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early symptoms- when do I test!???

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AnxiousBetty · 13/03/2016 13:57

Hi there, I ov either on the 28th of this month or a couple days later, I'm not sure if I am 9dpo or 14 dpo at this point but I'm guessing more towards 9dpo so ... With that my symptoms have been as following :
6 or 11dpo - slight nausea, headaches, peeing a lot, bloating, constipation, tiredness, little bit of white cm
7 or 12dpo - woke up feeling nauseous and that carried on with public transport but haven't been sick, woke up with lower leg cramps too. Feeling pregnant. Boobs are still swollen and still bloated. Cm has returned to clear and stretchy consistency Took a test but BFN
8 or 13dpo - symptoms easier today, feeling tired and breasts have been fluctuating a bit in size but no tenderness, had more cramping and sharp abdominal pains than normal but no bleeding. Felt a bit nauseous eating salted crisps but other than that not much nausea.
Still stuck with the clear stretchy cm
9 or 14dpo - had more cramping today in the morning and still feeling extremely thirsty and needing the loo a lot. Nipples have been slightly tender but only for a short while. I'm now basically all dried up down there, no sign of any cm.... Good or bad sign Hmm????

I'm trying so hard to resist the testing urge but I bought 4 asda own early response tests yesterday and it's so tempting. Would tomorrow (10 dpo) be too early!? af is due Wednesday or Thursday as far as I know so that would be 12 or 13dpo

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sabzh · 19/03/2016 15:28

Hey Ladies! I've been reading this thread with great interest too and with my fxed! Congratulations to those who eventually got their BFP! Smile and to those who haven't yet, i hope you get it soon, never lose hope!

Im trying ttc#2 with Pcos, 10 months after giving birth to DD1. Ive said to myself im not going to get myself so stressed and upset over it like i did with #1 as i think that may have delayed me conceiving so im trying to be calmer now. Bloody hard though!

My periods have always been irregular ranging from 27 days to 35 and i was hoping child birth would have helped me but seems not! Im waiting for my 3rd AF to arrive now but its now been 40 days since my last period. I tested on day 38 but it was sadly a BFN which I expected anyway. But now reading all of your messages im wondering if i should test again today?

You see my cramps are mega painful this time and has been here since last Tuesday (9th Mar) and really feels like AF is coming. I'm not getting any other symptoms though, maybe just tiredness but i think i can put that down to my 10month old lol.

Betty have you tested again? X

AnxiousBetty · 19/03/2016 13:42

Not much to report back ladies, nipples getting less and less sore, boobs still swollen not sore. No more white cm ... Cramps but no AF .... Confused

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WickerHearts · 19/03/2016 08:19

Yes we did that this month, started on about CD10 and I ovulated on CD16 I think. Not sure whether it helped or was just coincidence that this was our month. But worth a try Smile xx

cnchapmanxx · 18/03/2016 22:58

Sorry I meant last month haha xx

cnchapmanxx · 18/03/2016 22:56

I did wicker thankyou Hun! Is that what you followed? I only got to cd11 using my opks and the. We went to Rome and I forgot to pack them so that might of not helped :( xxxx

WickerHearts · 18/03/2016 22:24

Ah then it must be your turn next month Smile we were exactly the same with finding time to, but we had to just make time. Did you take a look at that SMEP link I posted earlier this eve? Worth a read Smile xx

cnchapmanxx · 18/03/2016 22:21

Oh wicker you a month before me then we officially being trying since December so hope j follow you next month Hun! Yeah he's amazing I love him so much he seen this morning how upset I was. He said we will put more effort in this month, we do quite a lot of overtime and we are always tired most nights so never get round to dtd a lot, bless him!

Cherry - what tests did you use? A frer or them cheapy ones? Fx for you hope AF stays away! And yeah he's a good en! Xx

WickerHearts · 18/03/2016 22:16

Evening Chapman Smile
Sounds like you've had a well deserved relaxing evening...brownie points for DH Wink
We've been trying since Nov, so maybe not as long as some people, but has felt like ages to us lol

Cherry, if you're CD35 that's looking good right?! Smile

Xx

cherry4 · 18/03/2016 22:06

chapman bfn on tuesday so might wait a few more days before giving it another go. My last four/five periods have been less than 30 days cycle but it was irregular before that due to being on the pill for ages.

Glad your other half has looked after you tonight.

cnchapmanxx · 18/03/2016 22:03

Evening girls wow I missed loads haha!!
Been out for tea with the DH to cheer me up he's such a good egg just wish one of my eggs would stick haha!!
Wicker how long had you been trying for babe before you conceived? Bet your so excited and nervous it'l all be worth it! X
Betty - bet you can't wait to test Hun when are you testing? Hoping it's a bfp for you seems like you've proper been through the mill this month with all these symptoms!!
Cherry - thankyou Hun was gutted earlier on but bit happier now don't know why but I suppose what will be will be! Have u tested at all?? X
Radders - good luck lovely! Fx it's a bfp! Feel like am the only one with AF haha xxx

WickerHearts · 18/03/2016 21:23

That's good Cherry :) how long are your cycle usually?

Yes should have a scan in approx 7 weeks time I guess, will be 12 weeks then. Ah well, will find out soon enough Smile

Hope AF stays away Betty!!

Xx

AnxiousBetty · 18/03/2016 21:17

Well I'm not too sure, I thought it was sometime this week but if it hasn't turned up by Monday then I'll be late for sure.
I'm exactly the same every time I go too!

Ah bless, I think they just do a check up and stuff, I think you'll have a couple weeks before any kind of scan GrinSmile xxx

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cherry4 · 18/03/2016 21:11

Congratulations miniature!

Sorry to hear AF came for you chapman Flowers

Still no AF for me! CD 35.

WickerHearts · 18/03/2016 20:57

When is/was AF due for you Betty? Did you figure it out? Haha I kept expecting the same, I still check each time I wipe just to make sure (Sorry, tmi!!)

I'm 5 weeks on Saturday Smile Not really sure what to expect at the doctors app, anyone know what it is for? Or just a referral maybe?!

AnxiousBetty · 18/03/2016 20:51

I am so impatient to test so it would be so hard for me to wait till Wednesday! Think I'm a poas addict Grin

I'm sure it will be fine wicker, let us know how it goes! Do you know exactly how far along you are or are you waiting for the doctors to tell you?
I've been feeling a bit nauseous for a few days at around 1-2 ish but think it may just be in my head Hmm
My boobs are more swollen today too but they've never been sore

I keep rushing to the loo expecting to see red but NOTHING! Xxx

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WickerHearts · 18/03/2016 20:24

Radders, I found the cheapie blue tests quite bad. Not very sensitive at all! OPK's though I found good Smile

MiniatureW · 18/03/2016 20:24

Raddersmrs not sure! I know I had a period the week commencing the 15th of February but because I don't know what day I can't work out when I ovulated!

AnxiousBetty my symptoms are like yours- I've been really thirsty (usually I barely drink all day but I've been downing pints of water), my boobs started to hurt over a week before I thought I might be due on, usually they only hurt a couple of days before. The cramping has been awful, my tummy is also really tender to touch, I'm trying not to worry about it because it's very similar to my first pregnancy!

Xx

WickerHearts · 18/03/2016 20:18

I am really nervous!! We've been trying for a while and been gutted at getting the BFN's, now the BFP has shown up suddenly I'm really nervous about what's to come. But also excited Smile I've been feeling quite nauseous around dinner time each day which is very annoying, looking at food is making me feel a bit funny Confused

My breasts don't feel too bad today actually, just slightly swollen I guess.

Stay positive Radders Smile

raddersmrs · 18/03/2016 20:17

Thanks Betty. Hope you do to.
I have a morrisons test which says can be taken four days before AF which is Wednesday so going to try and hold out until then.
I have some of the sticks like the opks, the blue ones, which are supposed to be more sensitive but I've heard there a bit rubbish!

AnxiousBetty · 18/03/2016 20:06

It's still early yet radders, test again in 4-5 days and hopefully something will show up then. I'm gonna test again on Monday I think ... I hope you get your bfp soon xx

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AnxiousBetty · 18/03/2016 20:04

It's just the start of your journey now wicker! Are you nervous at all about it?

I'm hoping it's good signs. I've had cramps and stuff. I keep getting random sore throats and I'm undecided on how thirsty j actually am... Nipples are slightly sore but much less than yesterday. Maybe it's just an off day Hmmxxx

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raddersmrs · 18/03/2016 19:42

Congratulations miniature!
How many days pre/post Expected AF were you when you get a positive?

I'm doubting I Dtd enough round ovulation now. I think I am approx 8 dpo.

Not having any symptoms really. Feeling cramps etc in my tummy and have creamy cm but think that's where it should be with the stage of my cycle. Starting to think I'm not pregnant now. Just want to know Sad

WickerHearts · 18/03/2016 19:08

Congratulations miniature!! I rung the gp surgery today to book my first appointment with the doctor...suddenly feels real Confused
Betty sounds good though, anymore symptoms today?
Yes would be great to go through this together xx

AnxiousBetty · 18/03/2016 18:54

CONGRATULATIONS MINIATURE!
Hopefully we can all move on to a pregnancy thread soon after we have all got our bfps!
I really hope I get my bfp! GrinBlush xxx

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AnxiousBetty · 18/03/2016 18:53

Yes I have but only a really small amount and it dried quite clear in my knickers (tmi lol) so I'm not really sure. I had like a pea size amount about 2 days ago and then today was about twice as much. Not getting too excited though as feel AF is coming on- lots more cramps today Hmm
Xxx

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