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Thread : Lucky Number 13 take 2. TTC#1 The one where AF can kiss our arse!

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 23/03/2016 09:57

Hugh enjoys ISW and his love affair with Doreen. He watches out for skittle tits and weepyitis. Mrs Arseholey Fucknut (Af) shows up when you least want her but brings wine and soft cheese as a consolation prize.

We don't have rules as such but expect to be talked down from the ledge with kind and well meaning but firm words if you get too hysterical. But most importantly don't convince yourself you're pregnant in the tww That is paramount!

We don't get a lot of baby dust in these here parts. We want a fanny full of determined Doreen, not unicorn farts and gnome tears with extra sparkle. We've been going a while now so the novelty has somewhat worn off and we're slightly battle scarred and bruised in the cervix area.

Post your stats and add your dates. We have a register thanks to kats stats I am resident piss stick queen and if you don't test, you get a Starky's Star

When you post stats, add your predicted test/af date. We are currently running at about 49% pregnant with the grads thread over in ante-natal which we all hope to join soon.

WE SHALL WIN IN THE GAME OF SPERM MEETS EGG! IT WILL HAPPEN!

Thread : Lucky Number 13 take 2. TTC#1 The one where AF can kiss our arse!
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Kwick709 · 10/04/2016 20:31

vixarooni glad to hear you are feeling a bit better and see you on grads soon!

Feefs so I have mood swings to look forward to? Joy!

God I am getting so tired of the 2 daily injections... covered in bruises and now it is REALLY hard to find un-painful spots to do the stabbing!

Canters you there? As my "virtual" GP Wink, please can you tell me where else can I inject an intramuscular injection? I have already "used" up upper bum quadrants, both sides, plus upper thigh, both sides.

SuchaJem · 10/04/2016 20:28

Oops I said starky instead of kwick re sticking around. It applies to all grads anyway!

feef I'm so fixated on the bfp goalposts I can't even think about what happens beyond. What would you recommend reading?

Feefeefs · 10/04/2016 20:13

I am writing on both! Grads and this one ha ha thread slut.

I'm not enjoying this so far which makes me feel terrible, I wish I'd read more about early pregnancy before and would encourage you guys too if you want to. I didn't want to read it in case I got too excited/unrealistic when TTC but I was I had now as its all a bit overwhelming.

Think the mood swings are hitting in now too...

twinkydink · 10/04/2016 19:28

Thanks for all the tips ladies am on CD3 so will start today. Fingers crossed! Just want to try and get a better understanding of my cycle really too.

Kwik please don't leave, I feel like it really helps having grads give advice and support. Especially grads who didn't conceive straight away, makes me realise I am normal! But also appreciate we probably stop being much use to you to help with your worries and questions so makes sense for you to move on to grad threads.

Hugs vix you sound incredibly strong and like you have a wonderful partner. My dp was great when AF arrived this week he gave me the space I needed and then cheered me up when I was ready. I think sometimes we forget that they are probably extremely disappointed too

SuchaJem · 10/04/2016 19:25

starky stick around here all you need to. I enjoy hearing about how you're getting on - even realising that a bfp doesn't end the worry.

vix glad you're okay and good on your oh looking after you.

ni nothing less than I'd expect from ttc! It's been happening a while now so I'm mentally cheering it on. Bury down little bean! If you are there at all!

Ni4444 · 10/04/2016 18:55

Jem I'm sorry to say I had that in my tww last cycle, without a BFP. Although, my temps rose again around 8dpo so I might have had a brief implantation. Bloody typical ttc answer, isn't it?! No..eh, maybe....eh...dunno!!

Aw ladies I hadn't thought of how glacial things are in the first trimester! I guess that's the downside of getting a BFP so early, rather than only realising one is upduffed weeks after AF date. How meh for you all! Midwife apts and scans sound exciting though -I'm sure it will feel more real after those! You see, we need you guys on here to prepare us for what is to come!! 😉
Aw...just realised im not going to have a baby in 2016! Wow 2017 is soo far away. Hurry up ovaries!!

vixarooni · 10/04/2016 18:49

No Kwik its not! Thanks for your kind words all of you :)

I'll be back in sure of that, just need to do a bit of a refresh! Must have cried about 15 times today, mourning what might have been but I'm feeling a lot better now. My OH is such an amazing support, he's really pulled me through today and got me smiling again this afternoon.

Just look out for me in that grads group all of you!!

Kwick709 · 10/04/2016 18:35

starky I had a bit of a wobble earlier - suddenly got some kind of stabbing/pulling in my womble which really freaked me out! Now I am on knicker watch! I have the early scan tomorrow... very, very nervous but better to know sooner rather than later - they should be able to tell if ectopic, if developing okay, may see a heart flash.

Suchajem fingers crossed it is implantation... for all my symptom spotting though I did not feel mine.

Confession time: I did start lurking on two grads threads... but this does not feel real yet so am kinda in limbo land as I am not sure I should be hanging out on TTC threads anymore either... but MN is just about the only thing that keeps me sane!!!! okay well maybe that is exaggerating slightly, MN is the only thing that keeps me less cray-cray

Kwick709 · 10/04/2016 18:26

Vixarooni I hope I have not missed my chance to say that I will miss you! I am so sorry this cycle was not the one. Take care & God speed. Flowers

SuchaJem · 10/04/2016 18:10

I've got small but nagging stabbing sensation in my lower abdomen - left hand side - just above my hip - on and off the last 40 minutes ish.

Am day 18 and had my positive OPK on Thursday ... Surely this is too late for ovulation? Could it be implantation?

(Please please please let it be implantation...)

Feefeefs · 10/04/2016 17:54

I got the 20 twink but only used 7 in the end! You can't buy the refills on there own tho so 20 maybe better. I used EPO too bought it in Morrisons for £1! I took 3 tablets a day -1000mg start of period until positive ovulation test.

Glad you're ur feeling well starky 5+2 and I feel rotten!!! Booked an early scan 23rd April hoping it breaks up the glacial time

StarkyTheDirewolf · 10/04/2016 16:54

Hiyaaaah ni Im 7+3 (I think!) And literally don't feel a different to how I felt in the tww! Boobs are slightly tender, I'm hungry more, waking up more easily when Dh gets in bed but aside from that I'm just as gassy and bloated as usual! Got my booking in appointment on Wednesday. This bit is just reeeeally boring! Honestly, time is glacial, and I can't get excited about anything yet. It's like shroedingering on acid! I'm waking up every day waiting/expecting to feel rotten! How are you?

kwick Im it sure entirely when my next af would have been, ill have to work it out hough I suppose it would be around the 9/10 week mark going off my cycles. How are you feeling?

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SuchaJem · 10/04/2016 16:26

Hi hep it's a promotion to senior manager and would be managing a small team. Where I am now I launched a new magazine last year which is going really well, it's hard work but it's fun and there's lots of opportunities. Both quite different, both have pros and cons.

Peaches8Posies · 10/04/2016 15:38

Sounds like a chemical vix take care of yourself xx

skip trip sounds like a cracker! Hope you have a ball. Feels like forever since I've had the summer on my skin.

Really tired today, so been pretty lazy. Hope everyone is having a nice day before the Monday meyham tomorrow ☺

Ni4444 · 10/04/2016 15:17

Yeah, take EPO from AF to ovulation Twink. I'm taking a tab (1000mg) in the morning, and one in the evening. Apparently you can take up to 3000mg a day for cervical fluid, but I found I got dull headaches when I took 3000mg a day (in fairness I was taking the tablets at the same time...Maybe spacing throughout the day would have prevented the headaches!)

Good to see you Stark. How many weeks and days are you now? Are you feeling OK?

StarkyTheDirewolf · 10/04/2016 14:53

Always bulk order twink it gets addictive! Epo, I got a packet of 90 from aldi, took 1 capsule from cd 2 -approx 16/17.

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twinkydink · 10/04/2016 14:43

Thanks feef I'm ordering off of amazon today. Should I get the pack of 10 or 20?

Also purchased some evening primrose oil today, what's the deal with it? How often do I take it?

HepKestrel · 10/04/2016 14:20

Flowers vix

sucha ignoring the maternity package side of things....

how much better is this new job? how often can you imagine a chance like this coming again?

Ni4444 · 10/04/2016 14:02

Heart goes out to you Vix. What a cruel roller-coaster. Lots of love xxxx

Julia2016 · 10/04/2016 13:06

So sorry vix, it's so bloody hard. 😔

SuchaJem · 10/04/2016 12:30

feef I think I will stay, if I wasn't trying I would leave but I've got to be positive about conceiving and doing what's best with that in mind.

skip eerrrrrr that trip sounds amazing!

StarkyTheDirewolf · 10/04/2016 11:51

Sounds like a possible chemical vix I'm so sorry mate, it really does take an emotional toll, I always found myself stepping back and having to take a breather for a few days at the beginning of a new cycle. Be kind to yourself Flowers

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LovelyFishy · 10/04/2016 11:12

Ttc is a whole lot harder than I ever imagined. Many many emotions. Especially when you think you've got it... Love and take care of yourself Vix. Flowers

So I had my first discovering I'm pregnant dream last night. Now trying not to think it's a sign as I'm at the beginning of my tww. Confused

Feefeefs · 10/04/2016 11:03

Sorry about AF twinky I used a clear blue digital ovulation kit. Found it really good not having to interpret.

Sounds amazing fx!

Jem that does sound a bit crap! Maybe best to stick where you are?

I'm so sorry vix!Thanks

Jamjar12 · 10/04/2016 10:13

Oh vix, I'm so sorry! I'm sorry for getting all excited too, that probably didn't help. It's such a roller coaster of emotions, it's a wonder we don't all go crazy. I'm finding it just as hard on the other side waiting for scans and appointments too.

Taking a break and focusing on things outside of TTC and MN sounds like a good idea. Our broodiness is overwhelming sometimes but it's not worth making yourself miserable for. Please take care of yourself and remember everyone here is wishing you well ThanksThanks

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