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Back to SQUARE ONE CD1! Anyone want to spend April with me?!

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Tee4me · 30/03/2016 16:59

So AF got me this afternoon!! Trying not to get down in the dumps (although I just watched 'one born every minute' on catch-up and sobbed!)
Dusting myself off and hoping for better luck in April! A few stats:
Age-33
TTC-5th cycle
DC-1 DS (3.5 years old)
Anyone else at the start of their cycle and trying something new in the hope of a more successful month?!

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Jod1985 · 22/04/2016 19:56

Wait 24hrs and see radders. I feel sad for you. Xxxx

Nimisha · 22/04/2016 19:51

Radders sorry to hear that, I created my first message ages ago but never sent it so I missed your message. Big hugs.

I'm not going to but any FRER tests, they seem more trouble that they are worth.

Nimisha · 22/04/2016 19:42

Hi January and welcome.

Jod and Footprints I would dtd like crazy, you never know, this might be the real deal with ovulation, only a temp rise can show you have ovulated. I'm not convinced I have this time as no temp rise so I'm going to keep doing OPKs just in case.

Mimi could that be an implantation bleed, worth doing a hpt in a few days just in case.

SuchaJem · 22/04/2016 19:21

Oh radders Sad I'm so so sorry. I hope you're alright my love and wish I could give you a big hug.

I hope you are proved wrong. Xxxxxx

physicskate · 22/04/2016 19:08

CD12

Really sorry to hear that radders. I had totally assumed things were done and dusted for you. Put your feet up and treat yourself to something nice tonight!!

Mimilicious013 · 22/04/2016 19:07

Ohh sorry radders,crossingSad fingers that your test tmwr might bear good news. Enjoy your night out ((even though difficult)) and see take one day at a time.

I think from now on it's best to poas only after af is late. It is so devastating, your head would have already geared up for pregnancy

raddersmrs · 22/04/2016 18:52

I only came off the pill in February and my first cycle was 29 days (so due today) and cycle after that was 26 days (so due Tuesday)
So not sure what it would've done this month... Comparing it to last yes I am.

It links to me not having any other pregnancy symptoms really I think

raddersmrs · 22/04/2016 18:46

Yea they were FMU.

Just want It to happen now so can move on to the next month and start again

Parney · 22/04/2016 18:36

Were your other FRERs FMU? The digi tests are horrible, sorry this is happening. AF officialy late yet? Going out might not feel like the best thing for you, but it will take your mind of all these tests for a while.

raddersmrs · 22/04/2016 18:29

I'm on CD30 ...

It's weird since had negative test I can feel AF like cramps.

Just feel sick and going out now for a takeaway at OHs cousin who's got a little baby.

If I hadn't had positives before maybe I would think it's too early but it's the fact they've gone. The squintiest line ever on FRER which I think might be grey anyway.

It's horrible waiting for the countdown on the clear blue. We were just staring at it.

Don't think it's hit me yet.

Going to do a FRER on FMU tomorrow morning just to confirm

Tee4me · 22/04/2016 18:20

Radders I'm so sorry to hear this. What CD would you be now? It's still more likely for a negative to be wrong than a positive to be wrong? I guess it's a case of watching and waiting, agonising I know! xx

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Parney · 22/04/2016 18:19

Oh Radders. I can't imagine what you must be feeling like, I hope you and your partner are ok.

Footprints1 · 22/04/2016 18:14

Jod- that's still not long. My first pregnancy didn't show up on tests until I was 5 weeks past my last period.

Footprints1 · 22/04/2016 18:11

I just looked it up and it would almost happen straight away or within 24 hours. Will be streaks of mucus with blood which develops into full AF type bleeding. So girls you haven't had that. Maybe just still early?

So sorry if it is... :(( xx

Jod1985 · 22/04/2016 18:10

Radders I'm sorry I just seen your comment!
I'm shocked! Maybe wait a few more days and test? I know I had positives too on FRER and then nothing. To be honest I dunno if I trust them now.

raddersmrs · 22/04/2016 18:07

Eventually a period should show yea.

We definitely weren't seeing things with a line. There was 100% one there.

Didn't think it was right when it wasn't getting darker.

I feel OK in myself. I've still got lots of CM

Just now feel pretty upset and numb and just not very nice

Jod1985 · 22/04/2016 18:07

footprints it's 4.5 weeks since coil out. I'm still a bit confused about it all as I def had positive tests but maybe they were false positives. How long does it take to start bleeding if it was a chemical?

Jod1985 · 22/04/2016 18:07

footprints it's 4.5 weeks since coil out. I'm still a bit confused about it all as I def had positive tests but maybe they were false positives. How long does it take to start bleeding if it was a chemical?

Footprints1 · 22/04/2016 18:04

Oh no radders! Really?? That's awful. Maybe see in a few more days? Do u feel ok? Any bleeding?? Would u bleed if chemical?

Footprints1 · 22/04/2016 18:02

Looks like tonight's going to be a busy productive night (hopefully) for lots of us!

Happy humping !WinkWink love it!!

Thanks for the tip about temps tee.. Mine is still up** when I checked this morning. Dipped yesterday but 0.4 up today. My graph is a bit all over the place and worried my temp will be going off the scale if it continues to rise! :)

Neighbour of mine just had baby and I had to play it cool when I saw her but was secretly eyeing up her new icandy peach and baby changing bag. She probably thought I was showing far too much interest of such things!! Hmm.

Footprints1 · 22/04/2016 18:02

Looks like tonight's going to be a busy productive night (hopefully) for lots of us!

Happy humping !WinkWink love it!!

Thanks for the tip about temps tee.. Mine is still up** when I checked this morning. Dipped yesterday but 0.4 up today. My graph is a bit all over the place and worried my temp will be going off the scale if it continues to rise! :)

Neighbour of mine just had baby and I had to play it cool when I saw her but was secretly eyeing up her new icandy peach and baby changing bag. She probably thought I was showing far too much interest of such things!! Hmm.

raddersmrs · 22/04/2016 17:59

Hey, hope everyone is ok.

I've done a digital test and first response and they are negative so think I've had a chemical.

Just feel numb

Footprints1 · 22/04/2016 17:51

Cd21Star

Hope AF stays away from you girls!

Jod- how are u feeling about it? I know it's good u maybe have got positive opks but are you upset that still no stronger BFP after your previous tests? I'm sure u are.. Hugs xx
Hang in there still as it could be pregnancy signs too. Anymore nausea? Do u think there's a chance it was a chemical pregnancy? How many days are u now since coil out?

Jod1985 · 22/04/2016 17:51

So glad I was doing those OPKs! Fate or what?! I def think I ovulated earlier in cycle too though. Maybe coil being removed caused hyper ovulation. Boobs still sore

Parney · 22/04/2016 16:49

I was asking tee all this opk questions at the beginning of the thread! You're a good teacher! Smile we will all be experts! I'm with you about keeping AF away!!!!