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Back to SQUARE ONE CD1! Anyone want to spend April with me?!

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Tee4me · 30/03/2016 16:59

So AF got me this afternoon!! Trying not to get down in the dumps (although I just watched 'one born every minute' on catch-up and sobbed!)
Dusting myself off and hoping for better luck in April! A few stats:
Age-33
TTC-5th cycle
DC-1 DS (3.5 years old)
Anyone else at the start of their cycle and trying something new in the hope of a more successful month?!

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Tee4me · 26/04/2016 22:15

What do you teach Parney?? x

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Parney · 26/04/2016 22:08

Tee I was just thinking that about the success rate. Yea I think it's about a 20-25% chance each month even with perfect timing! So we're on the right track! More to follow!

Parney · 26/04/2016 22:04

Another teacher! I absolutely love it and all going well, my maternity leave should bring me up to summer holidays next year so wouldn't be returning until September. No idea how people create work/baby balance! Such interesting jobs though!
Ah Jem the list is lovely, no doubt there will be more joining lower list soon!🎉

raddersmrs · 26/04/2016 22:02

Have a lot of respect for you Kate .... I hated physics!! hehe

Tee4me · 26/04/2016 22:02

Maternity Leave is a great time to reevaluate where you want to be career wise. I used mine to re-qualify, re-train and generally do a lot of soul searching. Kind of feel in limbo at the moment now though as I'm so focused on TTC #2. Finding it hard to press on with work when I'm so distracted, and also have in mind another nice long stretch of Maternity Leave!

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Tee4me · 26/04/2016 21:57

25% success rate looking at that list! Isn't that roughly what your odds are each month if you time things correctly?! Let's keep the BFPs going! xx

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physicskate · 26/04/2016 21:57

I teach at an all-girls' school - so I have a reasonably captive audience! I think it is nice for them to see a young (even though at 32 they probably think I'm ancient) role model! Need to encourage more girls to take up Physics - I did it, they can too! But the 60-70 hour weeks aren't very sustainable! Would probably need to get an engineering degree, as theoretical physics is not terribly practical! I guess fear of the unknown plus a decent maternity package is keeping me where I am!!!

SuchaJem · 26/04/2016 21:42

I have never heard of piezoelectrics before psychics! It sounds really interesting. I bet teaching science can be challenging. I remember the poor science teachers getting a touch time at school. Not from me I hasten to add!

I'm a marketing manager of a magazine. Aren't we a mixed bunch Smile

raddersmrs · 26/04/2016 21:39

I'm an assistant manager for a customer based department in the Packaging industry. Probably printed some of the cartons you buy from the supermarket :)

After baby I hope to go back part time ... I won't be doing full time.

I take them separately... Got most of them from tesco xx

Tee4me · 26/04/2016 21:32

Good shout Jem, nice to see the grads! Let's hope we all pop over to that list sooner rather than later!!
Physics all sounds very interesting! Engineering would definitely offer more flexibility I reckon! I couldn't keep up a full time job once DS was here, but I know everybody is different, some have to go back, some chose to go back... it can be tricky finding the right balance.
What does everybody else do for work? So nice to hear about the personalities behind the names Smile xx

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Footprints1 · 26/04/2016 21:31

Your job sounds interesting, I wasn't very good at science. My son has been playing this new game called little alchemy. You have to mix components to create things/ it's quite addictive! You would be a pro at that.

Something else I stumbled across- fertility massage -

Looks good, although not sure when I can fit it in. Peeing on sticks has taken over my life! Blush

physicskate · 26/04/2016 21:20

I'm a physics teacher, though my field of research used to be piezoelectrics (trying to turn forces into electrical current - think pavement being walked on to generate electricity)... but upwards and onwards they say! With a little one in tow not sure I will be able to keep up with teaching - might have to get a nice cushy job in engineering or summat.

Funnily enough, I take pretty much those supplements! Except for CoQ10- it's crazy expensive! It's on the list to add if we don't conceive before the end of the summer hols. Diet could use some improvements...

SuchaJem · 26/04/2016 21:08

Would it help to include graduates? Am I missing anyone?

MAY
Nimisha - 3rd
Footprints - 6th
Jod - 7th
Summerblush - 10th
Psychickate - 13th
Mimi - 16th
Jem - 20th
Tee - 22nd
Radders - 22nd

Graduates
Parney
Newhair
January

SuchaJem · 26/04/2016 21:06

physicskate hahaha! I was wondering in fact if you were psychic when I typed your name out Smile

Ohh a physicist though - that sounds like a fascinating job. What kind of physics do you do?

Oooooooooh thanks for all this info footprints Shock I had heard of that book and was intrigued. I eat quite a lot of those fertility foods anyway. The bits I struggle with are alcohol caffeine and stress. How to cut these down??!!

With the supplements do you guys buy and take them individually or get a combo?

I only take folic acid with vit d and epo

raddersmrs · 26/04/2016 21:05

Thanks Jem - I have taken a screenshot to!
Feeling so positive and excited for this month xx

Tee4me · 26/04/2016 21:02

Nice work on the list Jem! I've taken a screen shot too, can't wait for our next BFP!
Thanks for all the info Footprints, always nice to hear of new tips! xx

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Parney · 26/04/2016 20:51

The list is good work Jem! It often feels like there are more than that on the thread as its so friendly and busy. Not bad going when you think of the BFPs so far! Good success rate!

raddersmrs · 26/04/2016 20:45

Thanks footprints really helpful

I take folic acid, omega 3, EPO, iron, vitamin b6, vitamin c and vitamin d daily

Footprints1 · 26/04/2016 20:38

I'm only half way through.. So if I read anything more that is of interest ill post part 2 in next day or so. Happy planning! :)

Footprints1 · 26/04/2016 20:36

I may have missed the bit about lily o'brien chocolates in the book but they should be added just got the feel good factor!! Winkthey are yummy I agree!

Footprints1 · 26/04/2016 20:33

That's great suchajem thanks. Nice to see the list of ladies waiting.

I take evening primrose oil capsules and it made me ovulate earlier this month.

I've been reading up on some stuff about conception from a book called- starts with the egg. It's about the science of egg quality etc.. Anyway, I've been noting key points down and thought you all may like to see my notes. You may already know all this but might be helpful.

Before conception- Multivitamin that includes folic acid,
B12 and vit B6 reduce risk of miscarriage and birth defects.

CoQ10- improves egg and embryo quality. (Ubiquinol form) - not suitable if you have type 2 diabetes) 200-300mg

Vit D- good hormone production.
Vit E- improves egg quality (not to use with aspirin)
Vit C-improves fertility

Reduce stress levels by gentle exercise, relaxation techniques.

Acupuncture for stimulating eggs and follicles. Helps with ovulation.

Cut down on carbohydrates which can cause high blood sugar and high insulin levels, these can decrease egg quality.
A Mediterranean diet is recommended with lots of fish.
The more alcohol you drink the less fertile you become.
Avoid caffeine

Foods to eat to boost fertility-
Vitamin packed vegetables- spinach, bell peppers, kale, broccoli,salad and greens.
Lean protein- fish, chicken,lean meat, beans and legumes.
Healthy fats- olive oil,avocado and nuts.
Unrefined carbs- quinoa,wild rice,buckwheat,bran cereal.
Berries
Sweet potato, squash,& carrots

raddersmrs · 26/04/2016 20:30

I've just sat here and ate nearly a whole box of those lily o briens chocolates. They're so nice!!

All my birthday chocolate has gone now yay x

physicskate · 26/04/2016 20:21

Hahaha sucha - I wish I was psychic! Then I could tell us all when this was actually going to happen... unfortunately, I'm just a physicist...

Summerblush1982 · 26/04/2016 20:05

Thanks Sucha for compiling it all Smile

Summerblush1982 · 26/04/2016 20:04

I've taken a screen shot of everyone's testing dates :-) sending all my positivity!!!! :-) we're in this together Smile I'm loving this support!! :-)