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(Still) ttc#2 continued

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Loki17 · 30/03/2016 09:45

New shiny thread everyone! Smile

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Mimilicious013 · 19/04/2016 09:44

Hie everyone, hie gx. Wrote 3msg and they disappeared Hmm.will keep trying

Gx91 · 19/04/2016 07:49

Welcome spots and rosalie
Sorry to hear about ur losses Flowers Sad hope u we can give u the extra support u need to get bk on the TTC wagon , it really is very tiresome isn't it !
Sending baby dust to u both and hope for some BFPs soon X
Good luck for scan rosalie hope it's good news for u X

Hey little , lovely to hear from u , it will b lovely to see ur little bean at the wkend ( always nice and reassuring at the sm time ) how many weeks r u now ? X
Mimi how r u today ? Any gagging or other positive symptoms , very hopeful for u this cycle !! Xx
Abc , hope u get some answers soon have u tried temping ? X

abcdemma · 18/04/2016 22:44

Hi spots and rosalie, sorry to read what you've both been through Flowers
Hopefully it's onwards and upwards now for you both x

Spotsondots · 18/04/2016 22:34

Hi Rosalie. Sorry to hear you've been through MC as well Thanks Hope all goes well with your test result.

RosalieR · 18/04/2016 21:57

Sorry Spots, that sounds awful.

Hope it's ok if I join too?

I have a gorgeous 2.5yr old ds, also been trying for #2 since Jan last year and had an early mc last month :-( Trying to pick up the positive thinking & healthy living after the mc. I've got a scan tomorrow to see if a weird result in Jan was just that or if it's something that needs treatment.

Sending baby dust all round!

Spotsondots · 18/04/2016 21:22

Hi all

May I join your little gang? I recognise one or two names from the TTC buses at the end of last year.

A little about me. I'm 32, have one amazing DS 2.5y and been TTC #2 since January 2015. Found out (though unsurprised) that I have PCOS along the way. We found out we were pregnant early February and were so thrilled. Just before Easter I went to my dating scan at 13 weeks, oblivious to the fact that our baby had died at 9 weeks. I miscarried naturally over easter weekend. I am heartbroken and feel like we may never have another child. This is my second miscarriage. I had one just before conceiving our DS too, at around 6 weeks.

Just getting my head around starting TTC again. It would be nice to have some friends along the way, since all of my friends in RL are already pregnant with or nursing their #2/3/4...

LittleHeart2014 · 18/04/2016 21:08

Mimi and Gx thank you for asking after me Smile glad to know you're both well, besides the tiredness Gx (I remember it well), and hope it's good news for you over the coming days Mimi!

Nice to see some scan pics. We're getting a reassurance scan this weekend as I'm keen to see how things are progressing. I have this constant feeling of dread and it's just not healthy to go on like this until the 12 week scan.

Good luck to everyone else in their tww and sending all the pregnant ladies happy vibes for the remainder of your pregnancies. Besides having SPD I really enjoyed being pregnant with my DD and I hope I can relax and start enjoying this pregnancy soon x

Gx91 · 18/04/2016 15:19

Sorry abc it sounds very frustrating ! I had the sm problem with long cycles after bc pill , it's a nightmare hope Af ovulation or BFP happen for u , I'm sure u would take any at the moment just to have something happen X

Peyia , no birth plan , can't decide whether to go for planned cs this time as had a difficult long labour ending with ECS with DD X
Plus OH works away and can only take 1 week paternity leave ( self employed ) so would b helpful to have a date , otherwise he may not even b there ! X
Still time to make a decision I suppose . I'm with u tho wouldnt have a birth plan lol we all know it could go out the window on the day , just take it how it comes! Lol u nervous at all ? X
Hope everyone's having nice day xx

abcdemma · 18/04/2016 11:22

Hi all, I'm on cycle day 43 with no sign of ov nor anything else so I'm at a loss really Confused
Hope everyone else is well x

Peyia · 18/04/2016 10:01

Wow Pulled, that 15 weeks has flown by. You'll be feeling movement soon Grin

I'm 27+1!!

Aww G, the tiredness is awful I know. Do you have a birth plan? I'm just hoping for the best!!!

Gx91 · 18/04/2016 09:51

Morning all hope u had a nice weekend ?
We wee busy visiting family , I fell asleep on the couch sitting up last night ! X
Mimi , really hope this is ur time !! Showing some good signs when r u going to test Wink x
I'm 26+4 weeks X

Peyia , glad U enjoyed ur scan and got a good pic ! Really is a strange feeling watching them in there !
Hope ur nerve pain goes away! I'm looking pretty big this time round and getting breathless all the time , need to start getting prepared soon X

Cockles and pulled , hope sickness is wearing off now so u can enjoy the second trimester ! X

(( waves )) Kellz , jenni and abc what's been happening with u guys?X

Hope Loki is ok shame to lose one our our ladies xx

Pulledapart2015 · 18/04/2016 09:30

good morning all Flowers hope all had a nice weekend.

mimi that sounds really promising. Really hope this is it for u and my prediction comes true Grin x

peyia nice to hear from u. rest is important so get as much as u can. how far along are u now? I'll be 15 weeks tomorrow still trying to get over the fact I'm preggers Grin

Hope everyone has a lovely day xxx (p.s. the sun is out Smile )

Peyia · 18/04/2016 09:05

Eeeeek Mimi!!! I hope this is it!!

I'm off work today (baby is sat on a nerve) so managing to catch up Smile

Pulled, congrats on your scan. It's so lovely to see them.

G, our boy was lying into the placenta so didn't see loads but managed to get a nice pic of him yawning.

Mimilicious013 · 18/04/2016 08:59

Morning my friends Flowershope you all had a good weekend. gx peyia pulled cockles,how far are you guys now?
abc kellz jenni when are you poas?
Af is due this week. I have symptoms that can easily be pregnancy or af. Just threw up after wiping dd, and gagged at my breakfast ConfusedConfused

Peyia · 18/04/2016 08:57

So sorry Loki Flowers

If you're still reading you could name change and private message those you got on with to let them know your new name. Such a shame to let outlet of support go!

All the best x

abcdemma · 17/04/2016 20:48

loki very sorry to read what's happened. I agree it's an appalling violation of privacy Angry
I know I've only been here a short while compared to some but I really do wish you all the best Flowers

CocklesandMussels · 17/04/2016 12:21

Loki that's just awful behaviour. We will miss you, wishing you all the very best Flowers

Pulledapart2015 · 17/04/2016 10:33

oh loki I feel so Angry for you. I'm so sorry to read that someone thought it's acceptable to do this. I really hope you have some RL support and wish you the best of luck ((( hugs ))) you will be sorely missed Flowers Please stay strong!

Mimilicious013 · 17/04/2016 07:53

Will miss you loki.am sorry for what you are going through. It's amazing that there are cruel and unearthical people out thereAngry.

Thanks for the time and experience we've shared. It's been a pleasure being your buddy and here is wishing you the very bestFlowers.
((hugs here too))

Gx91 · 17/04/2016 07:28

Oh Loki , I completely get every word u said ! Ur bang on about what this sight gives to us , it is such a private thing and a massive deal that someone violated ur privacy ! Angry they should have known better .
I'm so angry right now , after everything uv been through ! It is like a diary, I understand how u must be feeling , shame on the person Angry who went through ur most private thoughts and feelings . ( they had no right !)
This was a place where u could let out all the hard stuff u wer forced to conceal during ur normal day , so sad u have to leave us and worried about u at the sm time hope u will have the sm support from someone on the outside or someone to talk to X
Going to miss u Loki I really wish u all the best , ( massive hugs ) such a shame Xxx

Loki17 · 16/04/2016 20:34

Ladies I am going to be deactivating my account from today. In real life, someone who should know better has been stalking my posts on here and has just used their knowledge of my posts against me in an argument. I'm completely gutted because this place had become my sanctuary and you have all been so brilliant with helping me through everything. This forum has been the only thing that has kept me sane and im not sure how ill cope without it but I cant post here again. I feel like my diary has been read and all of my innermost thoughts have been ripped out and laid bare. This was my one place where I could just vent without having to be brave or filter myself. More often than not it helped me to make better choices in real life and reflect on my own thoughts. It was private and just between me and you - our anonymity providing a barrier that meant I didn't have to worry about your reactions - I could just 'be'. It was the only real source of information about what might happen to me during my miscarriage. It was the only place I could talk daily about my lost baby and my struggle to conceive because, actually in real life no one wants to hear. No one else could say 'I understand'. I just can't post on here anymore knowing that my privacy has been so utterly pillaged. Even if I changed my name I couldn't tell you it was me. I'm so fricking angry I can't even begin to put it into words. Good luck to you all. I really hope you get your well deserved bfp soon. Thank you for all of your support and for sharing your stories. FlowersWine

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Loki17 · 16/04/2016 12:25

Cd18. 10 days away from either af or a chance to test. Going to get back in the saddle tonight even though I think ov happened in the week following af (going by ewcm). I'm taking a break next month though. I've got really important deadlines at work so I'm going to concentrate on that and forget about ttc for a while. It is just too hard.

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Mimilicious013 · 16/04/2016 08:09

Me too Loki, just hope this is it. What cd are u on?

Loki17 · 16/04/2016 07:49

I'm still here. I'm lurking though. Not much to report. Thinking about taking a break after this month. It's starting to take its toll to be honest.

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Mimilicious013 · 16/04/2016 07:31

Happy Saturday my friends Flowers.this thread is getting quieter Hmm