all of you entering your fertile phase.

Tee4me · 25/04/2016 10:39

Hmm I'm surprised by that Nimisha. Everything I've read is that 1 off temp anomalies are negligible. I expect if your temp goes back up tomorrow, ff will go back to saying you ovulated? You should have 3 temps drops/hikes in a row for it to be anything significant, unless around the time of implantation when a one off drop could indicate that... how many DPO did you think you were? I would expect ff to suggest that though if you were in implantation territory?

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Nimisha · 25/04/2016 10:14

My temp dropped today too, so much that fertility friend didn't think I ovulated after all Confused

Tee4me · 25/04/2016 10:10

Whoops, fertile days from 2nd, ovulation expected 6th (CD13) xx

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Tee4me · 25/04/2016 09:17

Haha SuchaJem! I'm with you there. No more bloody symptom spotting this month, drives me bonkers. The only thing I'll get excited about is if my skin goes very hot as that was such a clear symptom with DS. Won't dare get carried away with anything else!
Dates seem better when you break it all down. We've got a long weekend away on Friday, then my fertile days should be from 4th May, then ov around the 9th, then back into 2ww... not so bad when you think of it like that Smile xx

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Mimilicious013 · 25/04/2016 09:00

Positive thinking sucha otherwise the month will drag by slowly .it is more exciting to think of what will be rather than what won't be hun. It motivates you to put more effort and try out new tricksGrin.

SuchaJem · 25/04/2016 08:54

tee my cycles are between 28-30 days. I use pink pad to record dates and notes, which is quite useful to look back on all the symptoms I've had this year which have made me think I'm pregnant. Now I can check them off and say - nope that happened before and you weren't pregnant. Get a grip.

SuchaJem · 25/04/2016 08:52

CD5Star

AF due 20 May for me. Gah that feels so far off!

Radders the maternity countdown will be so sweet. I hope you are only pushing this back a month Smile

I can't help but feel a bit negative this month, like I just know I'll be getting AF again in a few weeks. I can't really believe I could actually conceive. Better to have low expectations and be surprised I guess.

Mimilicious013 · 25/04/2016 08:11

Ohh radders, have a blessed day!!! Hope you will be OK hunFlowers

raddersmrs · 25/04/2016 08:05

I'm cd 3 if I take first day of miscarriage as my period. Although bleeding seems to have dried up now.

Thanks tee that's helpful.

Will dtd tonight if AF doesn't come back just in case! Going to go for every other day and then in FW try and do smep again.

If my cycle is 28 days AF will be due 21st may but I don't know how long it will be this month as I've had 28, 26 and then 30 days.

Going to work doesn't have the same appeal this morning as last week when I was pregnant and thinking of getting out of there in 9 months!

Have a good day everyone xx

Mimilicious013 · 25/04/2016 08:00

Morning 💐
Cd6Star ,af due around the 15th. My cycles seem to be getting shorter abt 24-26 days now. Dh was so eager to start the sexathon last night and l had it in my head that we are supposed to refuse until fw, so he gags for it laterHmm.had to give in today though.

I don't temp so don't know much but thanks tee, got myself a good lesson.

Tee4me · 25/04/2016 07:43

SuchaJem how long are your cycles? Looks like me, you & Radders might be due AF at a similar time. According to my calendar, I'm looking at 21st May xx

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Tee4me · 25/04/2016 07:35

Morning!
Radders there can often be random dips, I wouldn't think anything of it if it hasn't happened at a significant point in your cycle. The point of temping is to build up a general picture of your full cycle over the month. So you should be able to almost draw a horizontal line through the chart (called your coverline) and as a rule of thumb, pre ov temps should be somewhere below that, and post ov somewhere above it. But individual anomalies aren't really significant... what CD are you again?
I've attached a picture of the last full cycle I charted. Have indicated where ov & AF happened. See how depressing it is towards the end when temps start to drop, I hated seeing that!!

Back to SQUARE ONE CD1! Anyone want to spend April with me?!
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raddersmrs · 25/04/2016 07:09

My temp is 36.08 this morning ... That's quite low isn't it? Would that be classified as a dip in normal circumstances??
Surely can't be ovulating!

SuchaJem · 24/04/2016 22:16

Sorry about AF tee. Onwards and upwards to next cycle Smile

CD4 over here. Impatient for fw now!

Footprints1 · 24/04/2016 21:59

Brazil nuts are quite high in calories but if they do the job then worth cutting back on something else- like bread pasta pastry anything with flour in..they are wasted carbs.

Pineapple is yummy! I've been eating it from start of cycle just to get it into my system. A little bit each day. I chopped it up and put it into a tub in fridge so I could pick at it all week without keep having to cut it up.

Radders, I use to be very fit, but had trauma to my neck in an accident which caused a collapsed disc in my neck, so had trouble with it ever since. I still train others just not so much myself anymore. I crack the whip and only do half of what they have to do ;)

Tee4me · 24/04/2016 21:32

I went with x4 brazils each day, and 1 fresh pineapple over about 3 days. I didn't eat the core (the most potent part) because I read something about that together with aspirin could overdo the blood thinning effect. Just as well because the core is gross!!! Not sure about the others, but I only ate this stuff just after ovulation to around when implantation should happen.

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raddersmrs · 24/04/2016 21:21

I remember now footprints - sorry I forgot. Who knows what went on there but if you have had double ovulation that's double chances of catching an egg!
you're super fit then if you're a personal trainer!

I definitely could do with shifting a few pounds. I've got a healthy BMI but I don't think it means much as I def need to lose a bit. I've been doing a bit of juice plus.

Thanks Mimi, I am going to start taking the aspirin then. Will take it with all the other tablets I take.. I'm going to rattle.

How many Brazil nuts do you eat a day? And how much pineapple?

It's bizarre because we nearly didn't try this month to avoid December then we decided we didn't care in the end then this all happens.

Tee4me · 24/04/2016 21:01

Fab, lots of Greek yoghurt and berries for me this month then! Will try and swerve sugar (also swerving salt as that is very boy friendly), not much left on the menu for me!! Determined to be more relaxed this month though, that's the number 1 priority xx

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Footprints1 · 24/04/2016 20:45

Tee- Yes I'm a personal trainer. Use to do military/forces but now just private clients.
Self employed-Work around the kids being at school so I have lots of spare time in between clients.

fagè total Greek 0%yogurt is excellent for protein and dairy. Low in calories too.
That with pineapple and few Brazil nuts makes an excellent breakfast! Or pudding!

Tee4me · 24/04/2016 20:39

(She says after stuffing her face with a massive cream donut!!) SmileBiscuit
Diet starts tomorrow Wink xx

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Tee4me · 24/04/2016 20:25

Yes Footprints, I've heard a 'declining' state sways girl! I might try that this month. Dairy is good for girls too. Perhaps I'll focus more on that and not worry too much about timings.
Are you a Personal Trainer?
Yes defo take the aspirin in LP too because it helps with implantation. I second everything Mimi said about that, it's reassuring your doctor encouraged it Mimi!! That actually makes me feel better about persevering with it! xx

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Footprints1 · 24/04/2016 20:18

Just looking through my clients file and they both were on low carb low sugar diets. Hmm.. The investigation continues..

Lots of protein.. Grapefruit every morning..

Both did running and HIT (high intensity training). Great for stress, and releases good endorphins.

Footprints1 · 24/04/2016 19:57

CD23 Star 9dpo or 1dpo?!!

Radders- I either just ovulated or I im 9dpo. First ovulation this month I bled straight after LH surge and then got another few positives Friday- Sunday this weekend so I attempted to ovulate again! Weird stuff?!
Will see how I feel next weekend to Test which brings me to when AF is due from 1st Ov date. If no symptoms will hold on til the following week. Really don't think it's my month though !

Tee- yes I'd like to sway pink too! Although my fertility is low anyway as my hormones are high (FSH) and ovaries were a bit sleepy after pill. So to reduce my chances even more is tricky. Especially when I have no idea when I ovulate.?! Too many positive LH surges.
Do u take the aspirin in leutal phase too? Some things are not recommended in the later stage.

Jod- I still have loads of EWCM! Not complaining Wink do u? Do u think u ovulated today?

My boys keep thinking I'm poorly every morning with the temperature thing in my mouth! :)

Good point tee -spring baby sounds good. My youngest is April bub and was great walking pram in park on lazy spring summer days!!

2 of my clients fell pregnant losing weight. They were training with me for a bit whilst trying for baby and both fell pregnant. Both lost over a stone in weight in 6 weeks. Both had girls! Fewer calories may be the key?! For either a girl of a baby! Confused

Parney- hope you are feeling ok.

Nim- Fertility friend is not my friend today as now it thinks I'm going mad with two ovulation days! Confused

So who is next to test ladies?
Hope u all having a relaxing evening. I couldn't resist.. Glass of wine HmmWineHmm